onewatcher
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So many of us have been in the same boat!:frown1:
Wonderwhy, I sooo identified with your post. I'm one of those people who is attracted to people on a person-by-person basis without a lot of regard to their gender. I've had painful crushes on both men and women. I had a huge crush on my best friend junior year of high school. I remember so clearly the afternoon I was leaving school late in the afternoon and happened to see him lying on the grass in the quad after school, lost in passion and spread across his new girlfriend, making out. It felt like my heart was getting ripped out of my chest, and I felt physically weak for the rest of the day. It was so confusing to me. He and I had kind of a flirty relationship, and I guess I had always held out some hope that something would happen between he and I. I got over the pain of the crush in a couple of weeks and was happy to have such a close friendship with him, even if it never went further than that.
Don't be too quick to move out. He sounds like a great guy, someone that anyone would be lucky to have as "just" a friend. I agree with others that if it becomes too painful, maybe moving out and moving on would be best. But, I'd give it at least a few months.
Good luck, whatever you decide.