Is it a compliment?

[B_chubsy1]

I have been called a milf by some of the younger guys who work with hubby, found it rather flattering, wasn't offended at all!

 

[D_Sheila Bootieshaker]

Ive been called WILF.. of course I never heard that term so had to ask what it meant. Lol but No I dont mind being called a Milf or Wilf..

 

[EllieP]

Well, today at work I asked a friend if he thought I was a MILF. Fred is gay, by the way, and hilarious. He said "Sweetheart, look it up in the dictionary. Your picture is right there."

He said I should be flattered, so I am.

 

[helgaleena]

But-- that means the one who says that wouldn't mind being a motherfucker! Food for thought, certainly.

 

[Not_Punny]

I've been a milf for many years. Don't mind it at all.

Problem is, I don't find young men very attractive... Prefer gentlemen with some miles and history on them.

 

[Luvhmlrg]

No, I wouldn't be offended.

 

[LaFemme]

Not offended - but would prefer to be called attractive or sexy instead. And technically not a MILF anyway as altho I've raised kids, I'm not actually a mother.

 

[RawDog]

A few months ago a friend, who just recently split up with her boyfriend, asked me what was the matter with guys in general. She asked, "Really, do you find me disgusting?"

To which I answered, "You are what being a MILF is all about in my eyes. If I was single I would date you and fuck you so hard and so often you wouldn't have a care in the world."

Stunned shock and silence. (My internal dialogue was going crazy at this point. Did I go too far?)

She cried. Wow, did she cry. She then whispered, "thank you".

 

[Rob_81]

The only thing that pisses me off about using the term MILF is when people use it towards women who are not actually moms yet.

Yeah, most people do assume middle-aged women have children.
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I've been a milf for many years. Don't mind it at all.

Problem is, I don't find young men very attractive... Prefer gentlemen with some miles and history on them.

Well that's a damn shame, because definitely are one.

 

[D_John Handcock]

Very offensive, since I am only 19.

so that means you are a mom?

 

[Rob_81]

so that means you are a mom?

That's what I was wondering.


Also, it doesn't matter the age, the only qualification is to be a mom.

 

[D_Barbi_Dahl]

I get that all the time and take it as a compliment.

 

[AlteredEgo]

If I were a mother, and and someone called me a MILF, I suppose whether or not it offended me would depend on how appropriate I found it for them to tell me they'd like to fuck me. Usually, that shit is just rude.

 

[Rob_81]

If I were a mother, and and someone called me a MILF, I suppose whether or not it offended me would depend on how appropriate I found it for them to tell me they'd like to fuck me. Usually, that shit is just rude.

Well it may just be where I live, but I don't see/hear people saying "Wow, what MILF" or anything like that. It would be a bit weird to just say it in public just like that.

 

[haulthat]

If I were a mother, and and someone called me a MILF, I suppose whether or not it offended me would depend on how appropriate I found it for them to tell me they'd like to fuck me. Usually, that shit is just rude.

I'm not defending rudeness, but rather promoting dismissing annoying shit and taking away something positive when you can. There is a lot of annoying AND rude stuff people do all the time that in no way can be taken in a good way. If someone calls you a milf... look at it the right way and yes... it probably won't make you think any more of them, but at the same time you could let it make you smile because they like what you have going for you and felt the need to say it even when they knew they probably couldn't have it.
I don't think anything that was done without consideration to rudeness can be dismissed as far as your impression of that person goes, but dismissed as far as how it makes you feel when the comment hits you I do. I also think its the best way to deal with it for your sake. I do lack a vagina, so let that be known

 

[MarkLondon]

I thought MILF was a term used amongst guys, rather than something one would say to a woman's face (especially a mom they had the hots for). Not that it's derogatory, just crude.

 

[fizzyjizz]

I'm 40, don't wear a lot of make-up, and a Mom. But I've never been called a MILF to my knowledge. So I guess I don't know how I would take it.

I'm 100% positive it happens all the time. :wink:

 

[D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah]

I think anyone saying you are good enough to fuck is a compliment, regardless of age :wink:

 

[eyescream]

If I were a mother I would find it hot. As I'm not a mother yet, I would find it offensive.