johnjohnston
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True but I will say that sometimes a person’s sexuality evolves. Take Gunnar for example. For the longest time he identified solely as straight and was doing gayforpay. But then he started to openly admit that he enjoys bottoming and couldn’t deny the pleasure a man brings to his prostate, so now he identifies as bisexual.
I already know first hand that “sexuality” can evolve. But you’d have to be pretty naive to not figure that he’s likely had experiences with dudes before porn, even before his hetero porn. I also don’t see him hyping up “enjoying bottoming for men”. He’s merely said that he feels he’s probably in the pan-sexual spectrum. You’re throwing your own bit of conjecture and fantasy into it. And I get it. This is porn, and this forum is all about it fantasy. But let’s not exaggerate or make stuff up for the sake of it.
As I’ve said on this forum a few times, perhaps most of these porn performers (no matter their identities ) fit in the bi/pan spectrum. And many contend with fluidity, contradictions, fetishes/paraphiliacs, insecurities, mental health struggles, uncertainty as far as the gender, sexual, affection, romantic, emotion, commitment spectrum. My point is that porn, gender, sexual, identity politics will always play a role with guys. And there’s still a lot of hetero privilege, male homo shaming, manipulation, only hyping up queerness when it’s most valuable to you, and a willingness to throw “gays” under the bus for the next opportunity or for female/hetero validation.