Guys That Are Straight But Likes Admiring Dick and Balls?

[ILoveGames48]

I agree!
I think that happens more in Europe than here!

It probably happens more than you think around there

 

[JBD_Mikk]

I've always considered myself more straight than gay - I've never (yet) experimented with a guy and have only ever wanted a relationship with a woman. But I'm also highly aroused by a guy with a fit body and large cock. I figure if there are guys out there who aren't in the least bit turned on by other guys, that makes me far from 100% straight.

 

[dirk8989]

I don't mind checking out a nice fit body and good sized cock.

 

[deleted673956]

I've always considered myself more straight than gay - I've never (yet) experimented with a guy and have only ever wanted a relationship with a woman. But I'm also highly aroused by a guy with a fit body and large cock. I figure if there are guys out there who aren't in the least bit turned on by other guys, that makes me far from 100% straight.

A lot of us fall in the zone of being sexually attracted to women but able to fully appreciate a fine male physique. This is my hot take on it anyway. I personally don't think there is anything wrong with it persay and it doesn't make you "gay" as you said, What looks good looks good and there is nothing wrong with giving kuddos where they are due.

 

[ShutterCock]

Giving this a yearly bump!

 

[allmanbud]

It's because penises and balls are beautiful

YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS!!!

 

[allmanbud]

It probably happens more than you think around there

HOPE so!!!
LOL

 

[jonny503]

I'm a straight guy that admires cock and balls. Would like to talk to other straight men like me. Let me know.

 

[jln89]

Its because of the sexuality gatekeeping by other straight men and ESPECIALLY straight women who will immediately judge them and label them as gay (not even bi lol) and shun them. I have heard some straight women say that they no longer think men are attractive if they show ANY same sex interest.

How did i end up here? Anyway.. It's not because women think that those men are now hideous all of a sudden. The best-looking men in the world are gay men. The funniest and kindest men in the world have been gay men. They don't think of you as being less than them. Some of the women who have been hurt emotionally will say spiteful things when she's angry, but that's all. It's just that a woman's attraction is more specific and tuned in than a mans. So their attraction metre can all of a sudden be turned all the way down until it's at the off position. Without any purposeful or conscious thoughts about doing them so. It's not a malicious decision, and it isn't controllable, just as a man's attraction isn't controllable. In my opinion, a lot of this "straight man who can only love a dick" thing (apart from those who are closeted or the ones who are just vainly in love with themselves that it is only themselves who are good enough to fuck them) can be due to too much porn consumption of the oral kind. I'm a porn lover myself, so I'm not trying to take your fix away here by saying that. It's just not good if your young and hormonal and when it's not in moderation as you don't even realise how influential it is or how it fucks with your head. Fantasies that can be easily fulfilled will always be more than fantasies at some point when it comes to men and sex. Testosterone is one hell of a hormone, after all. But for the majority of straight women, a bi man is a handsome man who they were possibly once sexually attracted to, but will now become just another good-looking man who doesn't get her dick hard, unfortunately. He will be looked at like a good painting or a nice stylish outfit who you don't want to be in a relationship with. The majority of women know technically what the difference is between any bisexual and gay man, and they will truly believe and know how bisexuality is a true, very real orientation. But in terms of where to position the overall image and energy of a bi man in her head, there is no difference. They can't separate them. Even the guys who claim and swear to be straight will be side eyed once her instinct gets a twinge. They all are on the gay side of the pile in her head of how she sees you. Even though she knows and believes it to be true that you really like women. It's just how some minds process attraction when not as much testosterone is involved. I also think some women can't process that these men could possibly be her competition one day, but that's just a theory. You would need to know what each individual woman needs and desires in a man to know why we want the things we want, but it is not a coincidence why the majority want straight men. But if any girls reject you maliciously, then I give permission to start burning women at the stake... again (those were fun times back in Salem). Me saying this doesn't mean that every guy needs to hide who he is and has to be dishonest to women now to catch one. It all comes all out, one way or another down the line. So you want someone who knows you and still wants you without you being a catfish. You still have options, and if the only requirement you have for a partner is a good-looking dick then you are in luck! Let women have their own tastes. You all have yours.

