Sigh. How "wonderful" to know that this seems to be a trend :-/
When things were new, it was every time we saw each other and there was a time and place. After awhile, I realized it was always me coming onto her, so I backed off to give her some opportunity -- but why would a girl pick up the slack? This is a world where we cater to girls, right? Sigh. After a few talks about it which have lead nowhere, with some added frustration, I've given up talking about it. At her pace, maybe once a week. Sometimes, not often, maybe twice. Nowadays, she just apologizes for "not satisfying" me (to quote her). Obviously I can't just turn down a sincere apology, but it really does beg the question: "if you see the problem and you feel bad enough to apologize, why don't you do something more productive and ... fix it?"
But, I guess that must just be the common sense speaking...