Fucking Hell

[Tattooed Goddess]

i highly doubt dragonfly has a smelly cooter though, don't you agree?

But if you've had a bad experience, you might be a bit squeamish about going there again.

 

[D_Ivana Dickenside]

But if you've had a bad experience, you might be a bit squeamish about going there again.

very true. but if i were a man and i hooked up with dragonfly, i wouldn't hesitate and i'd make the exception instead :tongue:

 

[invisibleman]

A guy that I have known for a little while had an evening together and let's just say that it was a write off.
The man got off 3 times in 3/4 of an hour and he refused to "go down"
and he made no effort what so ever to turn me on.
He rung me tonight for another "date" on the weekend.
Hence the poll.

You should meet guys that like doing oral sex.

If you like fucking that guy...then use him only for fucking.

But if you can only get off via cunnlingus...then you meet men who love eating pussy.

 

[The Dragon]

Did you really need to start a topic for this? I'm sure you can figure out what to do on your own? Why is it on so many forums women start threads like this? You know, it's OKAY to make a decision on your own, no need to assemble a posse lol. Especially over such a trivial issue.

It is fairly obvious that you are not at all familiar with my brand of ironic wit and it is completely wasted on you.
I won't waste effort or band width explaining it to the likes of you.

 

[D_dank142]

It is fairly obvious that you are not at all familiar with my brand of ironic wit and it is completely wasted on you.
I won't waste effort or band width explaining it to the likes of you.

Don't worry i understood it lol

 

[javyn]

Ironic wit? The message was pretty straightforward, nothing of any depth could be read into it. It's not that you won't waste effort explaining, it's that you can't, because there is nothing to explain because your post is nothing more than a rant.

It is fairly obvious that you are not at all familiar with my brand of ironic wit and it is completely wasted on you.
I won't waste effort or band width explaining it to the likes of you.

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

Javyn makes a lot of friends everytime he comes out of his hole.

 

[CALAMBO]

i have to think that there was some good quality about this guy if you let him have his way with you...unless you have a very low self esteem issue...looking at your photos i suspect he thinks alot of you or he is just a user and cut him from the herd...do a lunch date..be honest..tell him what you want and need...men think with thier little head not thier big head...and if you gave up the goody's too easy...well you got fucked and not kissed...be smart...and next time climb on his head...do a 69 position..he will get the hint..

 

[HazelGod]

Javyn makes a lot of friends everytime he comes out from beneath his bridge.

Fixed that for ya, dollface. :wink:

 

[faceking]

What a funny/cute thread. I did the "i'm busy" but will caveat that if he was kinda dick, or blatantly selfish in the sack... then be a bit more blunt. Personally, I love giving oral sex, but just as I expect myself self to be perfectly spic-span down there, as should a partner. Regardless, it should be more of a turn-on turning someone else on. Or so I've mistakenly thought.

 

[faceking]

And I guess your comment applied to my comment makes you even more of a dipshit than me, doing exactly what you are chiding me for.

Unfortunately Javyn does have a valid point.

The best thing ya'll can do is ignore any flaming... and by that I don't mean 80% of the population on LPSG (rimshot).

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

Ok so here's how i would handle it....if you want to make him a good lover you can talk to him in a respectful and gentle manner about the things you like...or even watch some porn together and say "mmmm that looks like it feels so good"

I would use this as an opportunity to change this mans life and his outlook on some activities he might not enjoy from experience.

 

[B_ScaredLittleBoy]

When I read "he refused to go down on me".

I thought you meant his cock wouldn't go down...which would have been great for you...

I really need to lie down.

 

[The Dragon]

I guess in hind sight I am very dominant and aggressive in bed, there may be a chance that I just took charge and got a little focused on him and not on me.

 

[psidom]

Ok so here's how i would handle it....if you want to make him a good lover you can talk to him in a respectful and gentle manner about the things you like...or even watch some porn together and say "mmmm that looks like it feels so good"

I would use this as an opportunity to change this mans life and his outlook on some activities he might not enjoy from experience.

that is what i was thinking...
if he proves he is not a selfish egomaniac
and is just sexually ignorant.

i vote teach him,try again if you think he is hot in every other way.:tongue:

 

[Tattooed Goddess]

Hell i still have to remind my husband that i like oral sex from him.

Usually i just climb on top of him and straddle his face, that usually works.

 

[D_Sumefielde Sumesausage]

I guess in hind sight I am very dominant and aggressive in bed, there may be a chance that I just took charge and got a little focused on him and not on me.

I thought as much. A man doesn't cum 3 times in 45 minutes by you just lying there doing nothing.

As to the poll; try to avoid bad sex.

In this case you have all the material and intent to re-educate this man.

Boy, does he have something coming.

 

[nedpickle]

Try older men,we aim to please.

 

[jlr080281]

Now when you say he refused to give oral sex, did you ask him and he said no? Or did he just not take the initiative?

If it's the latter, I'd give him a second chance and kindly hint at what you would like done.

If you're the aggressive one, a lot of guys will just lay back and enjoy the ride, or be too intimidated to take initiative.

 

[Draconis71]

Hell, almost ANYONE would get done 3 times+ in an hour with you...
Think of it as a compliment... (I still voted the dude off the island...)