 

[justahornyguy174]

How did i end up here? Anyway.. It's not because women think that those men are now hideous all of a sudden. The best-looking men in the world are gay men. The funniest and kindest men in the world have been gay men. They don't think of you as being less than them. Some of the women who have been hurt emotionally will say spiteful things when she's angry, but that's all. It's just that a woman's attraction is more specific and tuned in than a mans. So their attraction metre can all of a sudden be turned all the way down until it's at the off position. Without any purposeful or conscious thoughts about doing them so. It's not a malicious decision, and it isn't controllable, just as a man's attraction isn't controllable. In my opinion, a lot of this "straight man who can only love a dick" thing (apart from those who are closeted or the ones who are just vainly in love with themselves that it is only themselves who are good enough to fuck them) can be due to too much porn consumption of the oral kind. I'm a porn lover myself, so I'm not trying to take your fix away here by saying that. It's just not good if your young and hormonal and when it's not in moderation as you don't even realise how influential it is or how it fucks with your head. Fantasies that can be easily fulfilled will always be more than fantasies at some point when it comes to men and sex. Testosterone is one hell of a hormone, after all. But for the majority of straight women, a bi man is a handsome man who they were possibly once sexually attracted to, but will now become just another good-looking man who doesn't get her dick hard, unfortunately. He will be looked at like a good painting or a nice stylish outfit who you don't want to be in a relationship with. The majority of women know technically what the difference is between any bisexual and gay man, and they will truly believe and know how bisexuality is a true, very real orientation. But in terms of where to position the overall image and energy of a bi man in her head, there is no difference. They can't separate them. Even the guys who claim and swear to be straight will be side eyed once her instinct gets a twinge. They all are on the gay side of the pile in her head of how she sees you. Even though she knows and believes it to be true that you really like women. It's just how some minds process attraction when not as much testosterone is involved. I also think some women can't process that these men could possibly be her competition one day, but that's just a theory. You would need to know what each individual woman needs and desires in a man to know why we want the things we want, but it is not a coincidence why the majority want straight men. But if any girls reject you maliciously, then I give permission to start burning women at the stake... again (those were fun times back in Salem). Me saying this doesn't mean that every guy needs to hide who he is and has to be dishonest to women now to catch one. It all comes all out, one way or another down the line. So you want someone who knows you and still wants you without you being a catfish. You still have options, and if the only requirement you have for a partner is a good-looking dick then you are in luck! Let women have their own tastes. You all have yours.

Thanks for your honest answer!
My ex told me about a guy she was seeing, he said he wanked over trans women and she was instantly turned off by him. I guess it is not a conscious thing, just something that happens and not much you can do about it

 

[jln89]

I wished in a perfect world sex and sexual orientation wasn’t labeled ..

I had sex and did stuff at sure stuff was labeled then but I didn’t know.. I just did stuff as it was fun for me or for him/ her and didn’t worry about it.. so now everything is labeled for everything..

I am a guy that enjoys sex.. if I with a guy or girl I have sex .. then what do with them is labeled .. bondage .. kinky .. and so on..

I think it be nice for a “straight” guy to decide to suck my cock and not be automatically branded a homo

Well.. even the non-labelled poeple get labelled. Even if it is just in people's heads. That is just how descriptive language and communication work. It helps reduce the risk of people getting hurt and also help form relationships with people who know what they want and who they are. The majority of people out there have expectations for relationships. If it's too much for you to pick who you are at the moment, then it is OK to say I'm still working it out. That's a label. Honesty itself is a label. The majority of women like and need stability and security for sexual and romantic relationships. It's just how we evolved, unfortunately. So most will have expectations for labels at the very least, but there are still a few that don't care. Either way, you still have more options than most will have. Words have meaning otherwise. If straight men are doing and liking sexual gay things then another word for straight gets introduced and straight is now another word for gay. That's how it's works. That's how descriptions and communication develops. It won't change because people don't know or can't be honest with themselves.

