Pretty sure the moral of the story here from what I've read when guys ask this or similar questions of the women on here...
1. They use to answer this back when this sites very nature and existence of being cock focused was new and exciting... and now they refuse and or have become jaded towards the idea of a penis focused conversation haha... meaning been here less than a year perhaps so they have not been flooded by messages and flirts
2. Unless you're their E-bestie, catch them in a horny mood, or you're dating them, forget it...
3. Lady going to do what Ladies do, and never ever inflate a mans ego if said honest answer to this question would potentially be one...
4. Women going to women... "Cock does not impress me..." only your personality and how funny and or how much time you spend at the gym / adonis-like body while still maintaining your perfect personality and prince charming demeanor does...
5. You just gotta be obviously a king amongst the hung so that there's no way to deny your phallic God status...
So... unless you can check off some prince charming and or Greek god body with a 10in cock boxes... or you get really lucky... dont bother asking the females on here if they think or have an opinion on your below average.... average... or above average sized cock. The answers won't come unless you get lucky... stick to asking your fellow cock-focused men haha.
Now my opinion... I'm with those guys... need to be visually thick, or obviously long. Needs to have something in one of those two categories that is obviously upon first glance visually striking and makes that word... "Big..." be the first word that comes to mind. If you dont have that big factor coming to mind... the only word that comes to mind is... penis... and not much else in the category of "Being impressive...". If you dont have that. Better hope she really likes you or that you can at least use your man-weapon with mastery from what I've experienced.
All of this is bullshit. I don't need any man explaining my answers.
The truth for me, and lots of other women (certainly not all) is that I have to be impressed BEFORE I even want to see his penis.
I have a fairly new partner. We've been friends for over a year, but only recently started having sex. He asked for consent for every little thing the first time. He asked to touch me, he asked to kiss me. He did it without making the whole affair seem contractual or clinical, and without disrupting the spontaneity of the moment. THAT was impressive. Through him I've experienced new sensations, and some long-forgotten ones. THAT is impressive.
His body isn't even particularly impressive. He's flabby. I think he's self conscious about it, and really didn't want me to see him naked. His body is okay. I'm not gonna daydream about it. It's not gonna get him kicked out of bed.
I've fucked a whole lot of dudes. Regarding size, if biggest were best, his is definitely top ten. Why should that impress anyone? What has he had to do to develop or maintain that? He bathes it as needed. Hooray. But the way he uses it! How he knows when to be gentle, consistently finds the right angle, the way his mouth feels, the way he anticipates needs I didn't even realize I had... I daydream about THAT stuff because that stuff is impressive.
Learn the difference between surprised and impressed. Sometimes I think the biggest dicks are surprising. Sometimes. I thought the smallest one was surprising too.
I don't mind stroking a man's ego. I'm just not gonna lie to do it. You've got it backwards.