Is This Guy Lying?

[Art3mis]

Are you still chatting with him? Does he seem like a nice guy? See where it goes. If he's not being honest, just do an about face and leave.

We are still chatting, but it has kinda gotten stale if that makes sense? He just wants to meet and fuck really, but I was looking for something more long-term? I’ve never had sex with a big guy before either, but I don’t know if that is a good enough factor for a hookup. And something tells me he won’t be very careful, so yeah, I dunno what to do.

 

[HorseHung40's]

The size of his penis may be "life and death" to a size queen; however, there are far more important things to consider about him.
1.) Is he a decent person?
2.) Would he stand by you in difficult times?
3.) Would he support your dreams and wishes that are important to you?

If you cannot trust this person, this is your problem. Move on, and, let him meet someone, who values him.

 

[TinyPrincess]

Is he lying? Absolutely - Mandingo is 9" at the very best. Does his cock look as long?

Does it matter? Depends on how high you value truth? It's a personal value - and it's for you to decide on.

 

[Art3mis]

Is he lying? Absolutely - Mandingo is 9" at the very best. Does his cock look as long?

Does it matter? Depends on how high you value truth? It's a personal value - and it's for you to decide on.

I… I’ve been hurt in the past, and a whole relationship was based on a lie. I completely get why guys sometimes exaggerate the numbers, and I do understand that we’re talking about an inch here, but honesty has become an integral part of my personality and I absolutely hate it when I catch people in lies. So, I think that I will just tell him what I think and if he can admit to it, then that’s fine. If not, then I’ll just let him go and continue looking for that one guy.

Thanks for all your support, guys and girls.

 

[Snakebyte]

Also, there was a guy here a few years (?) ago doing photoshops. Here is what he did with one of my photos:

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To be fair that's a pretty bad photoshop and easy to spot

 

[KimonoMyHouse]

If that wasn't photoshopped then yeah sure, 9. But I think it is tbh

 

[TinyPrincess]

I… I’ve been hurt in the past, and a whole relationship was based on a lie. I completely get why guys sometimes exaggerate the numbers, and I do understand that we’re talking about an inch here, but honesty has become an integral part of my personality and I absolutely hate it when I catch people in lies. So, I think that I will just tell him what I think and if he can admit to it, then that’s fine. If not, then I’ll just let him go and continue looking for that one guy.

Thanks for all your support, guys and girls.

Think it absolutely a reasonable choice for you. Personally I value honesty above all

 

[bigdave6536]

If you like him, why does it matter?

 

[Snakebyte]

If you like him, why does it matter?

You seriously ask why honesty matters?

 

[WadWorshipper]

I acknowledge your concern with honesty, certainly. I would maybe put a temporary hold on cock-size judgement and explore everything else about him first. You say you find him hot and enjoy chatting with him. See what he's like. If he treats you well and gives you what you need (including a beautiful cock), maybe you will get a chance to measure him and tease him if he's stretched his numbers by a half-inch.

 

[hoag]

I… I’ve been hurt in the past, and a whole relationship was based on a lie. I completely get why guys sometimes exaggerate the numbers, and I do understand that we’re talking about an inch here, but honesty has become an integral part of my personality and I absolutely hate it when I catch people in lies. So, I think that I will just tell him what I think and if he can admit to it, then that’s fine. If not, then I’ll just let him go and continue looking for that one guy.

Thanks for all your support, guys and girls.

At first I thought this thread was, honestly, a little silly but after reading this I completely understand where you're coming from now. And I also support your concern.
Like, I know dick size isn't the be-all-end-all but stupid lies like those are really unnecessary and honesty definitely means a lot to me as well when it comes to relationships and sex, even when it comes to dick sizes or whatever you have it.

