Do most women like getting fucked in the ass?

[dolfette]

who said i was talking about you, paranoia boy?

 

[dolfette]

http://www.lpsg.org/2236314-post56.html

^^^the person i actually accused of being a troll, rather than the strange, paranoid man i wasn't even conversing with.

 

[mgtihlah]

http://www.lpsg.org/2236314-post56.html

^^^the person i actually accused of being a troll, rather than the strange, paranoid man i wasn't even conversing with.

Yeah.... let's see here:

• I have a toon avatar.
• I posted a mere three posts above you when you stated this.
• In this thread at least, you've displayed an uncanny knack for thinking people have said things that they haven't actually said, and then conflating that into something they never said nor implied.

Got it - it makes SOOOO much sense now. How did I miss your crystal clear accusation, since you made it oh-so-obvious as to whom you were referring?

 

[strutter2]

Thanks Dolfette!
Given the vitriol that seems to spew forth from certain male posters on here, I don't hold out much hope for them. I wonder if they realise that while some women may enjoy anal sex, many - most of the women I have met and worked with - don't and if they indulge do it because of pressure or because they fear losing a boyfriend or husband for fear of being deemed inadequate. You've just got to look at the small percentage of hookers that offer it as a service to note that it isn't popular.

 

[strutter2]

MGTIwhatever - Dolfette's posts make perfect sense to most people on here - nice bit of male narsicism there!

 

[strutter2]

I think the real problem with some of the male posters is that, far from accusing them all of being mad butt rapists, I pointed out some abuse that happened to me - and guess what women aren't suppose to do that are they? They are supposed to keep silent about rape, abuse etc lest they spoil the sexual fantasies of men.

 

[D_Mylor Mentallydaft]

Thanks Dolfette!
Given the vitriol that seems to spew forth from certain male posters on here, I don't hold out much hope for them. I wonder if they realise that while some women may enjoy anal sex, many - most of the women I have met and worked with - don't and if they indulge do it because of pressure or because they fear losing a boyfriend or husband for fear of being deemed inadequate. You've just got to look at the small percentage of hookers that offer it as a service to note that it isn't popular.

something i have noticed in women i have dated, spoken to at length, over heard ect, even 2 or 3 on this site. in the public dissicussion there are alot of women who will down play the intrest or even flat out deny it when it comes to anything kinky esp this.

not that dolfette and there others or lying or less that 101% truthful, but a woman, alot of times, will deny intrest to keep from being judged.... some what like homophobic curious men. nothing wrong with it, its your bussiness

 

[SR_Blarney_Frank]

You've just got to look at the small percentage of hookers that offer it as a service to note that it isn't popular.

Yes we should all look to sex workers as the arbiter of what's acceptable and what's not in sexual relationships. Hookers don't kiss either. What do we make of this? Again, your experience is representative of your experience. Why you insist in extrapolating this to the rest of women is beyond me.

They are supposed to keep silent about rape, abuse etc lest they spoil the sexual fantasies of men.

You seem to be writing your own script here since nobody has even suggested such a thing. I think I've been pretty clear that what you've gone through personally has nothing at all to do with broader attitudes about anal sex. Understood it affects yours, but you don't seem inclined to leave it at that. Apparently by pointing out the unfairness of suggesting most men involved in anal sex are forcing it on their partners, I'm somehow telling you to shut up and go away. In reality, I disagree with you. It happens. These threads get pretty damn boring otherwise.

 

[mgtihlah]

I think the real problem with some of the male posters is that, far from accusing them all of being mad butt rapists, I pointed out some abuse that happened to me - and guess what women aren't suppose to do that are they? They are supposed to keep silent about rape, abuse etc lest they spoil the sexual fantasies of men.

Anyone who has fully comprehended most of the male posters' posts here, knows full well that most of them (including me) support you posting about what happened to you. No one can take away the trauma you experienced. No one can deny any pain you've gone through. And I'm honestly, truly and sincerely sorry that such a thing happened to you.

Furthermore, your sarcastic comment is wholly untrue, and legions of men agree that women SHOULD come forward when they are abused or raped. But your experiences have NOTHING to do with others' consensual - and simultaneously enjoyable by both parties - experiences with anal sex. Projecting your problems onto others won't make your issues go away. Sharing them here is one thing. Telling others they are wrong or will have health problems or "there's a reason why prostitutes don't do it" doesn't have a thing to do with mutually consensual sexual activity.

I would simply ask that you take a moment to understand that what we're asking you to do is NOT conflate YOUR (or others') bad experiences with the consensual anal sex that others of us here engage in.

It's seems clear from the two simulateaneous "sexual fantasies of men" and "male narcissism" statements you made that you've got serious issues with men in general. I'm not defending all men; there are a lot of shithead males out there. But don't blame ALL men for the idiot men you've obviously had the displeasure of running into in your life. Because not all men fit the sweeping generalization and stereotype you're promoting, and frankly, I find the suggestion more than a bit offensive, especially considering the men here who have defended you either explicitly or implicitly.

 

[SR_Blarney_Frank]

what, anyone unfortunate enough to be fucked up by life should refrain from posting here, because retractions just aren't good enough for saint steven?.

You do understand the term "straw man" right? It's when you introduce a premise that nobody established and then proceed to contradict it. I'm still looking for the post where I said she should refrain from posting here.

Clearly you're just looking to engage in a pissing match. Fortunately by virtue of gender, I've got better aim.

 

[D_Mylor Mentallydaft]

You do understand the term "straw man" right? It's when you introduce a premise that nobody established and then proceed to contradict it. I'm still looking for the post where I said she should refrain from posting here.

