Has being hung has made you more confident when dating?

[VeryHung]

Guys,

I am curious. Do you think that being hung has made you more confident in the dating arena? If so, in what way has it made you more confident?

Thank you.

VeryHung

 

[EllieP]

If your confidence resides in your crotch then I hope you have a long, virile life because anything that doesn't come from within will all too soon fade.

 

[EllieP]

Well said, Ellie!

Once a "wonderful" person told me "with those hooters you could get in anywhere I bet."

I responded that I would not want to go into any place where my breasts are my ticket for admission.

 

[HorseHung40's]

For those of you who cling to the notions of inner beauty and confidence coming from within, I would like to offer up several thoughts on the subject.

1.) You are chatting on a site, which celebrates large penis size. This is NOT a sight dedicated to inner beauty. In fact, you might be hard pressed to find such a site on the Internet. If you were not interested in big swinging dicks, I strongly doubt that you would not be here.
2.) If you were to walk into a room in which five men were standing, you would notice the one that was most attractive to you. He may or may not have inner beauty. Humans are wired to attraction to beauty. This is part of the reproductive cycle. People are more likely to mate with someone that that person finds physically attractive.
3.) Fair or not, attractive people will have an easier time in life.

I suspect, although I cannot prove, that some make statements about inner beauty, because you may feel guilty about your attraction to big dicks.

 

[bwhip1011]

Once a "wonderful" person told me "with those hooters you could get in anywhere I bet."

I responded that I would not want to go into any place where my breasts are my ticket for admission.

Ha! When I worked for Nortwest Airlines my friend Lesa would say, "Yeah I'll patronize Hooters once they open a chain named Scrotums"

 

[At.your.cervix]

After the dating anxiety which most adolescents seem to go through, I have always been comfortable asking women out. Then again, I've always been comfortable just talking with women. When I was in high school, most of my dates came from girls asking me out, and I'm not Johnny Depp's stand-in either. In fact, I was asked to three proms, each at different girl's schools. I'm pretty sure that few, if any, of those invitations had anything to do with how I felt about the relative size of my cock, nor did that have anything to do with who I ever asked out, at that time, or any time since. Whenever I have asked somebody out, I've never, ever, been thinking about what she might think about my penis, but rather it's been all about how she's been thinking about my mind and heart. It's the apparent desire of the woman to get to know the inner me better, which is where any and all "confidence" arises from. This is the way it's been for me ever since I was a teenager.

 

[Fencepost]

The OP did not say ALL confidence comes from dick size. He asked if some men have MORE confidence because of being hung. This is no less natural than having confidence because of a strong physique or a handsome face. They make the process a little easier. Some of the posts here, in my opinion, were unfair and did not speak to his intent.
To assert that all confidence comes solely from inner qualities is unrealistic. Yes, character and personality are absolutely important. A handsome, strong, big dick guy will lose his partner quickly if he is a total jerk. Nevertheless, a short, fat, small dick guy will probably struggle with dating beautiful ladies, no matter his character and personality. This is simple reality. Let's not moralize too much.

 

[Zyz]

It's been a while since I've had to endure the anguish of "dating" but I get so nervous I might have trouble actually finding my dick

Could you have left it at home?

 

[Marcum]

hi guys
thanks for this interesting question!
I would say no, because the guys interested in meeting me for my dong mostly want me to behave like in the porns they watch, where hung men are often top, self-centred or dominant. In summary, it is superficially rewarding but also develops performance stress

 

[meningreentights]

No but it has made it easier to piss when other men are in the restroom.

 

[bwhip1011]

If your confidence resides in your crotch then I hope you have a long, virile life because anything that doesn't come from within will all too soon fade.

Well said, Ellie!

 

[Beedie Tijii]

It's one less thing to worry about I suppose. Other than that, not really.

 

[twoton]

No. It didn’t help my confidence at all. Mostly because I don’t think women put a high priority on dick measurements. At least....that’s what they like to say.....

 

[rustre59]

For those of you who cling to the notions of inner beauty and confidence coming from within, I would like to offer up several thoughts on the subject.

1.) You are chatting on a site, which celebrates large penis size. This is NOT a sight dedicated to inner beauty. In fact, you might be hard pressed to find such a site on the Internet. If you were not interested in big swinging dicks, I strongly doubt that you would not be here.
2.) If you were to walk into a room in which five men were standing, you would notice the one that was most attractive to you. He may or may not have inner beauty. Humans are wired to attraction to beauty. This is part of the reproductive cycle. People are more likely to mate with someone that that person finds physically attractive.
3.) Fair or not, attractive people will have an easier time in life.

I suspect, although I cannot prove, that some make statements about inner beauty, because you may feel guilty about your attraction to big dicks.

I totally agree. We're all wired to seek what we find attractive. The inner beauty thing only comes into play as we get to know someone. We've all experienced being attracted to someone hot. If we're lucky, we may even start dating that person. At some point, we find that attraction getting stronger or weaker depending on the personality attached.

 

[cockydude2018]

Confidence in any endeavor is usually the result of a strong sense of self-worth. No amount of beauty or cock length can overcome chronic self-loathing.

 

[socalfreak]

No.
Why would it?
Unless she said upfront that she prefers larger, being larger means nothing.

Some very basic & often repeated math that a LOT of guys don't get:
Not all women want big. Many prefer more in the average range.

Being big doesn't automatically mean you're good in bed. From what I've seen, guys who think they are bigger are the same ones that think porn is real life & just pound away mindlessly.

And most women don't orgasm from just penetration, no matter what size you are.

So, why would you think this gives you some sort of edge/sense of confidence?

 

[halcyondays]

No. My self confidence comes from my personality, upbringing and life experience.

That said the size of my member has generated referrals--the women and men who know I'm big because someone else told them.

 

[HorseHung40's]

Well said.

 

[1139089]

Having a "nice" penis is like... less a problem in life. Having a big ou thick dick won't give you confidence in your daily life.

On the other hand, having a small penis can surely disturb a man's cofidence, but that can be solved my findind yourself a partner.

 

[919507]

I did quite well for other reasons first, it didn’t make me more confident.

When they noticed the big boner and got their hands on it I’m sure it was just a bonus.

You can’t go around telling women you’re hung straight off the bat. They will just laugh in your face.