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First relax, you are trying to hard. It's not that complicated.
Go buy you a drum stick. Put a condom on it. Lay either on your side or on your back. Insert the drum stick in to your butt only about four inches at the most. Your prostate is located about 2 - 4" inside your rectum right behind your perineum or "taint" . You can gently massage your prostate from the outside by rubbing on your perineum.
Once inserted, pull the stick towards your back. You should be able to feel the drum stick touching your prostate. Once you've located your prostate. Gently move the drum stick from side to side.
Now that you've found your prostate you will know exactly what angle to use something a little bigger with.
There is one prostate massager Lelo Loki it's $169.00 but you may be able to find one cheaper
Before you buy one though, make sure you can find your prostate . Every man has one. How men treat their prostate can determine how good their sexual health is. My motto has always been: take care of your dick and your dick will take care of you.
Once you relax and start experiencing prostate orgasms you'll never look back. Stop stressing over it, you'll never have a prostate orgasm if you don't.
I have a NJoy Pure Wand for that. As well as a Lovense Edge, Aneros Line: Progasm, Progasm Jr, Helix Syn, Maximus Trident, Eupho. Two different sized dildos. A large anal plug. If I haven't found my prostate yet... lol
Thanks for trying to give more advice. If you don't mind, I'd love some more advice. I've read and tried relaxing with all these devices inserted, usually fall asleep if I relax too much lol
It's funny, even with all that I still can't say with 100% certainty that I even have a prostate. Like No matter what angle, toys etc. I use I cannot pinpoint a spot and say "Yup, that's my prostate!" after several years of anal play. I can feel the toy in there. It isnt uncomfortable. It doesn't hurt (anymore, had an anal tear that flares up sometimes, quite painful!).
Just dropping some background for any help. Though most guys kinda give up since it's too much dedication in trying to help a random stranger on the net with anal play. This is open for anyone to help!