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I have always shaved right after showering in the mornings. In college in the early eighties I think all of the guys on my floor shaved just as soon as they showered (well those weren't trying to grow a mustache or beard). Only a few of them I recall wrapped a towel, the majority of us just shaved like the above image. If I'm playing golf, which is usually every Saturday morning, I don't shower or shave before leaving the house. I will shower and shave in the locker room at the country club afterwards. Most if not all of the older guys (myself included) all stand naked at the sink just after they dry off and shave. Most put the towel on the floor in front of them to stand on. The younger guys will however wrap a towel if they are going to shave or when walking back to their lockers. There is a father and son at the club who always golf together and its funny to watch them. The dad, who is in his sixties will walk naked through the locker room to the showers and then stand at the sink naked while shaving. His son, who I would guess is mid to late thirties will wrap a terry shower wrap around him and then walk to the showers, As soon as he dries off he wraps up and walks back to the lockers to dress. He remains covered while he puts his underwear on. I have never understood that but yet see it often in younger men. If my father were still alive and saw something like that, I can only imagine the words that would be coming from his mouth.
My former assistant said he never showered with his football teammates. Each of them went home to shower.
As someone who served in the US MIL, swam naked at university (required) and swam naked with lads my age in Europe, I don't get it. I attribute some of this to "the fear of queer". The nude guy standing next to you might be gay. Like , really is he going to grope you or come onto you in such surroundings. Nope. I also blame parents for the fright of shared nudity. Even when I was in middle school (junior high in my day), we showered after gym class.
It is saddening that men have such fears. I say, Get over it. Men check each other out, period. Does not matter your sexual orientation, men look at men. This obsession is unhealthy and toxic.