Experiences with ''str8'' guys

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As a former "completely straight" guy who had never ever ever ever ever thought about doing anything with guys prior to my late 20's, I'd say that there's nothing that you can say or do to convince or entice a straight guy. There isn't a single damn thing any guy friend of mine could have said or shown me to get me to do anything with them. I had to reach out when I felt the desire to do so. I still consider myself straight since I'm not at all attracted to men, date a female, and don't really seek out men all that much. I just like anal pleasure. Just so happens that theres a guy attached to big dicks. Whatever you want to label that as, doesn't matter to me. If my gf and I were in a sexual setting where something piqued my interest, I still may or may not interact. Just depends on my mood.
I understand. But you “ just don’t seek out men all that much, “like anal pleasure”, and “are attracted to big dicks”. It obviously helps, or makes it if it’s in a setting involving a woman, but I’d say you’ve already crossed part of the line.
 

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Nobody's really gay or straight, they are just futile attempts to try and categorize people and discriminate. I have discovered there is a lot more to sex than what kind of porn a guy watches. I met a guy at the bathhouse this weekend, he claims he's Bi, I honestly thin, he was straight and just desperate (we are both very chubby guys). He was really there to get blow jobs. I somehow managed to get him to turn over, I think he thought I was going to go after his cock that way but started riming the guy. It turned him on completely. He kept telling me. We went on for a good 5 or 6 minutes of so and he decided that he was going to try it himself! At first he was pretty tentative and unsure abut it but man did he get into it. 15 minutes later he had his face buried in my ass trying to stick his tongue down my hole. I had to ask him to stop because I was getting tired!

We actually talked a bit afterwards. his current girlfriend has come out as Asexual so he is exploring new things. A gay friend of their convinced him to try this place on a bear day since I think he was conscious about his size. I know he left afterwards, we were going to exchange info but I decided against it since I didn't want to get involved in his situation.

But the whole point is that we are all fluid, and stop thinking in terms of straight and gay guys. Think in terms of sexual experiences and preferences. Don't bother trying to convert some guy who claims 100% straight, they just aren't interested. And quite frankly get over the whole "straight conquest" idea all together - No one just turns from straight to gay. Quite frankly there is no physical or activity difference between a straight, bi, or gay guy anyways. Just what they call themselves in public.
 

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I can only speak for myself but as a closeted bisexual I find hooking up with other street guys extremely exciting and comforting because we both have something to do so if we get caught
 
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First off a dude who does that isn't straight. He may be bi//he may be closeted..he may choose to live a str8t life..but he isnt straight. If a guy gets hard when a buddy is sucking him off he is into guys. All those scenarios are fine, and too each his own. I agree the str8t guy fantasy is just that. if youre doing some sexual with a guy then you are at least bi. Now..are there gay dudes who love kicking it with a str8 " acting" guy or a guy who is married? 100% But there is totally a fantasy thing about getting the straight guy lol ive jerked off to str8t guy porn a gazillion times haha
 
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First off a dude who does that isn't straight. He may be bi//he may be closeted..he may choose to live a str8t life..but he isnt straight. If a guy gets hard when a buddy is sucking him off he is into guys. All those scenarios are fine, and too each his own. I agree the str8t guy fantasy is just that. if youre doing some sexual with a guy then you are at least bi. Now..are there gay dudes who love kicking it with a str8 " acting" guy or a guy who is married? 100% But there is totally a fantasy thing about getting the straight guy lol ive jerked off to str8t guy porn a gazillion times haha
Sexuality has so many grey areas. I think the problem is that there’s a huge double standard for male bisexuality. I know it because I’ve lived it.
Yes, fantasy is a huge part of sexuality but in brass tacks and every day living, coming out as a bisexual male carries the same wait is coming out as gay. Unlike with women, very few people make the distinction between the two when it comes to men so many times bi guys are “forced” to keep secrets and do unmentionable things :) with out of town strangers out of the fear of being outed and complicating their lives.
Things are definitely better now than they have been but in the United States there’s still a lot of conservative attitudes towards peoples sexual preferences. It’s just discussed on a binary basis.
If your straight”… cool. If you’re gay… cool. If you’re bisexual... “oh you’re gay. You’re cool but you’re definitely not straight”
So if you want to continue having titties in your face and sliding into warm wet pussy as well as enjoying the feel of a man’s touch. it’s just smarter to check the “str8 box” than to make things complicated.
Let’s face it...guys are easy. LOL
 

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Sexuality has so many grey areas. I think the problem is that there’s a huge double standard for male bisexuality. I know it because I’ve lived it.
Yes, fantasy is a huge part of sexuality but in brass tacks and every day living, coming out as a bisexual male carries the same wait is coming out as gay. Unlike with women, very few people make the distinction between the two when it comes to men so many times bi guys are “forced” to keep secrets and do unmentionable things :) with out of town strangers out of the fear of being outed and complicating their lives.
Things are definitely better now than they have been but in the United States there’s still a lot of conservative attitudes towards peoples sexual preferences. It’s just discussed on a binary basis.
If your straight”… cool. If you’re gay… cool. If you’re bisexual... “oh you’re gay. You’re cool but you’re definitely not straight”
So if you want to continue having titties in your face and sliding into warm wet pussy as well as enjoying the feel of a man’s touch. it’s just smarter to check the “str8 box” than to make things complicated.
Let’s face it...guys are easy. LOL
+1 coming out as bi is even more difficult than gay in my opinion. 2 sides straight and gay judging you for being neither
 