Clearly you're just looking to engage in a pissing match. Fortunately by virtue of gender, I've got better aim.

you're NEW, huh?

 

[SR_Blarney_Frank]

So obviously, approach and technique play a part.

Good thing I'm taking the bullets on this thread or you'd be hung out to dry for this one :biggrin1:

 

[greatdickismydrug]

This thread began with a simple question. Some answered, "no." Dolfette in particular was singled out and repeatedly offered unwelcome suggestions on how she could change her experienced-formed opinion. She became rightfully irritated. This encouraged those of us who feel similar to Dolfette to respond to the thread. Then, men defensive of their enjoyment of anal sex with women, joined the discussion and continue to beat a dead horse.

I wonder if the men who are so defensive of their position are feeling a little doubt about whether their women truly enjoy anal sex? Perhaps they are wondering if their women fake anal orgasm/enjoyment?

I also wonder if the men who find anal sex so enjoyable have let their woman fuck them with a strap-on or use a nice, big, dildo on them? Many have stated that they are not interested in sex with other men and their woman using a dildo would provide the best of both worlds wouldn't it? If being fucked in the ass is giving their women so much pleasure don't they want some too? Why miss out on all of the fun?

Ladies, don't be selfish, pull out your big dildo or vibrator next time a man asks for anal and say, "you first, honey."

 

[Principessa]

something i have noticed in women i have dated, spoken to at length, over heard ect, even 2 or 3 on this site. in the public dissicussion there are alot of women who will down play the intrest or even flat out deny it when it comes to anything kinky esp this.

not that dolfette and the others or lying or less that 101% truthful, but a woman, alot of times, will deny intrest to keep from being judged.... some what like homophobic curious men. nothing wrong with it, its your bussiness

Oops, :redface: I totally screwed up my chaste, prudish image then by admitting that I like being butt fucked until my entire body trembles with joy. :tongue:

 

[SR_Blarney_Frank]

I wonder if the men who are so defensive of their position are feeling a little doubt about whether their women truly enjoy anal sex? Perhaps they are wondering if their women fake anal orgasm/enjoyment?

I only know what I'm told. Why someone would ask me to engage in an activity which they only pretend to enjoy is a bit of a puzzle to me. Despite some of the commentary here, most men are quite concerned about whether or not women are enjoying it.

I also wonder if the men who find anal sex so enjoyable have let their woman fuck them with a strap-on or use a nice, big, dildo on them?

Check.

 

[strutter2]

Greatdickismydrug - I couldn't have put it better myself. You've summed everything up very nicely. The attacks that seem to have come forth from some of us standing up and saying actually we don't enjoy anal sex makes men sit up and have to think about what they are doing, it brings them out of pornland and back to the reality of sex. There really is no way of getting out of the fact that a large percentage of women feel pressured into anal sex, some have no choice and some suggest it because they think it will keep you with them. And yes I bet a good proportion of men who believe their partner enjoys taking a cock up there arses would recoil in disgust if their partner strapped on and gave their choclate starfishes a good going over! .

Stevenvegas - why not take what hookers do as a good example. These women are having sex everyday of the year, if they don't know what does it for them sexually then the rest of women kind doesn't have much hope. My time as an escort taught me what I like and what it's worth doing and not. FYI hookers will kiss the men that they fancy and often not the ones that they don't. The reason that anal sex isn't indulged in is that it is more dangerous from an STI point of view, it's painful and physically more dangerous. Most hookers can charge a lot extra for anal services, the fact that a very small percentage choose to do it even then stands testimony to the unpopularity of it among women.
Sorry if that spoils your nice little fantasy that every women secretly wants her arsehole ripped out by your cock - not true!! Funny how men get so defensive and annoyed when women tell them the truth.

 

[strutter2]

I only know what I'm told. Why someone would ask me to engage in an activity which they only pretend to enjoy is a bit of a puzzle to me. Despite some of the commentary here, most men are quite concerned about whether or not women are enjoying it.

Steven - none of us have ever said that no women like it - some might. However the majority in my experience don't - or perhaps the experience of a woman doesn't count unless it confirms yours?? Afterall as you say hookers wealth of experience apparently counts for nothing - why do you consider them dirty and worthless???? However I'm sure that your mates who've screwed countless women after a night out on the piss have all the authority in the world to comment.
Ever thought that if you dug a little deeper the women you are with, they may actually reveal either indifference and dislike for anal?
The throes of passion you see in porn are paid for - and whether in porn, the sex industry or everyday sex women are more than capable of faking that whether that be because they aren't actually enjoying what you are doing (usual reason) and are too scared that they'll dent your ego or spoil your pleasure to mention it, are too frightened you'll leave them for another woman who is prepared to indulge in certain practices, or initially hoping that by doing everything you are likely to see in a porn film in a 150 different positions that you'll want to come back for more and hopefully stay with them, they may be trying to hurry you up - particularly in the field of anal sex to avoid it becoming prolonged, or they are being paid for it and are giving you the experience you have paid for. Not always the case as said before and no disrespect to those who don't indulge for these reasons, but these account for a large percentage.

 

[strutter2]

not that dolfette and the others or lying or less that 101% truthful, but a woman, alot of times, will deny intrest to keep from being judged.... some what like homophobic curious men. nothing wrong with it, its your bussiness

Love this quote - if this isn't one that shows how men really don't get it when a woman says 'NO' I don't know what is!!!! I suppose I really wanted to be raped up the arse - but don't really want to admit it incase people judge me!!!
Fucking lovely quote.

 

[dolfette]

toon is a common insult.
CARtoon is a drawing.
streeeeeeeeeeetch that paranoia, kid.

 

[Catchoftheday]

toon is a common insult.
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Toon-Army.co.uk

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