homoerotic behavior

[Kazimir]

looking at your pics you have a nice cock and pubes...you should have unzipped your pants to show him!

Thank you ^^
I absolutely did, right there in the dairy aisle — my competitive steak got away with me xD
Nah, I was a good boy and kept it in my pants. A regrettable missed opportunity, though, you're right...

such a flirt , he could mean his hairy ass too lol
what did you say after ?

Good point!
Idk, I was too shocked to be clever or flirtatious — happens every time... — so I said some dumb shit like "Well, another time, then." and hoped he'd hit me up. He never did.
Probably because in my stupor, I forgot to give him my phone number.
Now I'll never get to see his hairy dick and/or ass :/

It seems whenever dudes express even a vague interest, my brain is so caught off guard that it has a complete system failure and has to reboot for 12 minutes. By then, the moment's over, I've come off as a cold fish, and they've moved on.
This is probably part of why I never get laid xD

 

[sunandfun]

 

[PopularTongue]

Recently ran into an old childhood friend at a grocery store back in my hometown. Hadn't seen him for a while.

Growing up, we used to do shit like: "Hey man, check this out, I got my first dark beard hair!"
"No way! Well, check out this leg hair!"
A race to grow up faster than the other. Hair = mature and manly. Y'know, dumb stuff.

Anyway, us, now fully grown adults, bump into each other at QFC. We exchange pleasantries, catch up a little, and then—

He leans in furtively, unbuttons his shirt down to the navel, and bares his chest.
"I thought you should see how hairy I've gotten. I daresay I've won this one."

15 years later, still out to be hairier than me...
I was thunderstruck.
Then he said something along the lines of: "If we weren't in a grocery store, I'd show you some hair that'd really blow your mind."

That's deffo sexual...right?
No one would still care about who's hairier at 26, yeah? I'd forgotten all about it at that point...
Seems like this is a sly way to say "If you want to see my dick, I'll show it to you."
IDK, dudes are confusing.

I'd say give it a go.

 

[Xplorious]

Recently ran into an old childhood friend at a grocery store back in my hometown. Hadn't seen him for a while.

Growing up, we used to do shit like: "Hey man, check this out, I got my first dark beard hair!"
"No way! Well, check out this leg hair!"
A race to grow up faster than the other. Hair = mature and manly. Y'know, dumb stuff.

Anyway, us, now fully grown adults, bump into each other at QFC. We exchange pleasantries, catch up a little, and then—

He leans in furtively, unbuttons his shirt down to the navel, and bares his chest.
"I thought you should see how hairy I've gotten. I daresay I've won this one."

15 years later, still out to be hairier than me...
I was thunderstruck.
Then he said something along the lines of: "If we weren't in a grocery store, I'd show you some hair that'd really blow your mind."

That's deffo sexual...right?
No one would still care about who's hairier at 26, yeah? I'd forgotten all about it at that point...
Seems like this is a sly way to say "If you want to see my dick, I'll show it to you."
IDK, dudes are confusing.

Yes, that was 100% sexual and this story is 100% hot. I hear you; I've been stunned when guys clearly are hitting on me. When it's unequivocal yet, in the moment, we are surprised or in disbelief so we can't respond in a way that facilitates the next move.

Let's play this out in a couple of ways where your next move would have allowed things to progress:

1. As he leaned in and showed you his chest, you quickly look around, see the coast is clear, and lightly stroke your fingertips along the centre of his chest, down past his navel. He will spring a boner, guaranteed.
2. Same thing as above (look around) but as he finishes saying "...really blow your mind", you could gently cup his package (just for one second or two) and say something like, "and where do you think you could blow my..." But not finish that sentence.
3. As a backup, when you can't get out the words, practice your, "dude, I've been waiting for this moment for a long time" facial expression. It's in your eyes, your mouth, the slightest change in the way you hold your lips, a slight squint in a receptive way. I've gotten laid using that face!

Damn, your story brings back memories of not acting on hot, "ready-to-serve" situations...

 

[bulgingpkg]

Yes, that was 100% sexual and this story is 100% hot. I hear you; I've been stunned when guys clearly are hitting on me. When it's unequivocal yet, in the moment, we are surprised or in disbelief so we can't respond in a way that facilitates the next move.