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I’m not sure how common it really is that straights are seduced, but I have had some offers from straight friends who want to explore. I have always turned them down for a couple reasons: 1) they are friends and I have not had sex with friends since my teens.2) the friends are married and not only married , but their spouses have become my friends also. That would just violate my core values, so l always decline. I always joke that “because we are friends, you will have to be the one that got away “. That lets them off the hook, removes the awkwardness. I once had a straight friend who was drinking tell me that he was falling in love with me and I told him “ don’t worry, you’ll feel better in the morning!”
 

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idk if its true that people lie about these kinda stories and just share their fantasies as if they really happened but from my personal experience if i got into detail of each story few would believe me because of how wild those stories are.

I've never really labelled myself sexually and have always been an open to anything kinda person(so i'm assuming that's why I've been approached more than once), i have been hit on by males who identify as straights(some might be gay, bi or whatever) but with the fear of judgement by people in my community they automatically assume the default label "being straight"
In all the situations that those guys did approach they'd usually time when we were alone in a setting or a late night "casual" text that i could clearly see them steering the conversation to a sexual one and sometimes I'd let it happen.
 

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I've been kind of obsessing over this topic ever since having a sexual experience with a brawny, beefy dad-type at the Mandalay Bay spa in Las Vegas last month, which I mentioned in a post on the thread about cruising in Vegas spas. For the past couple of years, when I've visited Mandalay Bay, I've usually ended up having some kind of sexual experience with other guys in the steam room at the spa.

On this visit, the moment I walked into the spa, I locked eyes with this tall, handsome, tanned middle-aged dude with a barrel chest and a nice paunch... he was completely naked except for a towel wrapped around his waist. I was instantly attracted to him because he was a dead ringer for a straight friend of mine whom I've wanted to blow since we bonded during a two-week overseas trip a few year ago, but I never worked up the nerve to make a move on him. This dude at the spa looked exactly like an older, beefier version of my friend... and also just as straight.

I tried to play it cool with this dream guy while also trying to get as many good looks at his naked body as I could in the steam room and dry sauna. This went on for about an hour, and he didn't seem to suspect that I was basically cruising him. I also resigned myself to the idea that he was probably just another straight dude who was at the spa to relax.

So I ended up in the steam room, sitting there with another random guy. We'd both opened up our towels and were just sitting there with our dicks out. Then the door opened, and in walked my dream dad-bod dude. He sat down directly across from me, threw open his towel, placed a hand over his cock, and started rubbing it. I couldn't believe it. I got hard almost immediately and started rubbing my own cock, as did the other random guy who had already been in the steam room.

After a minute, I finally worked up the nerve to stand up, walk up to my dream guy, and ask if I could blow him. He just replied, "Sure," and pointed his dick up at me with his hand. I got down on my knees and went to work on his hard cock with my mouth while working his balls with my hand. Meanwhile, I could hear slapping sounds and heavy breathing as the other guy in the steam room jerked off while watching us. From the sound of it, he came in under a minute. Sadly, I wasn't able to bring my dream guy to a climax, as he was spooked by the sounds of other men entering the steam room, tapping my shoulder and covering up his erect cock with his towel. I saw him again over the next couple of days that I visited the spa, but he seemed skittish, and we weren't able to ever finish our encounter.

The night before I was going to head home, it occurred to me that I might be able to find this guy on social media. Lo and behold, I found a geo-tagged photo of him and his beautiful wife at the hotel that very night. Very quickly, I found Facebook and Instagram accounts belonging to him, his wife... and his SIX KIDS, four of them from a previous marriage! There were photos of him at country music festivals, at his megachurch in the Midwest, at Disney World with his family... I'd always thought that all those stories about seduced "straight" guys were fictional fantasies, but here was a guy who seems to have a totally straight, conservative life, but who was cruising for gay sex at a men's spa while on vacation with his wife.

I told a gay buddy of mine about the experience, and he told me that he still pines for a married guy with kids with whom he had a fling when the guy was on a business trip. I guess there really are a lot of married dudes out there leading secret gay lives.
 

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I've been kind of obsessing over this topic ever since having a sexual experience with a brawny, beefy dad-type at the Mandalay Bay spa in Las Vegas last month, which I mentioned in a post on the thread about cruising in Vegas spas. For the past couple of years, when I've visited Mandalay Bay, I've usually ended up having some kind of sexual experience with other guys in the steam room at the spa.

