One of the things that is becoming more and more evident here is that the problem is more a 'self-esteem" issue on the part of the original poster than anything else.
There is no doubt in my mind either that those who criticize the female in this scenario are standing on firm ground. If you want to really wreck a sexual relationship, throw a man's dimensions into the conversation. It is just not a good thing to do even in passing or as a light comment. Comparisons always tend to be a problem because as a general rule, the person being compared by some "physical trait" can do nothing to change the physical trait to have that trait be more "satisfactory" to the person discussing or making the comparison.
I would also like many others before me question the accuracy of the measurements being quoted by the female in question. A penis measuring a true 10" in length, and a true 3" in diameter, would be about one in something like 500,000 men. Finding a penis this size would be the equivalent in odds of winning in Las Vegas. It is possible, but odds are against it.
I think all of us irrelevant of our sexual orientation have a memory of some sex encounter we have had from the past that we wonder about. Those that are gay may remember the body or the size of a penis and those that are straight may remember the feel of penetration or some characteristics of a past sex partners breasts that were to them particularly impressive. The problem is that these memories are not always 100% accurate as has been said before. I am also subject to this and even have laughted at myself in this regards.
This seems like a combination of some esteem issues meeting what is probably a gross exaggeration culminating in feelings of inferiority on the part of a young guy that has nothing to feel inferior about.
Best..............
There is no doubt in my mind either that those who criticize the female in this scenario are standing on firm ground. If you want to really wreck a sexual relationship, throw a man's dimensions into the conversation. It is just not a good thing to do even in passing or as a light comment. Comparisons always tend to be a problem because as a general rule, the person being compared by some "physical trait" can do nothing to change the physical trait to have that trait be more "satisfactory" to the person discussing or making the comparison.
I would also like many others before me question the accuracy of the measurements being quoted by the female in question. A penis measuring a true 10" in length, and a true 3" in diameter, would be about one in something like 500,000 men. Finding a penis this size would be the equivalent in odds of winning in Las Vegas. It is possible, but odds are against it.
I think all of us irrelevant of our sexual orientation have a memory of some sex encounter we have had from the past that we wonder about. Those that are gay may remember the body or the size of a penis and those that are straight may remember the feel of penetration or some characteristics of a past sex partners breasts that were to them particularly impressive. The problem is that these memories are not always 100% accurate as has been said before. I am also subject to this and even have laughted at myself in this regards.
This seems like a combination of some esteem issues meeting what is probably a gross exaggeration culminating in feelings of inferiority on the part of a young guy that has nothing to feel inferior about.
Best..............