 

[dickapick]

So most men lie about their size. Big time I would think in this case. Look at the size of his hand. Even tilted sidewards he won’t make 2 hands width on the knuckles which is less than the average width of a hand. My guess would be he is 7 and thin-ish compared to his length. But then again. Is this really a big deal? Is he measuring correctly? Is he rounding up? If this is his only lie he would be a saint. Chat with him. Find out what he is like. Maybe meet up and go from there

 

[Art3mis]

I’m not sure if you guys want any more updates, but here I am. You’ve all been very supportive, so I think you deserve an update of the situation.

We actually met up yesterday in one of the better bars in the city’s centre, just for a meeting and not for a hook-up. After the initial awkwardness, we started talking about what we want in life and all the usual stuff, and from my understanding, he’s a hedonist. I actually had to google the word afterwards to completely understand what he meant, but yeah, he’s looking for something akin to a FWB situation.

Not exactly what I was looking for, basically. I could not breach the matter of his size without sounding particularly insane, so I agreed to a second meeting in a few days, where he will ‘show me what real fun means’. Overall, I don’t think this will become the kind of relationship I want to, but I guess I can have a bit of fun before I continue my search

 

[bravesoldier]

So, I started chatting with a new guy, he’s really cute and hot and stuff, and he has a big dick as well!

that’s great and all, and he showed me his pictures and I was like ‘wow’. I estimated him to be around 8 inches with a nice girth as well, but I was curious and I asked him about his size, and he told me it’s 9 inches and he sorta wanted me to continue praise it.

Now the thing is that I don’t *think* he’s telling the truth, and that kinda makes the situation weird. Like 8 inches is freaking huge but why does someone need to further exaggerate the numbers? I’m a rather firm person regarding the truth, so I’d want to be prepared before we meet.

anyways, I started thinking that maybe my own perception is kinda messed up and he’s indeed 9 inches, soo here I am.

I have a picture of him and I’ve made sure to remove all other characteristics so nobody would recognise him, and I thought I could ask the experts in this forum about what they think. I’m unsure if I can attach the picture here or if it’s not allowed by the rules, but this has been bothering me for some reason and I can’t let go of it

I appreciate all responses, thank you!

The experience I have had over the years is normally most guys will tell you its an inch longer than it is. Of course it may be 9, but what we're looking at here is the underside of his beautiful slender rod. We're seeing the total package from the bottom of his balls to the very tip of his slim, spear head. This view makes it look 10 inches..

It is absolutely beautiful but I'm betting its probably 8" measured from the front, which lets you see from the tip down to where he bottoms out.

Beautiful cock and guy!

 

[deleted4500261]

I’ll play Devil’s advocate and ask “is it possible that he doesn’t know how to measure correctly and honestly thinks it’s 9”?”
I know the odds are not with him on that, especially if he was wanting you to praise him for his size. You also run the chance that the photo is not even of him.

 

[Art3mis]

I’ll play Devil’s advocate and ask “is it possible that he doesn’t know how to measure correctly and honestly thinks it’s 9”?”
I know the odds are not with him on that, especially if he was wanting you to praise him for his size. You also run the chance that the photo is not even of him.

Okay, that actually makes a lot of sense, but a simple google search would tell him how to do it, right? I’ve been told that if you measure from the side, it actually appears longer than it is, so maybe that has something to do with it.

I believe I can give him the benefit of the doubt, because I’m certainly not looking into something long term with him (and he has already expressed his own desires). If he’s indeed lying, I’ll just grit my teeth and accept that finding someone who’s completely honest and upfront is far harder than I thought it would be

I also recognise that I might be part of the problem as well. Perhaps I’m asking too much out of people? Maybe I need to adjust my expectations rather than being a paladin hellbent on seeking the truth.

 

[DiomedesXVI]

Here’s my thing, what does it matter? Also, apologies that I get a little rambly in this post, I’m just trying to be light-hearted and have a fun conversation haha.

Not trying to sound rude, just trying to sound direct lol. But the point stands, what does it matter overall? If you and this guy get along in any capacity that you (ideally mutually) enjoy interacting with him or one another, then how much of a faux-pas is it if he might exaggerate his dick size to be a tad larger than he actually may be? Keyword here being “tad” lol.