 

[jln89]

Thanks for your honest answer!
My ex told me about a guy she was seeing, he said he wanked over trans women and she was instantly turned off by him. I guess it is not a conscious thing, just something that happens and not much you can do about it

Yup. Just how it is unfortunately.

 

[Cum_is_Great]

How did i end up here? Anyway.. It's not because women think that those men are now hideous all of a sudden. The best-looking men in the world are gay men. The funniest and kindest men in the world have been gay men. They don't think of you as being less than them. Some of the women who have been hurt emotionally will say spiteful things when she's angry, but that's all. It's just that a woman's attraction is more specific and tuned in than a mans. So their attraction metre can all of a sudden be turned all the way down until it's at the off position. Without any purposeful or conscious thoughts about doing them so. It's not a malicious decision, and it isn't controllable, just as a man's attraction isn't controllable. In my opinion, a lot of this "straight man who can only love a dick" thing (apart from those who are closeted or the ones who are just vainly in love with themselves that it is only themselves who are good enough to fuck them) can be due to too much porn consumption of the oral kind. I'm a porn lover myself, so I'm not trying to take your fix away here by saying that. It's just not good if your young and hormonal and when it's not in moderation as you don't even realise how influential it is or how it fucks with your head. Fantasies that can be easily fulfilled will always be more than fantasies at some point when it comes to men and sex. Testosterone is one hell of a hormone, after all. But for the majority of straight women, a bi man is a handsome man who they were possibly once sexually attracted to, but will now become just another good-looking man who doesn't get her dick hard, unfortunately. He will be looked at like a good painting or a nice stylish outfit who you don't want to be in a relationship with. The majority of women know technically what the difference is between any bisexual and gay man, and they will truly believe and know how bisexuality is a true, very real orientation. But in terms of where to position the overall image and energy of a bi man in her head, there is no difference. They can't separate them. Even the guys who claim and swear to be straight will be side eyed once her instinct gets a twinge. They all are on the gay side of the pile in her head of how she sees you. Even though she knows and believes it to be true that you really like women. It's just how some minds process attraction when not as much testosterone is involved. I also think some women can't process that these men could possibly be her competition one day, but that's just a theory. You would need to know what each individual woman needs and desires in a man to know why we want the things we want, but it is not a coincidence why the majority want straight men. But if any girls reject you maliciously, then I give permission to start burning women at the stake... again (those were fun times back in Salem). Me saying this doesn't mean that every guy needs to hide who he is and has to be dishonest to women now to catch one. It all comes all out, one way or another down the line. So you want someone who knows you and still wants you without you being a catfish. You still have options, and if the only requirement you have for a partner is a good-looking dick then you are in luck! Let women have their own tastes. You all have yours.

Thanks for discussing! Im gay, so I have little in this whole situation. Just watching and observing from the sidelines. Though honestly it seems like you just agreed with me but tried to explain the why.

(Though still didnt really explain it? As a gay guy with barely any testosterone, Im not quite sure how testosterone has anything to do with learning a guy one finds attractive suddenly being not because they learned he is bi. But other gay guys DO say the same thing so I really think its just something else but people aren't fully attuned with their inner feelings/biases/assumptions?)

Though even if you say men shouldnt hide themselves, in effect, it still comes across as: hide that aspect of yourself to maximize chances.

And so men do, and it perpetuates even into non romantic relationships and friendships lol.

 

[jln89]

Testosterone - was more so about how horny you are and how everything that's fuckable to a degree, can seem like a good idea at some point. Trust me I understand how much hormones can affect you. I went from forgetting what sex was, and then I got off birth control and suddenly would start seeing my aging, balding, overweight postman as a good candidate! Testosterone can bring horny to a new level, I beleive.