On this visit, the moment I walked into the spa, I locked eyes with this tall, handsome, tanned middle-aged dude with a barrel chest and a nice paunch... he was completely naked except for a towel wrapped around his waist. I was instantly attracted to him because he was a dead ringer for a straight friend of mine whom I've wanted to blow since we bonded during a two-week overseas trip a few year ago, but I never worked up the nerve to make a move on him. This dude at the spa looked exactly like an older, beefier version of my friend... and also just as straight.

I tried to play it cool with this dream guy while also trying to get as many good looks at his naked body as I could in the steam room and dry sauna. This went on for about an hour, and he didn't seem to suspect that I was basically cruising him. I also resigned myself to the idea that he was probably just another straight dude who was at the spa to relax.

So I ended up in the steam room, sitting there with another random guy. We'd both opened up our towels and were just sitting there with our dicks out. Then the door opened, and in walked my dream dad-bod dude. He sat down directly across from me, threw open his towel, placed a hand over his cock, and started rubbing it. I couldn't believe it. I got hard almost immediately and started rubbing my own cock, as did the other random guy who had already been in the steam room.

After a minute, I finally worked up the nerve to stand up, walk up to my dream guy, and ask if I could blow him. He just replied, "Sure," and pointed his dick up at me with his hand. I got down on my knees and went to work on his hard cock with my mouth while working his balls with my hand. Meanwhile, I could hear slapping sounds and heavy breathing as the other guy in the steam room jerked off while watching us. From the sound of it, he came in under a minute. Sadly, I wasn't able to bring my dream guy to a climax, as he was spooked by the sounds of other men entering the steam room, tapping my shoulder and covering up his erect cock with his towel. I saw him again over the next couple of days that I visited the spa, but he seemed skittish, and we weren't able to ever finish our encounter.

The night before I was going to head home, it occurred to me that I might be able to find this guy on social media. Lo and behold, I found a geo-tagged photo of him and his beautiful wife at the hotel that very night. Very quickly, I found Facebook and Instagram accounts belonging to him, his wife... and his SIX KIDS, four of them from a previous marriage! There were photos of him at country music festivals, at his megachurch in the Midwest, at Disney World with his family... I'd always thought that all those stories about seduced "straight" guys were fictional fantasies, but here was a guy who seems to have a totally straight, conservative life, but who was cruising for gay sex at a men's spa while on vacation with his wife.

I told a gay buddy of mine about the experience, and he told me that he still pines for a married guy with kids with whom he had a fling when the guy was on a business trip. I guess there really are a lot of married dudes out there leading secret gay lives.


Hot story, and I would love to be in your situation. But guys like this are hiding. No totslly straight guy would ever...
 

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I'm an older gay guy, and I guess I've had sexual contact with at least half a dozen straight guys - at least they say they are straight on their profiles and looking for women. When they contact me they say they are curious about experiencing another guy's cock, sucking it and maybe taking it up the ass. They stress they don't want to kiss or fuck me.

When they arrive they tend to be nervous, so I suggest getting naked straight away. I'm uncut and pretty large, so I give them a bit of guidance on how I like my cock sucked. Then they tell me they are curious to know what it's like to take a cock up their ass, but aren't sure whether they'll be able to manage my big cock. I suggest they might find it easiest to sit on it whilst I lie back with my cock sticking straight up, so I rubber up and lube my cock, whilst they put some more lube round and in their hole. They squat over me and gradually lower their asshole onto my large head, then I feel it sliding deep into their guts. They soon are opened up and I withdraw, and get them to crouch on all fours on the bed so I can fuck them doggy, my crotch slapping into their ass cheeks with every thrust. I might fuck them in another couple of positions too.

I enjoy these encounters as I just love fucking ass. I wonder what straight guys feel about losing their virginity to a gay guy, as I never get any feedback.
can I come visit lol
 
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I agree with some of the other posters than some of these stories are made up, but then again, how can you really tell?

I consider myself bi, though as my numbers show, I'm far more into guys (but still wouldn't hesitate to bed a girl if the mood was right). I'm also fully verse, and all of the guys I have bottomed for I would consider "mostly" str8. One guys wife/girlfriend/whatever even called while we were in the act at 11 pm (lol yes, he put his hand over my mouth and answers the phone!)! As some of the others have said, a lot of them simply see it as sex with no emotional attachment at all. Some are just freaks (lol) and don't care if you're a woman or man.

There are a lot of different factors at play, you can't really generalize on these types. From my experience (about 8 guys in this category), some want you to be feminine so they can dominate you, and others want you to be masculine since they get the feminine at home.

What I can only say for me is, I always let them come to me. I never make the first move. (My sense of judgement in those things is terrible lol.)
 

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I always found it funny when gay or bisexual guys tell straight guys who they have to have sex with. If you tell them that you are straight and that you are only attracted to women they will attack you. Or they will go on with this sexual fluid stuff. Straight males don't have any type of sexual contact with males. Straight males aren't attracted to males. If a male has any type of voluntary sexual contact with another male then he is bisexual or gay. It doesn't matter what he "identifies" himself as.