shit, need advice

ok, so i met up with her at the hospital today and when i got there to her room, i walked in, and everything looked normal at first, and she was looking really good even in the hospital gown. So at first i didnt notice anything wrong, then when she turned toward me, i looked she had about 9 stitches across the side of her cheek surrounded by dark red swelling, just under and to the left of her left eye. Also i noticed both of her wrists was bruised a dark purple/red color as though someone had grabbed it, i asked her what happened and she said she was rear ended by a hit and run driver, which i immediatly doubted was what happened from the marks on her wrists. She told me that she had two fractured ribs, also from the "accident". We talked for a while about it, she gave some sketchy details about the "car crash", but i didnt really interrogate her about the accident, as it was obvious from her injuries to me and probably everyone else at the hospital that someone had beat her up. I stayed talking to her for about 20 minutes, she said shes getting released from the hospital tonight, and she kept telling me about how nice it was for me to come, how i am such a great person to go out of my way for someone i dont know that well, i didnt think that you would show up. I really dont like getting involved in so much drama so early in a relationship, I also just feel really angry that someone would put their hands on a woman like that, especially one i really am starting to feel for. I just feel something different with her than with all the other girls ive known and im just not sure what i am going to do, we have known each other for such a short time i know staying would be crazy and if it was just any other girl i would probably be gone, but i feel like i am being drawn towards this crazy drama, despite my brain telling me to gtfo.
u using your wrong head and that is the problem...u r with her b/c she is so hott not b/c she doesn't have problems...u need to move on and get a girl that is pretty,smart and has it together...this sounds like alot of drama that u will end up getting hurt in...its never a good thing when your date just leaves after a fone call and she lies...u don't start a relationship off with all of that drama...
 
Hey, this guy hasnt posted or even logged on in a few days now. Should we be worried?

Yes!!! Not logged on, and not repsonding to PMs.

Hogg, WTF? Either you're having such great sex that you are too busy to update or do we need to file a Missing Persons Report? Not fair to drag us into your Soap Opera and not give us the update. I'm gonna have to punish you :wink:
 
Its been over two weeks now. Its official. He's dead. :frown1:

VERY worrisome indeed. Wish that he would've listened to those of us that gave him SOUND advice. Hoggy, I miss you but, if your ass is still alive after making me worry for two weeks I'm gonna stick my stiletto up it!!!:eek:
 
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You will have to tell us what the big secret is. My mind is racing. Is she transgender....getting ready to have a sex change and she is nervous that you won't like her anymore after you find out. ? It could be that she has a disease or a condition and she wants to be upfront with you. Or if it is something affecting her fertility she might feel like she needs to be upfront about that.

That was the thing that crossed my mind when I read it.... but that may be a bit extreme.
I'd say run a mile or 2, get the hell outa there.
 
hi again everyone, i got out of the hospital about a week ago after going through renal failure, internal sepsis, shattered right illium, two splintered ribs, shattered mandible, and a collapsed lung from the impact of two 9mm parabellum rounds from a glock 21. I learned alot about life from this. I learned that you that you shouldn't ever help anyone besides yourself in life. and i learned it takes more than two SHOTS FROM A LITTLE BITCHMOTHERFUCKER TO SEND ME TO HELL!!! It turns out that her HUSBAND, thats right the fucking bitch was married and her punkshit husband is a member of some phillipino street gang called "balana", of course the fucking bitch didnt care about anyone else enough to keep leading me on without telling me she was married to a murderous gangster. WELL i am the one who is laughing now, that that little BITCH ASS MONGOLOID IS GONNA GET ASSRAPED IN PRISON FOR THE REST OF HIS WORTHLESS LIFE. and the DA has assured me that THAT BITCH is going to get at least 5 years minimum as an accomplice to attempted murder.
 
I am having a hard time believing this story, because no one can be that stupid to not take the HUGE RED FLAGS as a warning to run FAR from this situation. Nearly all 4 pages of responses predicted this entire situation. I find it very odd it turned out exactly like people predicted to a T.

The odds are....this guy is going to get killed for his stupidity if it is the truth because he can't leave shit alone. Sadly, women take other men down all the time with their domestic abuse situations because they don't take advice and resources offered to them and some "knight in shining armor" like the OP comes along and shes happy to let him take the bullets so she doesnt have to put up with some abusers shit all by herself.
 
hi again everyone, i got out of the hospital about a week ago after going through renal failure, internal sepsis, shattered right illium, two splintered ribs, shattered mandible, and a collapsed lung from the impact of two 9mm parabellum rounds from a glock 21. I learned alot about life from this. I learned that you that you shouldn't ever help anyone besides yourself in life. and i learned it takes more than two SHOTS FROM A LITTLE BITCHMOTHERFUCKER TO SEND ME TO HELL!!! It turns out that her HUSBAND, thats right the fucking bitch was married and her punkshit husband is a member of some phillipino street gang called "balana", of course the fucking bitch didnt care about anyone else enough to keep leading me on without telling me she was married to a murderous gangster. WELL i am the one who is laughing now, that that little BITCH ASS MONGOLOID IS GONNA GET ASSRAPED IN PRISON FOR THE REST OF HIS WORTHLESS LIFE. and the DA has assured me that THAT BITCH is going to get at least 5 years minimum as an accomplice to attempted murder.
You describe 3 areas of the body. How could two bullets hit all three?

And how is she an accomplice? Philandering is not illegal.

And your philosophy about not helping people is flawed. You could help people, but always keep a guard up. We should always try to help people, but know when its legit.

Filipina chicks sure are hot!!!
 
im not sure if i believe this. wouldnt it be on the news or something? im from the UK but surely someone could post something. yoiu should right a film about this. it would be pretty cool to see. oh and if hes a gangsta he wont get ass raped. if hes got people in there, than he wont. if your feeling really brave, book a plane out of the country when he gets out, go give him a taste of his medicine then leave. wait, on second thought dont do that.
 
i got one that passed through my jaw at an angle that missed my brain stem by less than two inches. the other one hit my right side, its about 4 inches to my right and two inches down from my navel, it went in at an upward angle, and they told me it stopped about two inches from my back. One thing you should understand is that the feeling is nothing like you see in movies, the first shot i didnt feel very much, it felt like someone slapping me and poking hard in the cheek, after about 3 seconds the only feeling i felt after that was a burning/freezing feeling in my jaw which wasnt very painful. The second shot felt like nothing i ever felt before, the only way i could describe it would be like simultaneously getting hit by a sledgehammer swung by a gorilla and having a grenade go off inside you body. after that i dont really rember much except for waking up in the hospital.
 
what happened that led you to getting shot? one post was you finding her in hospital, the next your recovering from bullet wounds, can ya fill in the blanks please?
 
HAHAHAHAA stupid story ! but if u want me like many others in the site SHOW US the DA or Police REPORTS and even for more true PICTURES of your injured body !!!! HAHAHAAAA if u r studying for to become a screenplay writer let me tell you that u sucks !!!!! hahahaaaa at least tell us are Brad or Angelina in your movie !!!!! HAHAHAAA