Cloested - well, what shall we tell them? To keep lying to people? The only other options are to stay closeted and lie to everyone until one day they find out anyway. Everything comes out in the end. Or shall we force women to be with men they don't like. I'm sure that always ends well?

People should be single if its confusing for them. But if they want relationships, then they need to be honest. People can't stay hidden forever, and other people usually talk even if they won't. Women won't pretend they are attracted just for the sake of it. So the only way this stops is being truthful to some degree and knowing that they shouldn't be fearful as there are still options. If they are told that women are not just saying "no" to them because they are spiteful women, it's really just how they feel. Then they will know this can't be changed with time so they have to accept it. The more that bi men are their true selves, then there is the possibility that more bisexual men can be seen as dateable by women. My ultimate goal, though, is to stop women from being hurt by closeted men. I'm obviously biased, though.

You need to be an adult or at least be mature enough to understand what's involved, if you want to have sex or a relationship with someone. So mature and brave decisions need to be made. Or at least honest decisions. It's ok to say I don't know yet.

 

[jln89]

Thanks for discussing! Im gay, so I have little in this whole situation. Just watching and observing from the sidelines. Though honestly it seems like you just agreed with me but tried to explain the why.

(Though still didnt really explain it? As a gay guy with barely any testosterone, Im not quite sure how testosterone has anything to do with learning a guy one finds attractive suddenly being not because they learned he is bi. But other gay guys DO say the same thing so I really think its just something else but people aren't fully attuned with their inner feelings/biases/assumptions?)

Though even if you say men shouldnt hide themselves, in effect, it still comes across as: hide that aspect of yourself to maximize chances.

And so men do, and it perpetuates even into non romantic relationships and friendships lol.

What I said wasn't something they had not heard before. In fact it's well known. So it doesn't really change much anyway.

 

[edonline]

As mentioned elsewhere, I know a number of guys who are either straight or choose not to label themselves who admire and sometimes get off seeing another man's body but who would never think of doing anything intimate with them, not even kissing, while a few enjoy touching but not sex. For some, it's the sheer physicality especially if the other is muscular and/or has a big cock and balls

 

[Guto.bi]

Eu me sinto exatamente da mesma forma! Adoro conferir o que os outros caras têm e fico super excitado fazendo isso!

Comecei por curiosidade, depois percebi que era mais que isso. Compreender esse meu sentimento me fez bem. Hoje curto sexo e sentir prazer com pessoas - mulheres e homens. Sei que não é unanimidade esse tipo de sentimento, mas para mim o que importa é estar de bem comigo mesmo e fazer na cama quem estiver comigo se sentir bem do mesmo jeito.

 

[winger2087]

I think I fall into this boat for the most part. I am very sexually attracted to women, but I have a strange attraction to penis too.

I think its a number of reasons for me:
1.) Always been self conscious about my small cock, so always comparing
2.) I find hot trans girls extremely sexy.
3.) Love the feel of pussy, but never found them attractive to look at.

I also think I like looking better, like the porn aspect then in person. Never been turned on in person by a guy. Hooked up with a few trans girls. Tried once to suck and to be fucked and realized i couldn't get into it.

 

[hoodooyoodoo]

I think if you love cocks, you can no longer call yourself straight. Welcome to the alphabet community.
I myself love pussy and tits more than I can describe. I also love cocks of all sizes and description.
I have no interest in kissing a man or fucking his hairy ass or to have him fuck me in mine.
I do love to suck a cock and have it cum in my mouth. I call myself Bi and realized after enjoying that first time sucking one that I couldn't call myself straight.

 

[popolki12]

At my gym where the showers are communal, all straight guys are checking each other dick and balls. I think it's an animal reflex, like dogs lol they are never looking for a long time but they are always having a glance. When straight guys are coming to a naked space with their genitals on full display they expect other male to look for every male in the room seeing they are also males.

From my experience, when straight guys are drunk they also love to show and look at each other dick. Not in a sexual way like gay guys, straight guys are seeing dick has something dirty/disgusting. But more as a way to affirm their manliness to each other.