Has being hung has made you more confident when dating?

[HorseHung40's]

For those of you who cling to the notions of inner beauty and confidence coming from within, I would like to offer up several thoughts on the subject.

1.) You are chatting on a site, which celebrates large penis size. This is NOT a sight dedicated to inner beauty. In fact, you might be hard pressed to find such a site on the Internet. If you were not interested in big swinging dicks, I strongly doubt that you would not be here.
2.) If you were to walk into a room in which five men were standing, you would notice the one that was most attractive to you. He may or may not have inner beauty. Humans are wired to attraction to beauty. This is part of the reproductive cycle. People are more likely to mate with someone that that person finds physically attractive.
3.) Fair or not, attractive people will have an easier time in life.

I suspect, although I cannot prove, that some make statements about inner beauty, because you may feel guilty about your attraction to big dicks.

 

[jockripper]

Snap! Someone has been zinged!

 

[rustre59]

For those of you who cling to the notions of inner beauty and confidence coming from within, I would like to offer up several thoughts on the subject.

1.) You are chatting on a site, which celebrates large penis size. This is NOT a sight dedicated to inner beauty. In fact, you might be hard pressed to find such a site on the Internet. If you were not interested in big swinging dicks, I strongly doubt that you would not be here.
2.) If you were to walk into a room in which five men were standing, you would notice the one that was most attractive to you. He may or may not have inner beauty. Humans are wired to attraction to beauty. This is part of the reproductive cycle. People are more likely to mate with someone that that person finds physically attractive.
3.) Fair or not, attractive people will have an easier time in life.

I suspect, although I cannot prove, that some make statements about inner beauty, because you may feel guilty about your attraction to big dicks.

I totally agree. We're all wired to seek what we find attractive. The inner beauty thing only comes into play as we get to know someone. We've all experienced being attracted to someone hot. If we're lucky, we may even start dating that person. At some point, we find that attraction getting stronger or weaker depending on the personality attached.

 

[HorseHung40's]

Well said.

 

[palakaorion]

If you were to walk into a room in which five men were standing, you would notice the one that was most attractive to you. He may or may not have inner beauty. Humans are wired to attraction to beauty.

Outer beauty may facilitate an introduction, but inner beauty is what makes us interested in a relationship.

 

[1139089]

Having a "nice" penis is like... less a problem in life. Having a big ou thick dick won't give you confidence in your daily life.

On the other hand, having a small penis can surely disturb a man's cofidence, but that can be solved my findind yourself a partner.

 

[919507]

I did quite well for other reasons first, it didn’t make me more confident.

When they noticed the big boner and got their hands on it I’m sure it was just a bonus.

You can’t go around telling women you’re hung straight off the bat. They will just laugh in your face.

 

[jinky01]

If the dating leads to sex, yes.

However, the actual "dating" part and having a connection outside of the bedroom is a completely different story.

In that sense I guess the answer is yes, if sex is all the person is looking for. So at the same time, dating really isn't the term I'd use.

 

[Marcum]

hi guys
thanks for this interesting question!
I would say no, because the guys interested in meeting me for my dong mostly want me to behave like in the porns they watch, where hung men are often top, self-centred or dominant. In summary, it is superficially rewarding but also develops performance stress

 

[At.your.cervix]

After the dating anxiety which most adolescents seem to go through, I have always been comfortable asking women out. Then again, I've always been comfortable just talking with women. When I was in high school, most of my dates came from girls asking me out, and I'm not Johnny Depp's stand-in either. In fact, I was asked to three proms, each at different girl's schools. I'm pretty sure that few, if any, of those invitations had anything to do with how I felt about the relative size of my cock, nor did that have anything to do with who I ever asked out, at that time, or any time since. Whenever I have asked somebody out, I've never, ever, been thinking about what she might think about my penis, but rather it's been all about how she's been thinking about my mind and heart. It's the apparent desire of the woman to get to know the inner me better, which is where any and all "confidence" arises from. This is the way it's been for me ever since I was a teenager.

 

[g0nz0]

Nope, had no effect on confidence one way or the other for me.

 

[cockydude2018]

Confidence in any endeavor is usually the result of a strong sense of self-worth. No amount of beauty or cock length can overcome chronic self-loathing.

 

[g0nz0]

Yep I agree with cockydude2018 100%.

 

[Cum_is_Great]

absolutely not. my dick is a "waste" on my body lol

 

[creek47]

No, not really. It’s just that I don’t have this inner beauty notion or out beauty notion. I’m me, can’t change that a whole lot so I might as well have confidence whether it’s right or wrong.

 

[thongboy]

It can make me more confident in a straight fuck situation. But if I'm dating someone, I want then to like me as a person — not just for my cock

 

[creek47]

Confidence in any endeavor is usually the result of a strong sense of self-worth. No amount of beauty or cock length can overcome chronic self-loathing.

Boom!

 

[Norway84]

This thread is very interesting!

 

[socalfreak]

No.
Why would it?
Unless she said upfront that she prefers larger, being larger means nothing.

Some very basic & often repeated math that a LOT of guys don't get:
Not all women want big. Many prefer more in the average range.

Being big doesn't automatically mean you're good in bed. From what I've seen, guys who think they are bigger are the same ones that think porn is real life & just pound away mindlessly.

And most women don't orgasm from just penetration, no matter what size you are.

So, why would you think this gives you some sort of edge/sense of confidence?

 

[Scooter5]

Maybe if I’m wearing comfortable new underwear!