Frustration builds up for having a big dick, but no sex.

Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by CHP, Apr 9, 2011.

  1. CHP

    CHP Member

    Joined:
    Jan 25, 2009
    Messages:
    87
    Likes Received:
    1
    Gender:
    Male
    Hello,

    I am getting to the point of where I'm absolutely tired of not being able to enjoy the supposed great sensation of sex. I'm still young, 21, but haven't had sex for over 3 years now (I don't know anymore, lost track to be honest). And I couldn't really call it sex back then either. Anyway, having a big dick makes it all a ton more frustrating for me aswell, and not being the greatest looking guy in the world (I'm not THAT ugly, just avarage), doesn't just let me pick up a girl whenever I want (hence the monsterous drought). Having a shy/timid character around girls, doesn't help either I guess.
    Seriously contemplating to just go to a prositute or something and have a good bang just for the sake of it and just get this weight of my chest, instead of just living in a world full of frustration and read here how people are having a blast letting women enjoy their tremendous treasures. I wanna do it aswell, but I just can't. So should I just take the easy/quick way out, or just keep on living in agony?

    Thanks for reading.
     
  2. Big Jake

    Big Jake Member

    Joined:
    Dec 7, 2005
    Messages:
    149
    Likes Received:
    5
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    MN
    Hang in there bro you'll find someone eventually. I can do 3 years standing on my head easy. :D Don't despair. And besides, which would you rather have? A little season of frustration or a lifetime of disease?
     
  3. Charles Finn

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Feb 20, 2006
    Messages:
    2,538
    Albums:
    3
    Likes Received:
    29
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Toledo Ohio
    do what feels right for you
    do not rush into anything
     
  4. buddy629

    buddy629 Member

    Joined:
    Dec 23, 2006
    Messages:
    516
    Albums:
    1
    Likes Received:
    36
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Chicago
    3 years is nothing. I've gone thru it as well. Just hang in there. If you're looking for a girlfriend, try online. If you're looking for sex. Try online. A pic of your beautiful dick, and the girls will be lining up for a casual fun time. Maybe you need a wing man with some moxie.
    You are young, I'm not. I've been there and done it. Trust me on this.
    1. always use condoms.
    2. never go to a hooker.
    3. there are celibate horny girls out there who are in the same position as you, and looking to get laid too. Keep the faith and keep looking. :)
    Good luck buddy.
    P.S. You may want to buy a Fleshlight. They are the best substitute money can buy.
     
  5. Mr_Bulldog

    Verified Gold Member

    Joined:
    Jun 5, 2009
    Messages:
    1,106
    Albums:
    3
    Likes Received:
    318
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Eglin AFB
    Verified:
    Photo
    Let me throw a little bit of reality at you. Your frustrated because you have a huge cock and haven't had sex for 3 years.... try being me and having a mid average cock and being a virgin not by choice. I'm not the best looking guy on the planet either the pics I have here are just flattering because of the angle. I also have close to zero self esteem, extreme paranoia issues and struggling with understanding my sexuality. Couple that with very few friends and being told I'm worthless for much of my life and I'm surprised I never resorted to drugs or cutting myself.

    I'm just saying when compared to your life you have it made man so just ride it out and what happens will happen and things will get better. Be proud of what you have and remember you could have none of it.
     
  6. Mr_Bulldog

    Verified Gold Member

    Joined:
    Jun 5, 2009
    Messages:
    1,106
    Albums:
    3
    Likes Received:
    318
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Eglin AFB
    Verified:
    Photo
    And just so you know I get along just fine. Not saying what your going through isn't tough but I know what its like to live through frustration.
     
  7. moutwatern

    moutwatern New Member

    Joined:
    Mar 14, 2011
    Messages:
    12
    Likes Received:
    1
    BUDDy, I think you answered yor own question, the girls will come when you've figured yourself out. That takes time, more time for some. Start with communication then get to the sex. Nature gave you the big dick,you need to find your big personality to go with it.
    P.s. Mr. bulldog your delliusional bro. Your so fuck'n hot it hurts. Enough said. now get out there and break some hearts man.
     
  8. GarthMerenghi

    GarthMerenghi Member

    Joined:
    Apr 27, 2009
    Messages:
    133
    Albums:
    3
    Likes Received:
    3
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Sheffield, UK
    Why does the size of your penis make it more frustrating? :/
     
  9. D_Percy Pantsed

    D_Percy Pantsed Account Disabled

    Joined:
    Nov 11, 2010
    Messages:
    270
    Likes Received:
    0
    I'm 22 and still haven't had sex
     
  10. SR_Daniel Dangler

    SR_Daniel Dangler New Member

    Joined:
    Dec 10, 2010
    Messages:
    342
    Likes Received:
    0
    i know how u feel, mind u i have had some chances but just waiting for the right one lol.

