Fucking Hell

[yesitsbig]

Turn the table by inviting him over and this time you make the rules. For example, have him to go down on you until you orgasim. Then have him to finger you until you orgasim again. Finally, have hime to watch while you get yourself off and tell him you are done and to go home.

 

[D_Martin van Burden]

I picked "busy" because there's probably a more civil way to say that sexual compatibility matters to you and that you don't think you're a good match. If that pretty much sealed the deal for you, there's no need for a second date.

 

[D_Roland_D_Hay]

Have him take you out to an expensive place to eat...drink like there is no tomorrow and have him drop you off...let him know the next time you have a spare half of an hour...you might consider a marathon sex session with him.

Move on and find someone less selfish!

 

[Not_Punny]

Hmmmmm.... interesting question.

I've had three LTRs who, in the beginning, were extremely selfish in bed. By that I mean they didn't even notice if I was liking it or had gotten off. Nothing.

But after a while, they "caught on" and were much improved. In fact, two of them ending up being fantastic in bed, and were the most adventurous, un-un-unboring partners I've ever had. (One is still with me now)

Most men are civilized enough to care what happens to their female partners, but it sometimes takes communication from the lady.

So my advice is this:

-- If you really, REALLY like him otherwise...
-- If he is fun and adventurous outside of the bedroom...

Then yes, by all means, have another date. But if you end up in the bedroom, you're going to have to take charge until he catches on.

But...

-- If he's kinda boring...
-- If he doesn't have nice manners...

DUMP HIM...

But I believe in kindness, so all I'd say is, "I like you as a person, but the chemistry didn't work for me."

 

[javyn]

Did you really need to start a topic for this? I'm sure you can figure out what to do on your own? Why is it on so many forums women start threads like this? You know, it's OKAY to make a decision on your own, no need to assemble a posse lol. Especially over such a trivial issue.

 

[Not_Punny]

Did you really need to start a topic for this? I'm sure you can figure out what to do on your own? Why is it on so many forums women start threads like this? You know, it's OKAY to make a decision on your own, no need to assemble a posse lol. Especially over such a trivial issue.

LOL -- how well do you know women in general?

Most of us discuss all decisions with our girlfriends, and at LPSG, we include our straight and gay male buddies in our "girlfriend" circle.

 

[B_socalstud89]

I am sorry, if he was that selfish in bed then there is something wrong with him.

 

[HazelGod]

He rung me tonight for another "date" on the weekend.

:rofl:

I'm tempted to say you weren't direct enough after your previous encounter...but then I remember who I'm talking about!

What you ought to do is get him to take you out someplace nice and order an expensive vintage...then take him home, restrain him, and force him to watch you pleasure yourself exactly the way you like, over and over again. Feel free to read him some of your favorite tales out loud as you do. After you're exhausted, tell him that you hope he's learned something...then kick him the fuck out and tell him to lose your number.

Just tell him you are busy with someone who can sexually satisfy you :yup:

Then again, there's always Lee's option. :wink:

 

[javyn]

I don't know. I've had plenty of bad dates, and plenty of lousy lays. I move on. I don't start idiotic whiney threads asking for moral support over something so trivial.

 

[HazelGod]

I don't start idiotic whiney threads asking for moral support over something so trivial.

No, you just troll other people's threads with your infinitely more idiotic and utterly useless commentary. Smashing display of superiority, dipshit.

 

[javyn]

And I guess your comment applied to my comment makes you even more of a dipshit than me, doing exactly what you are chiding me for.

 

[mrx008]

Maybe he does not like the taste and smell of pussy.

Sorry for him.

Next time get a real man!!!

 

[pavement]

I don't know. I've had plenty of bad dates, and plenty of lousy lays. I move on. I don't start idiotic whiney threads asking for moral support over something so trivial.

Aren't all things trivial ?

 

[TVFrankie]

sweetheart, if I may, when I was actively pursuing females and happened upon one, either as a date, or at a bar, I ALWAYS made sure that my lady was satisfied at least one good one...more if she came rather easily. I then left the rest up to her...not to ask, or whine, but they always made sure that I enjoyed myself as much as they enjoyed themselves (with my help). With yourr "friend", if this guy got off 3 times in 45 minutes, which to me is quite a feat, and he didn't even rub your clitty to arouse you or anything, I'd tell him you're busy! this guy is selfish, as stated and obviously has no intention of making sure you're taken care of sexually or any other way...if you go to a restaurant, you might wind up paying for both of you two...who knows...he's a user! believe me, I've known users, and they are that way with everybody...even their male friends...if they still have any...the guys don't put up with that crap for long...Being a good guy and giving him a second chance is a waste of time..I'll bet money he would do the same thing if you said nothing...Anyway, you seem to put your shoes on the proper feet so you can figure it out. Best of luck, hon...btw, you have a killer figure.

 

[javyn]

Certainly not.

Aren't all things trivial ?

 

[JustJimbo]

Well is there enough other stuff there for you to help him improve his sex or are there other bad traits. If you like him then tell him over time and if he like you he will want to please you and do the right thing, maybee he is in this situation because this is what happens ladys give up on him and he has not got a glue?.

 

[lurker2008]

tell him the problem

 

[D_Ivana Dickenside]

he's a selfish jerk off. ignore his sorry ass, you're too good for him.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

If i were a man i'd be scared to go down on pussy....just from some of the stories i've heard of stank ass and pussy. My nose is ultra sensitive. Maybe he's had bad experiences in the past.

 

[D_Ivana Dickenside]

If i were a man i'd be scared to go down on pussy....just from some of the stories i've heard of stank ass and pussy. My nose is ultra sensitive. Maybe he's had bad experiences in the past.

i highly doubt dragonfly has a smelly cooter though, don't you agree?