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I keep looking, but can't find his sign-up sheet. :tongue:

Haha, thanks guys, but I'm not ready to make that jump just yet... I like women too much, I still have confidence that I'll find that special gorgeous woman who'll take the whole of me like a champ. :biggrin1:
 

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With my past relations i love giving that special guy in my life a BJ and I am wanting to learn more about giving head I have never deepthroated a guy before and want to learn how to do that i have been reading on here more about it and really want to learn cause when i am with another guy again i want to be able to do this for him
 

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- Another guy told me, "Wow, I usually don't like getting head." When I asked why, he told me he just found it too demeaning, etc., "...but when you did it, it just felt like you couldn't get enough of it, and seemed almost mean to pull you off of it. You just seemed so happy to be down there."
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Now, Maven that I am, I'm still not going to 'go there' with who's better. :wink: I just want some tips on what guys LIKE that women don't necessarily know ... from men's perspective. I don't want to be 'better' than anyone other than my current self. Funny that you should mention mouth-watering at the sight of a nice cock - I tell my BF that all the time... His cock truly makes my mouth water - I just want to get my hands on it and suck him dry, but we work different shifts .. etc. etc.

Also, I was going to save this for another thread (we can still post it as such if warranted) but since the deepthroating aspect of fellatio has come up a few times: How do I get my gag reflex to relax enough to get that monster down my throat?? My BF isn't extremely long (7" roughly) but he is exceptionally thick, especially the head. I can actually feel it stretching my throat when I go down on him. Is it just practice or does anyone have a special trick to getting the cock all the way down their throat without dry heaving? :yumyum:
 

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Awwww... :frown1: What are we doing wrong? That was the point of my original question... What is it that men want from a woman that they think a man would do better or would know better? For me there is nothing that gets me wetter faster than wrapping my lips around his cock and listening to him moan. But - to each her own I guess.

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Well there is the question of how long & flexible the tongue is.

To be able to wrap a tongue around the shaft and slide it up and down it which pressing the lips with variated strength is something I would certaintly like to experience.

THE art may in large part lie in knowing when to apply what how firmly when.
 

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Now, Maven that I am, I'm still not going to 'go there' with who's better. :wink: I just want some tips on what guys LIKE that women don't necessarily know ... from men's perspective. I don't want to be 'better' than anyone other than my current self. Funny that you should mention mouth-watering at the sight of a nice cock - I tell my BF that all the time... His cock truly makes my mouth water - I just want to get my hands on it and suck him dry, but we work different shifts .. etc. etc.

Also, I was going to save this for another thread (we can still post it as such if warranted) but since the deepthroating aspect of fellatio has come up a few times: How do I get my gag reflex to relax enough to get that monster down my throat?? My BF isn't extremely long (7" roughly) but he is exceptionally thick, especially the head. I can actually feel it stretching my throat when I go down on him. Is it just practice or does anyone have a special trick to getting the cock all the way down their throat without dry heaving? :yumyum:

Well I don't know of any surveys on how sensitive various peoples gag reflex is (or for that matter how you could objectively measure that) but has anyone tried inserting the cock while flacid or semi .

Do you find the throat stretched at its back.

Oh yes Do you know how thick your BF is especially the head and if it is really only the head that causes trouble.
 

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I wouldn't do anything with a guy but I will say that women are shit at giving blowjobs and handjobs. I try and show them but they're half hearted about it and don't grip tight enough or some other shit. I've always told them to just stop trying to blow me. They try and bite off...or suck off more than they can chew...

My main thing is just penetrative sex, vaginal. No one will let me raid their ass....yet.
 

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I wouldn't do anything with a guy but I will say that women are shit at giving blowjobs and handjobs. I try and show them but they're half hearted about it and don't grip tight enough or some other shit. I've always told them to just stop trying to blow me. They try and bite off...or suck off more than they can chew...

My main thing is just penetrative sex, vaginal. No one will let me raid their ass....yet.

What?? Why?? I hear frustration and bitterness in some replies to this thread and I wonder.... What the hell are you guys doing with women that refuse to give you what you want? That's the WHOLE reason I started this thread, because I want to know what the hell he meant by "Men know what men want." It's the same for women, but we talked about it and now he KNOWS what I like about receiving oral from a woman... I don't just throw up my hands and say, "Oh well. You suck. That's life." Sex is too important to me to be so complacent. You guys need to TELL us what you want and then SHOW us. We aren't mind-readers either.

