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Sure I stroke myself off whenever I feel like it, or whenever the opportunity arises. I gave up smoking cigarettes and drinking alcohol years ago--running low on vices!
 

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I can never truly get enough of these masturbation threads. For me, I definitely jack as much whether or not I'm in a relationship. Jacking is something completely different for me. It's time for me to just enjoy my cock, porn and just have a great time. The experience doesn't make me a selfish person.
 

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Of those who do masturbate while in a relationship, when do you do it? I find it odd to do it in front of my partner if he's not in the mood to take care of his own business.
 

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Most men do like watching their partner jerk off, but again, that's usually when both are in the mood. I guess my question really stems from the fact that I am ALWAYS horned up, and my boyfriend is less horny than me. So I don't feel it necessarily appropriate to jerk off in front of him...but do guys just do this anyway? Jerk off while their partner is sleeping. I feel guilty, so I often just do it while taking a shower. I need to give myself some release!
 

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I think the vast majority of men in a steady relationship jerk off, not all of them tell their wives because some wives view it as taking something away from them, that if he wanks it's not as well as sex but instead of. I love masturbating with a guy while I watch him, but if he wants a quiet wank while he fantasises it's no biggy, a fantasy is just a fantasy.
 

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Most men do like watching their partner jerk off, but again, that's usually when both are in the mood. I guess my question really stems from the fact that I am ALWAYS horned up, and my boyfriend is less horny than me. So I don't feel it necessarily appropriate to jerk off in front of him...but do guys just do this anyway? Jerk off while their partner is sleeping. I feel guilty, so I often just do it while taking a shower. I need to give myself some release!
i've done it while partners slept.
or sneakily in the bathroom.
 

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I masturbate whenever i get the chance and still have great sex with the wife. Jacking off feels so good, it's the most natural thing in the world.
 
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If you want a woman's perspective - - -

I love watching my man cum with the Fleshlight! Especially the clear one where I can see how far his big dick gets into it.

The look on his face makes me SO wet too, so we always cum together!
 

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I love watching a man stroke himself. I've even had my man come to my work then masturbate in the car in the parking lot while I watched. Luckily I know where all the cameras are.
 

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Masturbating is always normal, as far as it does not affect your sexual relationship with the other person.

I do it, even though less often then when I was single: it is a way to relax, to communicate with your body, to know well your sensations...
 

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51 yrs old, married, been wanking since I was 12 too. Not as much now compared to my teens, but why stop just because your in a relationship? I reckon every man should love the feel of his own cock.
 

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I usually try to give the option to my wife first for sex and if she's not interested than I jack off. If I don't have sex that day, I usually do it every day especially when I am stressed. Makes me feel better. My wife didn't understand at first why I wasn't "waiting" for her, but now she understands. My brother has to hide his "masturbating" from his wife because it upsets her. *Weird*
 

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yup! daily.
sometimes twice or more per day. It doesn't make any harm.