I had a new experience today. I've only had sexual contact with another man a couple of times when experimenting with a friend a long time ago. I've written about those things on the forum before.
I've always enjoyed being naked in locker rooms and showing off my cock, but I've never really done anything sexual aside from leaving my cock exposed for others to look at. I've had a lot of opportunities to do stuff when guys have given some pretty obvious signals to me, but never really did anything. I've often fantasized about fooling around in a steam room or in the showers but had never really tried anything beyond showing off.
I've been going to a new gym for a few months and have gotten a lot of attention from guys in the locker room. Lots of stares at my cock, attempts at eye contact, cock flashes, and even some guys stroking their hard ons in front of my trying to get me to join. Within the past one particular guy who has been watching me a lot got more forward.
My gym says that you have to wear shorts in the steam room, but I always wrap a towel around my waist and position it so that when I sit down one corner of the towel falls between my legs to cover my cock and balls. I sit right on the edge of the bench in the steam room so that my cock balls hang straight down. This means that at the right angle someone can get a clear shot. If I get the feeling that someone wants to see more then sometimes I will scratch my leg and move the towel so that I'm exposed. Other times I might lift the entire corner of my towel to wipe my face leaving me full exposed. And in some cases I might give my cock a squeeze and a tug, but make it look like I'm just scratching.
The guy I mentioned above started always making sure he could sit across from me in the steam room. Last week he did this and while I sat with my eyes barely open or my hands kind of covering my face he got himself into an awkward position so that he could see under my towel. Sometimes he actually got up and started crouching until he thought I was going to look again, even though I was watching the whole time. After that I was cooling off in the shower with my curtain open a few inches on either side so anyone can look in if they want. He showered in the stall next to me and when he was done walked past my shower, which is towards a dead end. Then he walked past again and hit the shower curtain out of the way completely so he could more of a look as he walked past. He left right after that, but it turned me on a lot that someone would do something that daring just to look at my cock.
Today the locker room was pretty empty but he was there when I went into the steam room, and no one else was around. We went through the normal motions, I gave a few quick flashes of my cock like I described above and he was moving around trying to get a better look at my cock. We said a few things, talked about how hot the steam room was but other than that we had never said a word to each other. I had my towel draped like I described above and put both hands to my face to rub the water and sweat away and while my hands were blocking my vision he stood up, grabbed the corner of my towel and tossed it over my thigh so I was fully exposed. I kept rubbing my face so he could get a look, and I was turned on by someone doing something that risky just to look at my cock. When I stopped rubbing my face I grabbed the corner of the towel and covered up again, but not before grabbing the base of my cock and sliding my hand down the length of my shaft.
At that point he decided to pull the shorts he was wearing to the side and pull his already hard cock out through the leg of his shorts. I don't know what size he was, but his hard cock was smaller than my still soft cock, though some blood had started flowing to my cock. Since I had been considering trying something like this for awhile I said what the hell and moved my towel back where he had placed it. He said "Damn that's big" which I obviously liked hearing.
We both sat on our benches facing each other stroking our cocks, though I was still mostly soft while he was fully hard. After a few seconds he got up, stood next to me and the reached down and grabbed my cock, stroking it a few times. He cupped my balls in his hand and gave them a light squeeze. Then he tried to go below that and get to my asshole but I wouldn't change my position to let him do that, I have no interest in it. He went back to work stroking my cock but it was an awkward position and he said he was getting too hot and had to step out of the steam room. I stepped out a few second later and went to cool off in the shower while he sat in the room just outside the steam room and sauna.
After cooling off I went back into the steam room and he came back in a minute later. We did the same thing, sitting on our own benches stroking out cocks before he got up and sat next to me. I leaned back while he reached over and grabbed my cock again. I still was only half hard but he stroked my cock for a few minutes. Unfortunately, I never got more than half hard. I always have trouble getting really hard in the steam room and it was especially hot which made it tougher. Surprisingly I wasn't as turned on by the experience as I expected, despite thinking about trying this kind of thing for such a long time. Also, it was the first time anyone other than me had touched my cock in a long time. Not to mention we were both keeping an eye on the door to make sure we didn't get caught. I wish I had been able to get fully hard as this guy was clearly very interested in my size.
He said he had to leave again because it was too hot and he didn't come back in after that. I think maybe he was upset that I hadn't gotten harder but also that I wasn't really interested in doing anything to him.
While it wasn't a mind blowing experience, it was still fun and a turn on. I'm not certain if I got enough of an experience to tell how much I like fooling around like that. I might try it again to see if the experience is any different.
I thought I would feel very different after doing something like this, like it had somehow changed me. But I don't really feel much of anything. I'm not really interested in reciprocating with another guy, so I'm not sure if others will enjoy playing with me this way.
Sorry for the long post.