How I see it, the guy looks legit hung. If it’s a photoshop, and I don’t think it is, he’s nicely well-endowed regardless. For the record, looking at that picture, I don’t think his cock is 9”, but he’s definitely somewhere in the 8-9 range. If he told me himself that he had a 9” dick and sent me this pic as proof, I wouldn’t openly dispute him. Because, even if I can tell his dick is very unlikely 9”, he’s still pretty close by being within an inch of that measurement.

Lol maybe it’s just me being jaded to the whole social culture of dick size exaggeration. But I’ve just learned to accept that the vast majority of guys out there add a little extra to their real dick digits. The guys who don’t have to or don’t care to are always appreciated. I personally don’t exaggerate mine, in fact I stopped measuring years ago because it just doesn’t matter to me. It’s big, it works, I know how to use it, so what’s the point of running numbers? But, it is what it is and I’d say 9/10 guys do add a “cherry-on-top”, if you get my meaning hahaha. For me, if you push an extra half-inch to full-inch onto your numbers, I’m unbothered, just as long as it is within the realm of looking feasible on your dick.

Just to throw a few examples out there. If you’ve got a 6.5” and you call it a 7”, okay cool, not like I’m going to break out a ruler and measure your willy to verify it. If you’re a big boy already, then you can add a whole inch and I may not be any wiser (unless we end up putting our dicks side-by-side and comparing them haha). So if you have a big whopping 8” and you say it’s 9”, again it might be clear to me that it isn’t 9” cause let’s be real 9” is freaking massive; but, 8” is big enough that you saying 9” isn’t going to be too darn unbelievable. Again, not going to break out a ruler and be a witness at a court hearing for your willy haha.

Now, if you go beyond the realm of believable, yeah I’m more liable to speak up and contest your claims. So you can’t be sporting a 6” hot dog and try to tell me you’ve got an 8”er, yeah going to be too obvious to me that you don’t. Same goes for if you’ve got a large 8” meat and try to tell me you’re packing a 10” colossus, yeah no. Sorry, dick size claim input invalid, try again with a more reasonable size and deviation.

Eh I’m starting to ramble, my point is, how much value do you assign to being told a set of numbers for a guy’s dick length? Is it a total dealbreaker if his numbers don’t match up entirely? Do you have a range of realistic exaggeration that you accept? I think regardless, ask yourself why is dick size so important to you? Again, not trying to say that rudely, but rather directly. In the end, why is reported dick size of great significance to your personal value of interpersonal relationships?

 

[Art3mis]

Here’s my thing, what does it matter? Also, apologies that I get a little rambly in this post, I’m just trying to be light-hearted and have a fun conversation haha.

Not trying to sound rude, just trying to sound direct lol. But the point stands, what does it matter overall? If you and this guy get along in any capacity that you (ideally mutually) enjoy interacting with him or one another, then how much of a faux-pas is it if he might exaggerate his dick size to be a tad larger than he actually may be? Keyword here being “tad” lol.

How I see it, the guy looks legit hung. If it’s a photoshop, and I don’t think it is, he’s nicely well-endowed regardless. For the record, looking at that picture, I don’t think his cock is 9”, but he’s definitely somewhere in the 8-9 range. If he told me himself that he had a 9” dick and sent me this pic as proof, I wouldn’t openly dispute him. Because, even if I can tell his dick is very unlikely 9”, he’s still pretty close by being within an inch of that measurement.

Lol maybe it’s just me being jaded to the whole social culture of dick size exaggeration. But I’ve just learned to accept that the vast majority of guys out there add a little extra to their real dick digits. The guys who don’t have to or don’t care to are always appreciated. I personally don’t exaggerate mine, in fact I stopped measuring years ago because it just doesn’t matter to me. It’s big, it works, I know how to use it, so what’s the point of running numbers? But, it is what it is and I’d say 9/10 guys do add a “cherry-on-top”, if you get my meaning hahaha. For me, if you push an extra half-inch to full-inch onto your numbers, I’m unbothered, just as long as it is within the realm of looking feasible on your dick.

