Is Average Small?

[LilJock]

I'm straight, so classifications such as "Too big", "Perfect, just right", "Somewhat smaller than I prefer", and even "Irrelevant" are irrelevant to me.

Most studies show the average cock is in the lower 5-range, so it must be okay with a lot of women and gays. However, not as a matter of preference but of personal opinion, regardless of what the average is, 5.1" -- and anything under 6" -- does seem to me on the small side, especially if it's proportionately thin. Heck, when you're bumping 5", you're heading into my territory!

 

[deleted1138933]

The only reason an 8 inch dick looks big is BECAUSE we don't normally have dicks that big ON AVERAGE. If you eliminated all dicks over 5 inches and had all men from today be 2 inches max, a 5 inch dick will be huge to humans. Did you know in comparison to primates we have huge penises at 5 inches? We dont think thats huge because its average for humans. You have to think outside of your already skewed perspective. Honestly it is not an easy thing for most people to do, but you currently are making arguments for outside normal statistics/perspectives referencing from inside normal statistics/perspectives.

1-all that means is that apes have small penises, not that the 3” ape penises are huge.

2- the fact that the average or majority of humans have 5” average penises just means that humans have small penises overall, not that 5” are huge

3-If only one man had an 8” penis it means one man is big and the rest are small. If no man was over 5”, it just means that the make human species is small

4-frequency has nothing to do with it. Even if it is 2% of the population, of billions of men it makes it more common and not rate. It is not 5, 10, or 30 men on this site that are big. Its is not 25, 40, or 65 men in the world doing porn world wide that are packing. It is literally tens if not hundreds of thousands. It is common enough that sexually active women will have several of their partners in the large category and every other guy we see in the locker room/urinal is packing. So that 2% is not that rare and more common than the math makes it out to seem

 

[AlteredEgo]

Interesting though that you still consider average small.

It looks small to me. As a woman, I only see the penises that dudes want to show me. It's not a random sample, like I would have been exposed to as a man. I don't think as many average and smaller dudes allow themselves to be seen by me. I see them, but nowhere near as often as bigger ones. Wherever there is nude recreation that isn't sexual, I see many more than wherever the nude recreation is sexual. Then again, they nearly all look small soft, though lots of softies are much smaller than some of the others. I try not to look. I think it feels rude to look. I think the average and smaller guys hide, socially. It skews my perspective, and then they look small. Small isn't a dirty word. Just a descriptor. Small is just as good, as far as I'm concerned. I just care that it feels good inside me if we are getting into an adult situation. If it fits, it ships.

 

[Shepardson]

I think the idea of what’s average gets distorted once you’ve seen much bigger ones.

Which unfortunately is just about everybody living in the internet age.

 

[amboy]

My cock is great. 6 1/2 by 5 1/2. It fits everywhere. Sure I’ve wanted a larger cock, but it is irrelevant. Boys and girls both want sex to be fun. So make it fun! Don’t obsess about size. I think a bigger issue is selfishness. Who ever you are with needs to be treated with respect so that you both get off. A bigger problem is not size but outcomes; sometimes it’s all over in a flash. That you can fix and you should work on it. Longer is better!

 

[thickbit]

Seems "average is the new small". Im completely average and I feel small sometimes - especially on this site.
But this kind of disscussion is meaningless. Because everyone has the penis what nature has given to them - so what anyone wants in their head is out of the table. No need to participate on a race what is not depend on your skills.
What is your partner thinking about average? This is a real queston? Sometimes I feel Im owning the biggest penis in the world. Sometimes I feel less big. But my feeling of love, pleasure is stronger thank my insecurty about my self body image.

So - no matter how long is your penis - just enjoy it and love your partner. That matters only.

 

[Rewardheragain148]

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Fear of rejection maybe

 

[Cum_is_Great]

1-all that means is that apes have small penises, not that the 3” ape penises are huge.

2- the fact that the average or majority of humans have 5” average penises just means that humans have small penises overall, not that 5” are huge

3-If only one man had an 8” penis it means one man is big and the rest are small. If no man was over 5”, it just means that the make human species is small

4-frequency has nothing to do with it. Even if it is 2% of the population, of billions of men it makes it more common and not rate. It is not 5, 10, or 30 men on this site that are big. Its is not 25, 40, or 65 men in the world doing porn world wide that are packing. It is literally tens if not hundreds of thousands. It is common enough that sexually active women will have several of their partners in the large category and every other guy we see in the locker room/urinal is packing. So that 2% is not that rare and more common than the math makes it out to seem

I am not trying to insult you man but... you really need to be educated on statistics, math, relativity. You also should take up studies on philosophy, logic and psychology and learn how to see things from different perspectives. You are so obsessed and stubborn in not thinking outside of your misinformed opinions and logic.

Take care.

 

[deleted1138933]

I am not trying to insult you man but... you really need to be educated on statistics, math, relativity. You also should take up studies on philosophy, logic and psychology and learn how to see things from different perspectives. You are so obsessed and stubborn in not thinking outside of your misinformed opinions and logic.

Take care.

Yeah, I got an A in statistics, tutored my peers, and even learned how numbers can be manipulated in statistics. Philosophy, logic and psychology does not change facts.

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

1-all that means is that apes have small penises, not that the 3” ape penises are huge.

And this is significant why?

2- the fact that the average or majority of humans have 5” average penises just means that humans have small penises overall, not that 5” are huge

Small penises overall, compared with what? Why compare human penis size with any other animal? Do you have sex with other species? Is there a point to this? Human penises are the largest of any mammal when judged against body mass. So what?

