I was thinking about something.. and since I'm on a site where mostly guys hang out..I might as well ask this.. Because I have been thinking about this one a lot..
When a woman has sex with a guy on the first date, they have been engaging in some real fun and seamingly connecting contact pre-date,but when they first met during the date their found 'connection' and inner passion proceeded in a way leading them to having really great sex with one another..
Does that then automatically dismiss a woman from getting to know you further..for something long term? Or are you as a guy immediately put off by it and and see this experience as a one night stand or maybe for just a few more sex sessions at best?
And say the first is yes..why would that (getting to know each other further to build a relationship) immediately be a 'no go' for you? What happens in your mind?
Do you have some sort of belief about her personality? Was the sex not as good as she might have thought you had? Was she less attractive in your mind, and therefore you decided on the spot to just go for sex and leave after? Did you loose all of your respect for her, eventhough you engaged in it yourself as well? Or something else..
I'm curious to know..
When a woman has sex with a guy on the first date, they have been engaging in some real fun and seamingly connecting contact pre-date,but when they first met during the date their found 'connection' and inner passion proceeded in a way leading them to having really great sex with one another..
Does that then automatically dismiss a woman from getting to know you further..for something long term? Or are you as a guy immediately put off by it and and see this experience as a one night stand or maybe for just a few more sex sessions at best?
And say the first is yes..why would that (getting to know each other further to build a relationship) immediately be a 'no go' for you? What happens in your mind?
Do you have some sort of belief about her personality? Was the sex not as good as she might have thought you had? Was she less attractive in your mind, and therefore you decided on the spot to just go for sex and leave after? Did you loose all of your respect for her, eventhough you engaged in it yourself as well? Or something else..
I'm curious to know..