I don't believe that everyone who doesn't enjoy giving blowjobs initially ends up never giving them ever.
the first thing that came to my mind was, that even though you don't want to, maybe you are sending signals to her that she isn't really good at it. that of course can kill one's motivation. you could tell her that you really like how she does it and that it is a great turn on for you the way she blows you. give her positive feedback. that might be a little lie at the beginning, but it could enhance her enthusiasm for it.
I thought the same and it reminded me of my ex. When we met we talked about sex and he said he did not like performing oral sex on a woman. I said it would be a problem for me because it is what I enjoy. He did a few weeks into dating and it wasn't great. I realized after, he wasn't great at it because he wasn't very experienced with it. So I would encourage him, let him hear me enjoy it, sometimes exaggerating but it helped. I also told him what to do. Seeing me enjoy it and having some instruction, he would end up rock hard enjoying it too
You just have to encourage her and work with her
To the women here- do you ever get tired of your snarky, bitchy comments? Get the fuck over yourselves, some guys come here to ask when they become desperate and they don't always know how to ask or it might not agree with your personal perspective. His relationship isn't doomed, he isn't asking for cock worship, oral sex is part of a normal healthy sexual relationship and if you can not understand that then you have no business advising anyone
no, oral sex is part of some people's normal, healthy, sexual relationships.
not having oral sex is a valid and equally as normal & healthy a choice.
her dislike of the act is as valid as his liking of the act.
and if it's an active dislike, as opposed to a more passive not-like, then it is extremely unlikely any tactic will change that.
if she actively dislikes it then she will most likely either stop doing it, or do it and resent it.
the op used the word 'despises', and assumes it's from her background. 'despise' is a very strong word. it means an active dislike, not a passive not-like.
pardon me if i don't put much stock in your self declared expertise, having seen no supporting evidence.
i could post something insulting about you here but your own post does it better than i ever could.I really don't need to post my work here, it isn't needed. There are people from lpsg that know me irl and can support my claim. I do have proof though that you are socially inept- you have had 9092 posts since 2006, don't you have anything better to do?
i could post something insulting about you here but your own post does it better than i ever could.
well that's an interesting piece of paranoia...People from lpsg, as in friends, not people I am fucking or are you so narrow minded that you think because a woman knows someone she must be fucking them, which just goes back to my analysis of you
well that's an interesting piece of paranoia...
i made no mention of you fucking anybody. it hadn't crossed my mind. even had i made that assumption, how implying you might fuck people is an insult is beyond me.
you seem very defensive.
again your post leaves me with no need to insult you.This is a comment sent to me from someone on lpsg, apparently you have a lot of fans
I really enjoyed you slamming on dolfette in the thread.
She realllllly does need a life, shes posts all day around the clock non stop just trying to be better than everyone else. She claims to be a parent, super attractive, ect ect, yet shes monitoring these forums 24/7.
go sizequeenNY!![]()
If you're havin' girl problems i feel bad for you son
I got 9,094 problems but a bitch ain't one
arty2:
This is a comment sent to me from someone on lpsg, apparently you have a lot of fans
I really enjoyed you slamming on dolfette in the thread.
She realllllly does need a life, shes posts all day around the clock non stop just trying to be better than everyone else. She claims to be a parent, super attractive, ect ect, yet shes monitoring these forums 24/7.
go sizequeenNY!![]()
again your post leaves me with no need to insult you.