Just to throw a few examples out there. If you’ve got a 6.5” and you call it a 7”, okay cool, not like I’m going to break out a ruler and measure your willy to verify it. If you’re a big boy already, then you can add a whole inch and I may not be any wiser (unless we end up putting our dicks side-by-side and comparing them haha). So if you have a big whopping 8” and you say it’s 9”, again it might be clear to me that it isn’t 9” cause let’s be real 9” is freaking massive; but, 8” is big enough that you saying 9” isn’t going to be too darn unbelievable. Again, not going to break out a ruler and be a witness at a court hearing for your willy haha.

Now, if you go beyond the realm of believable, yeah I’m more liable to speak up and contest your claims. So you can’t be sporting a 6” hot dog and try to tell me you’ve got an 8”er, yeah going to be too obvious to me that you don’t. Same goes for if you’ve got a large 8” meat and try to tell me you’re packing a 10” colossus, yeah no. Sorry, dick size claim input invalid, try again with a more reasonable size and deviation.

Eh I’m starting to ramble, my point is, how much value do you assign to being told a set of numbers for a guy’s dick length? Is it a total dealbreaker if his numbers don’t match up entirely? Do you have a range of realistic exaggeration that you accept? I think regardless, ask yourself why is dick size so important to you? Again, not trying to say that rudely, but rather directly. In the end, why is reported dick size of great significance to your personal value of interpersonal relationships?

You weren’t rude at all, but literally the opposite I quite enjoyed reading your comment, and you’ve made some very clear points indeed.

For me, it’s not the size of his dick specifically. For example, if he told me he’s like, I dunno 6’3 and we met and he was, say 6’ (which is still tall), I’d still feel the same way. Or like, if he told me he’s 200 pounds, but he’s actually 170. It’s not the numbers per se, but the principle. It makes me feel so bad.

It’s hard to describe the feeling, actually, but the closest I can put it into words is this: When other people lie in my face, it makes me think that they believe that I’m dumb or stupid and that they can get away with it. As in like “Haha, I can say whatever I want and they’ll totally believe it”. It has happened at work, in public, everywhere. It makes me feel inferior and mad and angry at myself, a kind of irrational sentiment seeping through me. It has even made me question whether my face looks stupid. And people lie, a lot, about everything really, so I feel like that on a weekly basis.

Clearly the guy is hung, be it 7.99 inches or 8.01. Kudos to him, he won a section of the genetic lottery. I would definitely be angrier if he was the only person who lies, but it just spawns conflict down the road. I mean, what will happen if I tell him he’s 8 inches and not nine, just as a matter of fact, and he gets mad at me? Should I say nothing and play along with it? I genuinely don’t know, and my mind would tell me to say the truth.

Sorry if this didn’t make sense, I started rambling as well

 

[Mr_Snufalufagus]

6.5 inches

 

[longstroke7]

I’m not sure if you guys want any more updates, but here I am. You’ve all been very supportive, so I think you deserve an update of the situation.

We actually met up yesterday in one of the better bars in the city’s centre, just for a meeting and not for a hook-up. After the initial awkwardness, we started talking about what we want in life and all the usual stuff, and from my understanding, he’s a hedonist. I actually had to google the word afterwards to completely understand what he meant, but yeah, he’s looking for something akin to a FWB situation.

Not exactly what I was looking for, basically. I could not breach the matter of his size without sounding particularly insane, so I agreed to a second meeting in a few days, where he will ‘show me what real fun means’. Overall, I don’t think this will become the kind of relationship I want to, but I guess I can have a bit of fun before I continue my search

Sounds like he just wants a hook up. I can respect ppl who are up front about what they want.

Enjoy the sex dude just don't let feelings become involved, especially if he fucks your brains out with that baton hahaha