    Just be confident with girls, saw a rly ugly dude dancing with 2 hot chicks last night.
     
  11. JulieInNaplesFL

    Verified Gold Member

    Joined:
    Oct 31, 2006
    Messages:
    1,725
    Albums:
    2
    Likes Received:
    1,522
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    Naples/ FtMyers Florida
    Verified:
    Photo
    CHP, Go let that hunk of meat swing at a nudists resort and you'll get laid that day.





    OK, so I'm bad.
     
  12. askew

    askew New Member

    Joined:
    Mar 27, 2011
    Messages:
    101
    Likes Received:
    3
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    USA
    That's what I'm trying to figure out. I'm average sized and if I went three weeks without sex I would probably be climbing the walls.
     
  13. Gecko4lif

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Jan 10, 2010
    Messages:
    2,294
    Albums:
    2
    Likes Received:
    26
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Pensacola , Fl
    Why would having a big dick entitle you to anything? Much less sex?
     
  14. hajduk26

    hajduk26 New Member

    Joined:
    Mar 20, 2011
    Messages:
    4
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Castle Rock
    I'd suggest meeting someone online. If you want a relationship, then use eharmony or match.com. If you just want sex, then use craigslist or plentyoffish.

    I always had a hard time meeting women in real life cause I don't like the bar scene or clubs and felt obscene trying it in church. I met my fiance though eharmony, but I don't think it's worth paying for a site if you only want sex, and the vast majority of women on there want a relationship leading to marriage.

    And sexual frustration hurts all men, not just those with big dicks lol.
     
  15. CHP

    CHP Member

    Joined:
    Jan 25, 2009
    Messages:
    87
    Likes Received:
    1
    Gender:
    Male
    To all of you that are bitching about the size and why I shouldn't be more frustrated.
    What I think/feel, is that why would you have a big dick for anything other than sex and the fact that you can let your counterpart enjoy it? If you can't have sex, than it's just a burden instead of a blessing. You think I wouldn't give up a few inches to get some?
    Never have I said or thought that having a bigger dick should entitle you to more sex; but being more frustrated, yes, I do think that's a fair point.
    I'm jealous reading all those posts in 'reaction threads', or stories and whatnot. I just would love to have it happen to me aswell.
     
  16. B_ILIW

    B_ILIW New Member

    Joined:
    Sep 25, 2009
    Messages:
    1,448
    Likes Received:
    3
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Birmingham, UK
    Either wank, see an escort or be proactive and get a date.

    Make friends with girls you know, or chat with girls from work, or in class if you study. When things are for gain, we should not refrain.
     
  17. GarthMerenghi

    GarthMerenghi Member

    Joined:
    Apr 27, 2009
    Messages:
    133
    Albums:
    3
    Likes Received:
    3
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    Sheffield, UK
    Go have sex then.

    Penises full stop are made for sex, your argument is still irrelevant.
     
  18. Stretch

    Stretch New Member

    Joined:
    Jun 6, 2005
    Messages:
    2,408
    Likes Received:
    10
    Gender:
    Male
    What a bizarre thread...


    Both of these posts pretty much cover it


    No...you're just the banal, idiotic poster you usually are. You always seem to find a way to sink to the occasion. At least you spelled everything correctly for a change...finally figured out how to use spell check did you?


    Either you're just here posting shit purposely to illicit reaction or you need to grow up. Then again...you could be trying to emulate JulieINTampa :rolleyes:
     
  19. CHP

    CHP Member

    Joined:
    Jan 25, 2009
    Messages:
    87
    Likes Received:
    1
    Gender:
    Male
    Wow, look at the guy acting all big, multi-quoting people and telling someone to grow up. Seriously? Instead of respecting my or somebody else's opinion, you just like to be a total prick. That's ok, but just tell me, what's the point in having a bigger dick then, if it's not for sex?
     
  20. Stretch

    Stretch New Member

    Joined:
    Jun 6, 2005
    Messages:
    2,408
    Likes Received:
    10
    Gender:
    Male
    uuummm...seriously?

    I repeat:

    I'm sorry...I stand corrected. It's obviously both
     
Draft saved Draft deleted