So all you bitter, pissed off dudes - What the hell do you want?? :smile:
 

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Unless your guy is bisexual I agree with Lordpendragon's earlier post.While you're pulling his cock he's pulling your leg!

Nope, he was dead serious. It's true though - only men know exactly what another man wants, in general terms. :smile: Same for women ... I like the way a woman eats my pussy better than my BF. He's just trying to get it wet so he can jam his cock in there .. which is fine .. but a woman licks it like she LOVES it. There's a difference.
 

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I like the way a woman eats my pussy better than my BF. He's just trying to get it wet so he can jam his cock in there .. which is fine .. but a woman licks it like she LOVES it. There's a difference.

Maybe we should meet, I'd show you that some men - like me - LOVE to eat pussy, just for the fact that they, indeed, LOVE the pussy. :smile: Just like girls can give BJs to their BFs just like that, I can delve into that holiest of places without expecting something in return. I like it THAT much. :biggrin1:
 

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I would just rather fuck pussy than have someone ineptly try to jack me or suck me off. I tried to show them, I REALLY tried. But they were just slow learners/naturally lacking the sexual instinct. Remember though that I haven't been with many women and most have been young (teens). One was experienced and she still sucked...badly. At stimulating me.

They just don't know what they're doing. To be honest, I can't be arsed telling them. They should know what to do, is my take on it. At this moment in time.

Or maybe I've been getting good head or hand jobs and I'm just not receptive to them idk.
 

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Nope, he was dead serious. It's true though - only men know exactly what another man wants, in general terms. :smile:
Obviously only a man knows how it feels to have an erect cock,but speaking as a 100% straight guy I know I don't want a blow job from a guy.If your BF isn't bi then he must be bi-curious at least.
As you enjoy getting oral from other women maybe he's following your lead.
From your other posts in this thread it really doesn't sound like you're doing anything wrong to me and you're trying to find some incredible technique that doesn't exist.
 

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They just don't know what they're doing. To be honest, I can't be arsed telling them. They should know what to do, is my take on it. At this moment in time.

How hard (no pun intended) is it to just give them a few pointers? I'm glad my first GF told me the ins and outs (so to speak) of the vagina, that's how I got that good at eating pussy... and that's how I learn to love it.

And if you think I'm bragging, remember the wise words of Muhammed Ali:

"It's not bragging if you can back it up."

On a completely unrelated topic, I now offer free cunnilingus to the first 10 women to reply to this post.. :biggrin1:
 

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i dont sense pissed off dudes all i hear are guys who are telling you their opinions . sorry i thought that was why you started this thread by asking us guys what your boyfriend may or not may have meant by his statement

"Men know what men want."
 

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I tried giving pointers, it didn't work. Then the 'older' woman I dated, I thought with her age etc she'd know what to do. She didn't. I just can't be arsed telling them.

If they haven't learned what to do after 15+ guys, nothing I say or do will teach them. Such is my feeling on the matter.
 

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I tried giving pointers, it didn't work. Then the 'older' woman I dated, I thought with her age etc she'd know what to do. She didn't. I just can't be arsed telling them.

If they haven't learned what to do after 15+ guys, nothing I say or do will teach them. Such is my feeling on the matter.

You make a good point... However, if the previous 14 dudes all told themselves the same thing, those poor women aren't gonna get better at sucking dicks, and the next 15 guys in line'll probably end up complaining about those chicks' BJ skills on the Internet. :smile:
 

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True but these are the girls that say 'I'm good at head' etc and I just don't think they are. Maybe every guy is different or something. Its just not my thing. My friends say head can be better than pussy but I don't know. Maybe one day a girl will change my mind about it.
 

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True but these are the girls that say 'I'm good at head' etc and I just don't think they are. Maybe every guy is different or something. Its just not my thing. My friends say head can be better than pussy but I don't know. Maybe one day a girl will change my mind about it.

Dude, I totally understand what you mean - I'm still on the lookout for that one woman that will suck me off and totally blow my mind (not to mention my load)... I've yet to meet her, unfortunately. But I'm keeping the hope alive.