HazelGod
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I don't find her comments judgmental at all.
That's because you're blinded by your own similar piety. It's all over the language of your post here...terms such as bad behavior, excuse, should feel guilty, you have failed. It's completely judgmental, and not the purpose of this discussion at all.
The other hugely telling aspect of your post is the fact that you completely disregarded the OP and avoided answering the actual subject of discussion yourself...your only input was to wag your finger at others who had already responded. I can wag fingers, too, Ms. Teacher. See my gallery for proof.
Monogamy is very natural and very normal. People use the excuse that it's not to excuse their own bad behavior. Animals aren't monogamous but they don't have emotional attachments and ties like humans. A human brain is far more evolved. Let's not in any way put ourselves back in the animal kingdom.
Monogamy is natural? Since when? Was there some massive turnaround in the understanding of evolutionary biology that I missed out on?
I won't even begin to touch the incredible ignorance in your remark about other species not forming emotional bonds. As a teacher, I'd expect you to be more informed and aware. No wonder our kids are falling so far behind the rest of the world in educational standards. Here's a quick refresher, though: Homo sapiens sapiens - kingdom, Animalia. Like it or not, sugarbritches, we're animals. That we are aware of this does not change the fact.
You should feel guilty if it happens. You made vows with your wife, and unless you have an arrangement that you and she can be intimate with others, you have failed.
I don't recall you being witness to our wedding ceremony, so I'm not sure where you get the notion you have the first inkling of what our vows to one another might entail. But thanks for telling me how I should feel...I'll be sure to pay it the same consideration as all the other dogmatic bullshit I heard from the church growing up.