Yes, Max, I do realise this is an incindiary subject. I've posted about this before, but here's a few things to consider: There are a VERY FEW women on this site. Of those here, even fewer feel that size would be a big issue. Amoung we few, we have one thing in common- we all have very large/deep vaginas. What this means is a smaller guy slips out easily, neither of us will get much of a sensation of friction, for those of us not very clitorally oriented, it means almost never having an orgasm. I hate to tell you this, but sex with no hope of an orgasm is too high a price to pay just so others will think I'm a nice girl. Walk a mile in my shoes- have a serious relationship with a nice girl with whom you simply cannot orgasm with. See how much her other attributes help after a year or so.
No one wants to be a walking dick, and they're not, at least not to me. If that were true, I would have kept the first one I found, but life just isn't like that. I waited and kept meeting guys until I found one with whom I shared a lot of interests, including sexual compatibility. It's so nice to be able to have rewarding sex with someone and spend the whole day hanging out talking as well. It's so fun to have someone who shares common interests, is on a similar schedule, has similar relationship goals, background, political views, but still retains his own unique perspective. Yes, a big dick is part of that picture, just like his multi-racial heritage, it's all good, and I wouldn't have it any other way.
If we had no preferences, couldn't we just be matched randomly by a third party and work out the kinks later? Surely you can see the absurdity of this! You said,
"But the worst thing about this sort of discussion is that it gets us back into viewing other people with a check list of requirements that they must fulfill." I hope you're not suggesting we don't already do this! Nomatter what you seek in a relationship, you are seeking SOMETHING! Regardless of what your desired traits are, there's some women you just wouldn't have. It might be crackheads, even though some of them are very nice. It might be women who make more money than you, or women who are taller than you (don't act like you don't know tons of guys who won't date a taller woman!
. It might be a girl over a certain size, and you REALLY better not tell me you don't consider that! So, if it's okay to only date women whose bodies are a certain size, why then do you feel justified in saying I'm bad to have a penis size preference? I'll jump in here- because now we're talking about your ego instead of mine. No one gives a fuck if a woman gets her feelings hurt, but God forbid anyone do that to a MAN! Yeah, all women are bitches and whores if they won't fuck any (and I do mean ANY) guy who asks, but men still have THEIR preferences, and that's "one thing", which means "fine".
I challenge everyone reading this to consider the point, even if you think I'm horrible. Don't men do this to us every day? Why are we so much more concerned with men's egos than women's? Women are supposed to accept rejection gracefully but never dole it out. Am I getting through at all? No one's suggesting going out of your way to humiliate someone, but is it wrong to have preferences, even if they are based on potential for sexual satisfaction?