One thing the gang showers gave me, was some inside information. LOL
Being gay and terrified about being found out, I kept to myself mostly, at least at first, but I had a sister and two female cousins who attended some of the same years I did. Each of them had girlfriends, and since I didn't really go about making my own friends, I often hung out with them and theirs.
It's odd, but conversations in the cafeteria, especially supper time, always seemed to come down to sex, but not exactly in an obvious way. I would here about how this guy was cute, and how hot that guy was, and being scared into the farthest reaches of my closet I just held my tongue. However, on occasion I would get asked questions about this guy or that guy, or at least about the ones I had seen in the shower.
In a way it is unfair for girls I suppose. It doesn't take much for a guy to see what assets a girl has. But, unless a guy is blatantly putting himself on display, wearing tight shorts or what have you, there is no way to truly tell what they are packing. That is, unless you have a guy on the inside.
I remember being asked by my sister and cousins as well as by their female friends about what this guy and that were hiding down below.
I even helped hook several girls up with guys. The one couple is married and has two kids.
I had this huge crush on this one guy. He would take off his jersey after a game, and you could feel the collective sigh from the girls, and few guys in the stands as he stood there half naked and drooling
oh, wait, I was the one drooling, but anyway, I had one of my sisters girlfriends wanting me to hook her up with this hottie, so I started getting to know this guy and his friend. (Yes I enjoyed being close to him! Leave me alone. You should have seen him in the shower!) So, I would hang out in his room, and we would talk, and I would ask all these questions, and then I told him about this girl, and how interested she was in him, and they started dating.
At one point the comment was made on how I helped her get him, and he made the comment that he was starting to worry about me, because of my interest in him, but now he understood. Oh well.