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Yadda, yadda, yadda that and 50 cents won't get him a cup of coffee... etc.
As someone else said, none of us "deserve" anything. Perhaps the fact you have that attitude sets you up to fall. (Don't take that statement as a dig; it's just an observation)

Don't go looking for love as you will never find it. All you/I/we can do is to work towards truly loving ourself and when we are in that place then the right person will come to you/me/us.

I know that by far the most loving relationships that I have had have come about when I have been in perdios of my life in which I have been the most at ease with myself.
 

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I seriously should hook you up with some of my friends. The biggest thing with these girls is meeting 'nice guys'.

I think you may be hanging around the wrong crowds. Sometimes people view nice as boring. Now I know its stupid of me to say this, but sometimes I have a real problem with 'nice people'. If you're trying to be 'nice' and it's not really who you are then please, stop right away. Don't get me wrong, I don't mean turn into an asshole, just that a few sarcastic jokes every now and then aren't bad. Unlike me though, I'm waay to extreme on the sarcasm, so much so that people call me 'not nice'. Can't help it though. But it's getting better with age.

And whatever you do, please, don't apologize to anyone for who you are. It's a factor of upbringing, environment, etc that does that.

Yeh..me too view some "nice" boring and some even annoying..but is because I cant swallow people pleasers as pleasing not having a personality to stand for itself and not learned yet said: NO! I dont agree! etc...

And some act like that and deep inside are not nice at all, but act this way for their own gain and be seen as "nice". Its just a mask some may use some or many or all times. Plus some like play victims all the time...:rolleyes: what is annoying . I'm kind of scared of too much nice people as all controled and have everything under control etc is like a no germ all sterilized operation room. Well...