3-If only one man had an 8” penis it means one man is big and the rest are small. If no man was over 5”, it just means that the make human species is small

So what? These hypotheticals don't apply to reality. You already have a tenuous grasp of math and especially statistics, so why embarrass yourself with situations that you don't understand AND aren't based on reality?

4-frequency has nothing to do with it. Even if it is 2% of the population, of billions of men it makes it more common and not rate. It is not 5, 10, or 30 men on this site that are big. Its is not 25, 40, or 65 men in the world doing porn world wide that are packing. It is literally tens if not hundreds of thousands. It is common enough that sexually active women will have several of their partners in the large category and every other guy we see in the locker room/urinal is packing. So that 2% is not that rare and more common than the math makes it out to seem

On a site that attracts larger men, selection bias dictates that there will be more larger men HERE than in the general population. So what?

2% of 3 billion adult males is a large aggregate number. But it's still only 2% of the total. There are 2.94 BILLION smaller men than the 60,000,000 men who are the 2%. So no, it is not hundreds of thousands of men. It's tens of millions. But it certainly will not be "every other guy we see in the locker room/urinal". Not by a long shot. For that to be an expected norm, there would need to be 1.5 billion men that size. "Every other" implies 50%, or half of the total. In a locker room with 50 guys...pretty large or crowded, ONE guy is likely to be a 2-percenter.

2% is still 2%, no matter how you try to spin it.

 

[ItsAll4Kim]

Yeah, I got an A in statistics, tutored my peers, and even learned how numbers can be manipulated in statistics. Philosophy, logic and psychology does not change facts.

And yet you think 2% of something is somehow a significant number, even "every other guy you see in the locker room/urinal".

Some school owes you a tuition refund.

 

[amazzzed2]

I've read all the statistics. My penis is just over 5", and to me it's small.
I've only been with a few women, but all of them have been with men who's cocks are much bigger than mine. And non of these women had a lot of sexual partners.
Maybe part of the statistical problem is that the majority of men in the world are Asian, and I think that they tend to have smaller penises?

 

[Shepardson]

I've only been with a few women, but all of them have been with men who's cocks are much bigger than mine. And non of these women had a lot of sexual partners.

If you don't mind me asking, are you encouraging them to give you this info, or do they just bring it up on their own?

 

[cherryboom66]

I hate the words. Small, average, big... men are too fragile for it all.

As many have said, it’s about the guy it’s attached to. As long as we are compatible - the size is meaningless. Unless it’s too big. Pain means no for me.

 

[Brian S]

I hate the words. Small, average, big... men are too fragile for it all.

As many have said, it’s about the guy it’s attached to. As long as we are compatible - the size is meaningless. Unless it’s too big. Pain means no for me.

Lord, I wish more people understood this! Rarely in my life have I ever known a man's dick size prior to deciding I'd like to have sex with them. If I've decided that, then it's a done deal and I'm into pleasing them regardless of their dick size.

Also, I could be a member of Cirque du Soleil with a 5'er. The bigger we get the more my abilities start becoming limited.

 

[cherryboom66]

Lord, I wish more people understood this! Rarely in my life have I ever known a man's dick size prior to deciding I'd like to have sex with them. If I've decided that, then it's a done deal and I'm into pleasing them regardless of their dick size.

Also, I could be a member of Cirque du Soleil with a 5'er. The bigger we get the more my abilities start becoming limited.

Well..... I will only agree to a date once I’ve seen their soft cock and balls. I won’t ever go on a date with a shaver, it takes 3 months to grow back, it’s pointless. And if it’s too big - no date.

Sooooo there are no done deals with me. Might help explain why I’m still single!

 

[bigbucky]

how do I feel? being 2" over average in both length and girth, I feel lucky, that's how I feel.

 

[cherryboom66]

how do I feel? being 2" over average in both length and girth, I feel lucky, that's how I feel.

Why do you feel lucky? What luck has it brought you?

 

[deleted1138933]

And this is significant why?

Small penises overall, compared with what? Why compare human penis size with any other animal? Do you have sex with other species? Is there a point to this? Human penises are the largest of any mammal when judged against body mass. So what?



So what? These hypotheticals don't apply to reality. You already have a tenuous grasp of math and especially statistics, so why embarrass yourself with situations that you don't understand AND aren't based on reality?



On a site that attracts larger men, selection bias dictates that there will be more larger men HERE than in the general population. So what?

2% of 3 billion adult males is a large aggregate number. But it's still only 2% of the total. There are 2.94 BILLION smaller men than the 60,000,000 men who are the 2%. So no, it is not hundreds of thousands of men. It's tens of millions. But it certainly will not be "every other guy we see in the locker room/urinal". Not by a long shot. For that to be an expected norm, there would need to be 1.5 billion men that size. "Every other" implies 50%, or half of the total. In a locker room with 50 guys...pretty large or crowded, ONE guy is likely to be a 2-percenter.

2% is still 2%, no matter how you try to spin it.

IDK why it is significant. I did not bring up the subject of other species. I was responding to somebody else’s post that brought it up, you might want to inquire with them.

Small penises overall in itself compared to nothing.

I know statistics. I know reality. It is just illustrating the point that real size (small, medium, large) in itself is what it is regardless of frequency.

So 60,000,000 is not rare, like women are not finding or not having various partners in their lifetime who are large. Regardless of frequency or majority does not change real size facts. Small is small no matter how many men fit the category.

 

[deleted1138933]

And yet you think 2% of something is somehow a significant number, even "every other guy you see in the locker room/urinal".

Some school owes you a tuition refund.

Although in mathematical terms it may seem like a small percentage, which it is, it does not make it rare in real life once the numbers get so big. Maybe you should consider getting an education yourself, or maybe try and stop talking out of your ass from a narrow-minded privileged view point