Let's play this out in a couple of ways where your next move would have allowed things to progress:

1. As he leaned in and showed you his chest, you quickly look around, see the coast is clear, and lightly stroke your fingertips along the centre of his chest, down past his navel. He will spring a boner, guaranteed.
2. Same thing as above (look around) but as he finishes saying "...really blow your mind", you could gently cup his package (just for one second or two) and say something like, "and where do you think you could blow my..." But not finish that sentence.
3. As a backup, when you can't get out the words, practice your, "dude, I've been waiting for this moment for a long time" facial expression. It's in your eyes, your mouth, the slightest change in the way you hold your lips, a slight squint in a receptive way. I've gotten laid using that face!

Damn, your story brings back memories of not acting on hot, "ready-to-serve" situations...

The brain freeze moment is so true for me.
I was at the grocery recently and noticed this nice looking younger guy, not sure if I caught his eye or not. I've given up and waiting for the cashier when I hear a voice behind me.
It's him saying, Sir could you hand me a pack of condoms? They're out of his reach. I say, sure, which ones?
He says, the Magnums, in the black box.
I summoned all my imagination and creativity and came up with, Here you go.
He says thanks and walked off.
Haha. I wish to god I could be clever at a time like that.

 

[BeefCakeOutWest]

Old School

 

[williamm]

Thank you ^^
I absolutely did, right there in the dairy aisle — my competitive steak got away with me xD
Nah, I was a good boy and kept it in my pants. A regrettable missed opportunity, though, you're right...



Good point!
Idk, I was too shocked to be clever or flirtatious — happens every time... — so I said some dumb shit like "Well, another time, then." and hoped he'd hit me up. He never did.
Probably because in my stupor, I forgot to give him my phone number.
Now I'll never get to see his hairy dick and/or ass :/

It seems whenever dudes express even a vague interest, my brain is so caught off guard that it has a complete system failure and has to reboot for 12 minutes. By then, the moment's over, I've come off as a cold fish, and they've moved on.
This is probably part of why I never get laid xD

Have you looked for him on social media?

 

[PopularTongue]

Have you looked for him on social media?

Good one.

 

[Husker83]

Thank you ^^
I absolutely did, right there in the dairy aisle — my competitive steak got away with me xD
Nah, I was a good boy and kept it in my pants. A regrettable missed opportunity, though, you're right...



Good point!
Idk, I was too shocked to be clever or flirtatious — happens every time... — so I said some dumb shit like "Well, another time, then." and hoped he'd hit me up. He never did.
Probably because in my stupor, I forgot to give him my phone number.
Now I'll never get to see his hairy dick and/or ass :/

It seems whenever dudes express even a vague interest, my brain is so caught off guard that it has a complete system failure and has to reboot for 12 minutes. By then, the moment's over, I've come off as a cold fish, and they've moved on.
This is probably part of why I never get laid xD

Social media exist. Look his ass (and everything else) up!

 

[Husker83]

Yes, that was 100% sexual and this story is 100% hot. I hear you; I've been stunned when guys clearly are hitting on me. When it's unequivocal yet, in the moment, we are surprised or in disbelief so we can't respond in a way that facilitates the next move.

Let's play this out in a couple of ways where your next move would have allowed things to progress:

1. As he leaned in and showed you his chest, you quickly look around, see the coast is clear, and lightly stroke your fingertips along the centre of his chest, down past his navel. He will spring a boner, guaranteed.
2. Same thing as above (look around) but as he finishes saying "...really blow your mind", you could gently cup his package (just for one second or two) and say something like, "and where do you think you could blow my..." But not finish that sentence.
3. As a backup, when you can't get out the words, practice your, "dude, I've been waiting for this moment for a long time" facial expression. It's in your eyes, your mouth, the slightest change in the way you hold your lips, a slight squint in a receptive way. I've gotten laid using that face!

Damn, your story brings back memories of not acting on hot, "ready-to-serve" situations...

Please don't grab someone's junk without warning or consent, especially in a damn grocery store.

 

[Caleb Trask]

Please don't grab someone's junk without warning or consent, especially in a damn grocery store.

Which grocery stores aren’t damned that we can grab in then?

