Going into a doctor's office is incredibly stressful. Hell, I go into a doctors office, and my normally desert dry armpits are soaked in mere minutes! My goal is to try to keep those stress levels to a minimum. I won't wear a white coat for that reason. The gowns are worthless, all parties know that, but you try to keep a modicum of modesty. My number one goal is establish a bond of trust and good faith. Without trust, absolutely nothing I say will be believed or acted upon. And I take the genital exam very seriously. Yes, I am going to spend more time palpating the testes of an older teen or a 20 something than I will some geezer over 70. Young guys get testicular cancer, and having made 1 diagnosis in my career, I never want to make, much less miss, another. Finger in the butt? Nope, not going there with a 20 year old without one hell of a good reason, but some old fart over 40? I had a run of colon cancers a few years back that would have been missed if I had slacked off. That fickle finger of fate save a number of lives, with a modicum of embarrassment and discomfort. As for foreskins, they might not be very common where I work, but when they do mysteriously appear, they always, always get pulled back, all the way, for a proper look. 2 advanced, pre cancerous penile lesions in one month is pretty humbling. Yep, they both needed circumcisions despite the best advise available here on this website, and both guys get to keep their organs and live another day. I love my job. It isn't prurient, it isn't lewd, it's stressful at times. And it is very rewarding. Bad things happen in the real world. I do my damnedest at my professional best to try to prevent those bad things from coming to pass! Questions?