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How do you know when you're too fat to show off anymore?
When you’re delusional and say you’re 5’4’’ and 420 pounds but don’t think you look THAT fat. I have no words.
How do you know when you're too fat to show off anymore?
I’m going to generalize and say airplane seat. Fit in one. I could fit in an overhead compartment. It’s enough with the crumbs in the bed, though. I found a noodle once with a guy I gave a chance.I have a general question for gay and bi men. I am overweight myself, and though I have lost almost 90 LBs this year, I guess I can still be considered a chub at 5'9" and 260 LB. Since my early 30s I put on weight, but it wasn't until my Mom died and I went through a bad relationship that i got real depressed and really put on the pounds, and 2 years ago I was at my heaviest at 385 lb and started having health issues (which motivated me to get healthier). Also, this past year, I have realized I am bi, and have tried meeting other guys online, with no success. I know a lot of it has to do with being overweight. Aside from the health benefits, I am actively trying to continue to lose weight to look better and feel better about myself. So, I was hoping for some feedback from gay and bi men on how big is too big, or maybe how overweight is still okay to you. Like, if you saw someone around 5'9", what size would you say to yourself," that guy is a little chubby, but I'd still do him?"
no where near there at all. I realize that i am not skinning, but i am very athletic as well. I am 5'9" 183 so just wondering is that is to fat to show or not. I was just wondering due to past negative comments.When you’re delusional and say you’re 5’4’’ and 420 pounds but don’t think you look THAT fat. I have no words.
no where near there at all. I realize that i am not skinning, but i am very athletic as well. I am 5'9" 183 so just wondering is that is to fat to show or not. I was just wondering due to past negative comments.
When you objectify and fetishise you close more doors than you open.
... or, when you're acting cowardly and don't have the courage to say it directly to the person?When you’re delusional and say you’re 5’4’’ and 420 pounds but don’t think you look THAT fat. I have no words.
People can be overweight but still fit. Think of rugby players. Oveeweight but fit is ok for me. But overweight and flabby all around, no sorry. Just a honest answer on the initial question.
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When you’re delusional and say you’re 5’4’’ and 420 pounds but don’t think you look THAT fat. I have no words.
I don’t mind overweight if a guy’s dick is big enough to get past the flab. Being really overweight and having a small dick is not a good combo.
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When there’s a combination of being fat plus the appeance that one does not engage in physical exercise... that’s a turn off. Fat mixed with muscle is different. As others have mentioned, see: rugby build.
I think a lot of overweight guys who like to eat and hate cardio ought to at least lift weights, if only for the sake of their appearance. Firming up a little makes a world of difference.
And I do realize all the above is cold and arrogant sounding, but we all have ou own physical desire parameters. And, by definition, they tend to be shallow by nature.
Way to be really nasty. But you told him.
Well, the OP did specifically ask for our personal opinions regarding weight and sexual desire.OK, but why does your opinion for yourself come with a prescription for others that you don't know? Like, speak for yourself and your body and your preferences based in your body, that's fine. It's not cold and arrogant, it's insecure and judgmental. The person who started this thread is having body image issues. None of this is remotely helpful or useful.
No, physical desire parameters are not shallow by nature, unless they are constructed shallowly. I find the vast majority of men attractive and the ones who are not are the ones whose bodies are corrupted by their character and I will admit I have a hard time with some of the extremes personally but I am working on it. Instead of lifting weights.