When you're in love, is it okay to lust after someone other than your partner? Is it normal to notice someone who possesses that certain quality you find irresistable or who you find attractive and have that turn you on? Are there different degrees of lusting that could be considered worse than others? For instance, would it be okay to lust after a porn star that you jack off to, or pictures on a website, but not okay to lust after a hot coworker with who has the perfect (ass, tits, bulge, etc) that you have a fetish for, what about the person on the street who caught your eye, is it okay that their beautiful XYZ turned you on?
I know it is normal to look, and recognize beauty and sexiness and fantacy's. But when you're in love with someone, aren't they the person that should turn you on the most, shouldn't all others pale in comparison? To the point that seeing anyone other than that person would seem boring and in turn not "lust worthy"?
Also, if you respond....say what type of relationship you're in: married, LTR, dating, etc...
I know it is normal to look, and recognize beauty and sexiness and fantacy's. But when you're in love with someone, aren't they the person that should turn you on the most, shouldn't all others pale in comparison? To the point that seeing anyone other than that person would seem boring and in turn not "lust worthy"?
Also, if you respond....say what type of relationship you're in: married, LTR, dating, etc...