 

[BeefCakeOutWest]

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Once in a while I see articles on cowboys partnering and taking care of each other sexually. Think it is true?
I guess our military guys do it (I'm told), so why not cowboys.

 

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[AHandfull]

So a good friend of mine and I love to drink bourbon and usually the night gets pretty sloppy debating politics and all sorts of stuff. He has a hot tub and I have been over there before when we have had 2 couples and people get naked out on his deck and the people inside just respect the privacy and don't eyeball. So feeling a little gutsy one night when it was just the 2 of us I said great night for a hot tub and he said yes!

So we replenish our drinks and head out onto the deck and without hesitation both strip down and get into the hot tub. It gets really hot after a while so I get up and sit on the edge of the tub and he does the same. Back in the tub, back up on the edge and he does the same. He is really well hung like myself. I'm kind of turned on at this point but I'm also super hot so I get out and head to his outdoor shower. He makes his way to his room behind a sliding glass door and he is watching me shower. He is literally standing there while I am out on his deck naked watching me without taking his eyes off me.....

To this day I regret not acting on that and sliding that door open and walking in to towel off in his bedroom.... instead I did the stupid conservative thing and dried off outside and the night quickly finished after that.

 

[Xplorious]

So a good friend of mine and I love to drink bourbon and usually the night gets pretty sloppy debating politics and all sorts of stuff. He has a hot tub and I have been over there before when we have had 2 couples and people get naked out on his deck and the people inside just respect the privacy and don't eyeball. So feeling a little gutsy one night when it was just the 2 of us I said great night for a hot tub and he said yes!

So we replenish our drinks and head out onto the deck and without hesitation both strip down and get into the hot tub. It gets really hot after a while so I get up and sit on the edge of the tub and he does the same. Back in the tub, back up on the edge and he does the same. He is really well hung like myself. I'm kind of turned on at this point but I'm also super hot so I get out and head to his outdoor shower. He makes his way to his room behind a sliding glass door and he is watching me shower. He is literally standing there while I am out on his deck naked watching me without taking his eyes off me.....

To this day I regret not acting on that and sliding that door open and walking in to towel off in his bedroom.... instead I did the stupid conservative thing and dried off outside and the night quickly finished after that.

Not to worry bud. There is always next time. Sometimes the build up can make him want it even more so when the next opportunity arises, it could be really hot! Anticipation can drive us wild.

 

[bidudeDL]

I'm super close with a straight friend and we always share very intimate stories or point pf views - made a post about it already if you want more context. We are both in our early 30s. Last year we started getting more intimate when I sent him a dick pic as a joke since he dared me and after that he kept complementing it or referring to it everytime we would be alone. He also had me post my nudes on reddit as a challenge which he did not respect saying that he is not comfortable showing his dick online and that it would habe to be in person. Everytime we've been hanging out the 2 of us, we could not reach this level of comfort. I'm the one always ending up sharing more.

Whenever we are just the 2 of us, I always feel a sexual tension and I dont think i'm imagining it as I am very good analyzing a social context and he is also ! Whenever we go too far in our convos, one of us cool it down right away amd switch the topic. I've been wanting to bring that intimacy to the next level and make it official between us (either jerk bud type of situation or even more). Whenever we joked about gay sex, I always say how comfortable I am with my sexuality and wouldnt mind exploring in the right situation but he always say that maybe one day but he is not there yet. Wondering if 1. he's saying that just to keep me on the hook or 2. if deep down he is interested but wont admit it to himself or 3. If he wants me to backoff.

So recently we were hanging out and smoked a bit, as usual we started talking about sex and I mentioned a sex tape of me and my girl and I know he has some as well. He dared me to show and I dared him. We were so stressed but ended up putting the videos on the tv. We joked a bit and switched topics right away.

We talked about it after a few days of silence and he admitted feeling guilty about it but that he trusted me enough.

Have you ever shared sex tapes with a buddy ?
Have you ever got to the level of sending and receiving nudes from a buddy ?

I am curious to know your story and how to entertain/maintain that intimacy level with him (eg. Keep sharing this type of content or even nudes of him or wtv). And how can I make him comfortable enough to share that side of him with me ? I really feel that deep down he is just as filthy as I am hehe