Male bonding (non gay)

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You Sound Dumb,Not Once Did I Justify The Behavior, Go Take A Look At My Post And Try To Comprehend What I Said....N Not Once Did You See Where I Said I Did Anything Like That Before...And Yes A Decent Man Would Do Something Like That, Your Blinded...LOL....N A Person With Morals Wouldn't Even Be On This Site So Please Refrain Yourself From Saying Pointless Words
 

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That Is In N Way Or Form A Self-Centered Point Of View...And As You May Have Read Before This Post, Some Guys Out Their Like You Haven't Done So, So The No Representation Part Was Pointless.. Open Your Mind, Open Your Eyes, The Average Male Either Have Or WIll Show A Nude Pic Of His Girl...Men Like To Show Off, Prove Who Got The Baddest, Its In Our Nature To Be Show Offs....Think About It..Open Your Mind And Stop Walking In The Dark And Stone Ages

It is a self centered point of view, because you make a generalized statement about men and their nature based on your personal experience in your circle of friends.

It is in the human nature to compare one with others, it is in the human nature to want to outdo others, if you go by psychologist Alfred Adler this is the basic path of the development of human personality. But that does not necessarily mean it is in their nature to show off. There is a tremendous difference. A showoff to me seems only be necessary if the person is not assured enough of his/her self. Men need to know they are with a hot girl, and that certainly has to do with comparing, but i wouldn't say men need others to know they are with a hot girl. That really seems like an act of insecurity to me a cry for reassurance and respect.

I can not judge what the average is, but i have no reason to believe that the average male is that insecure about his self. Maybe it is in fact the case that the average has become so neurotic, but i doubt it and my opinion is as good as yours since neither of us can prove it in any way.
We both are in the dark, the difference between us is you light a flashlight and tell us it's the sun.
 

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To the OP - there are better ways of male bonding.

And gayness is a matter of definition. Two straight men can by J/O buddies. Never into that sort of thing myself - but seems like it would be the ultimate way of male boding barring going to war together or having sex with each other.
 

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the difference between us is I light a flash light n tell yall it's the sun....you sound dumb....its my opinion and everyone has one, and since neither one of us can prove our statements to be true or false why get upset...How old are we again, thought we were grown....and again , guess I gotta tell you to, go read my post, i believe I SAID I WOULD SHOW A PIC, NEVER SAID I DID OR SOMEONE SHOWED ME THERE GIRL SO WHY DO YALL KEEP SPEAK OF PERSONAL EXPERIENCE...
 

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the difference between us is I light a flash light n tell yall it's the sun....you sound dumb....its my opinion and everyone has one, and since neither one of us can prove our statements to be true or false why get upset...How old are we again, thought we were grown....and again , guess I gotta tell you to, go read my post, i believe I SAID I WOULD SHOW A PIC, NEVER SAID I DID OR SOMEONE SHOWED ME THERE GIRL SO WHY DO YALL KEEP SPEAK OF PERSONAL EXPERIENCE...

We are both wandering in the dark, we both have a flashlight that has a very narrow light beam, giving us the chance to only see a small part of the entirety, the rest remains to be dark and invisible for us. We both form an opinion based on what we see, i say from what i see i can not agree with you.
But you, you tell me i am wrong and that you can see it all, which to me can only be the case if you mistake your flashlight for the sun. and now you tell me i sound dumb and ask me why i get upset?

And i am sorry to say that but that you didn't get the metaphor of the flashlight and didn't understand what i meant with personal experience makes you sound a little dumb.
 

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I Said You Was Wrong You Said I Was Wrong.. And I Got Ya Metaphor , Wasn't Confusing In Any Way, And Yea The Personal Experience Comment Could Have Ranged To Be Several Things 1. Me Showing Nude Pics 2.Friends Showing Me Nude Pics 3.What I See Others Do......But Yea We Both Got Our Own Opinions So Why Get Upset, No Disrespect
 

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I Said You Was Wrong You Said I Was Wrong.. And I Got Ya Metaphor , Wasn't Confusing In Any Way, And Yea The Personal Experience Comment Could Have Ranged To Be Several Things 1. Me Showing Nude Pics 2.Friends Showing Me Nude Pics 3.What I See Others Do......But Yea We Both Got Our Own Opinions So Why Get Upset, No Disrespect

You just didn't get it.
 

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Can You Read? Do You Have Some Sort Of Mental Disability? The Words That Are Written On This Post From Me Is As Clear As Can Be. You Need To Find Something Better To With Your Life Than To Continue To Post Things Such As Translation Anyone!, When Indeed The Structure Of My Sentence Is Very Well Understandable.
 

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I have no idea what PlayBoyKing is saying either. The all cap sentences and the no cap sentences with the creative punctuation makes my head hurt.

your statement insults men.

you attempt to justify a shitty behaviour by accusing most men of being the same. if most of your friends would do it then all that says is that you hang around with a lower class of person.

no decent man would do such a thing and, as the boys above me have already demonstrated, there are plenty of decent men.

you could find groups of men who think sharing child porn is ok and harmless. finding others who agree with them doesn't make them any less repugnant to those of us with morals.

^ This is exactly what I think.
 

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Would you show nude pics of your girlfriend or at least soon to be girlfriend to a good friend of yours as a form of male bonding?

This is of course assuming he is actually trust worthy and would not fuck you over.

By good friend I mean a true ride or die, bros before hoes, bail you out when you call him at 3 am from Miami type friend.

Some heteros have some differing views on male bonding...:rolleyes:

When I think of hetero male bonding...I think of like fishing trips, going to a sports bar for a couple of beers, building something that takes a weekend to make, poker games, playing some sports...but NEVER "I will male bond with another by showing nude pics of my girlfriend".:rolleyes:

What is your intention by doing that? Do you think that he will reciprocate and show you nude photos of his girlfriend, wife, or fuck buddy?


 

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I Guess Man, If Thats What You Wanna Hear To Help You Feel Better Than So Be It...But Again No Disrespect.

I don't wanna hear that, it just is that judging by your posts you didn't get it.
The personal experience reference was clearly clarified within the context of the sentence and later graphic expressed in the metaphor.

I didn't tell you your opinion was wrong, i told you what i can see with my flashlight is different from what you see, and you told me that i am blind, live in the stone age and my vision is wrong, you don't see a difference there?
You don't see a reason to get upset about that? I am not upset about your opinion, i am upset that you presume to tell what is average and normal for a man, and i as a man take offense to that.