TripodMillenium: You could always wake them up, waggle it around, and see if they're interested.... :lol:
Should there be a warning?
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Thanks in general. There were a couple of useful tips as far as letting "her" know. As I said- its only been recently that the "now way Jose" situation has been happening. My best line up to this point has been "Well, no one says you HAVE to take it all" and it pretty much always reassured them. I wrote mainly because I was a bit flustered with what seems to be a trend among women over 40. Madame Zora-While I always do carry my own so I will have a condom that fits, the ploy might be to "forget them in the car" so I have to go get ones that will fit, thereby sending the warning. 
I'm not so sure about the nursejudy measuring idea, though there are small tape measures that can be attached to a person's car keys, I think it might backfire.
I'm not so sure about the nursejudy measuring idea, though there are small tape measures that can be attached to a person's car keys, I think it might backfire.- Max,
To the general advice given here may I add my own patented "Braille method" which is tried and very successfully tested -- by me -- once. I was in this situation (with the girl I was eventually to marry), quite a bit worried about it, and this method was the answer.
I think judging from Robert's post this may not be very relevant to him, but it may be to a few others. It depends on the style in which you conduct relationships, I suppose.
Basically Max's Braille method is to judge the right time in the progress of a relationship, and the right moment during a clinch or a cuddle, to take her hands in yours and hold them and "walk" them gently in the target area ... so that she will get an idea of the scale of things without you have to say anything that might sound either bragging or gross. She may know you are big without this, but she may well not know just how big. Her reaction -- run for the door -- or lots of sweet cuddling and groans and smiles and kisses (which is what I got ) will tell you all you need to know.
There is a real problem in this sort of area for some of us, particularly for those like me who don't go all the way "to see if it will fit" as was suggested to me was essential in my case, before making a lifelong commitment.
I can give more details if you can stand them.
-- once. I was in this situation (with the girl I was eventually to marry), quite a bit worried about it, and this method was the answer.I think judging from Robert's post this may not be very relevant to him, but it may be to a few others. It depends on the style in which you conduct relationships, I suppose.
Basically Max's Braille method is to judge the right time in the progress of a relationship, and the right moment during a clinch or a cuddle, to take her hands in yours and hold them and "walk" them gently in the target area ... so that she will get an idea of the scale of things without you have to say anything that might sound either bragging or gross. She may know you are big without this, but she may well not know just how big. Her reaction -- run for the door -- or lots of sweet cuddling and groans and smiles and kisses (which is what I got
) will tell you all you need to know. There is a real problem in this sort of area for some of us, particularly for those like me who don't go all the way "to see if it will fit" as was suggested to me was essential in my case, before making a lifelong commitment.
I can give more details if you can stand them.
relatedtonone256: Okay...Here's my question...
Like I've said before - I'm an "average" guy (in almost all respects) with a 5.5x5.25 penis size (erect I should point out...since many here can claim that soft)
Should there be a "warning" for the opposite situation?
I for one could see the benefits (it would be honest, and certainly would clear the air up in my mind) on the other...hm...it's not exactly a normal topic of discussion.
Like I've said before - I'm an "average" guy (in almost all respects) with a 5.5x5.25 penis size (erect I should point out...since many here can claim that soft)
Should there be a "warning" for the opposite situation?
I for one could see the benefits (it would be honest, and certainly would clear the air up in my mind) on the other...hm...it's not exactly a normal topic of discussion.
Adult men should be required to wear a button with their cock size on it. The buttons would be issued by the government after an appropriate inspection -- renewable every 5 years. The button would read "7 1/2" for example. Guys with 5 or less would get a small button. 5 to 7, an average button. 7 to 9 a large button and above 9 and extra large button. For stylistic reasons, you could elect a smaller button than one you were entitled to (but never larger), but the size printed on the button would always be accurate. Size soft or erect? However you presented it to the inspector. I would be the initial inspector.
So...where do I sign up then? And should I bother to take the whip or the small knife?
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So...where do I sign up then? And should I bother to take the whip or the small knife?
[/b][/quote]Depends, succubus' tend to be rather sadomasochistic (be prepared to come away with a few fairly deep scratches) but very very sexual otherwise.
Incubus' tend to be rather dominant and sadistic.
I'll have to locate the link again ... no, I haven't tried it personally but I know it's fully possible.
I find it interesting that it only recently started happening to you.
maybe its because older women are looking for the perfect situation, and may just not be comfortable with that huge of a cock?
and maybe in your younger days it was not an issue because the younger women dont care..they probably love it..and they are so turned on..they love it and dont care.
I dont know about warnings..kind of weird..I think they should find out for themselves. (unless they ask of course)
Personally, I think you should do a lot of foreplay, pleasure her, just enjoy yourself, and then if she feels comfortable she will tell you or give you clues to penetrate her..and then of course do it slowly and carefully.
If from the beginning though, it looks like you just want to bang her, she may be turned off and think it will be rough...so you should do that at the beginning.
maybe its because older women are looking for the perfect situation, and may just not be comfortable with that huge of a cock?
and maybe in your younger days it was not an issue because the younger women dont care..they probably love it..and they are so turned on..they love it and dont care.
I dont know about warnings..kind of weird..I think they should find out for themselves. (unless they ask of course)
Personally, I think you should do a lot of foreplay, pleasure her, just enjoy yourself, and then if she feels comfortable she will tell you or give you clues to penetrate her..and then of course do it slowly and carefully.
If from the beginning though, it looks like you just want to bang her, she may be turned off and think it will be rough...so you should do that at the beginning.
Senic:
It is a privilege for someone to suck your dick. I would slap a bitch if she tells me I'm too big and she wont fuck hahaha no joke.
yourclovergrl: Im w/ you there Naughty. Not that I would think the way the woman said it was right. There are more tactfull ways to say you cant handle it but........
If some man thought he was gonna slap me I think he would have one hell of a fight on his hands. He might win but I will sure as hell go down trying.
If some man thought he was gonna slap me I think he would have one hell of a fight on his hands. He might win but I will sure as hell go down trying.
Thanks YOURCLOVERGIRL,
I appreciate your support. I do agree that the young woman was thoughtless.But perhaps in her own thoughtless way she thought she was delivering a compliment, in a form vs function sense.But smacking someone down and cursing them is not my idea of a good way to win friends and influence people.
You think Fellatio is a privilege for the performer not the receiver ? I think you need to wake up, man!
Naughty
I appreciate your support. I do agree that the young woman was thoughtless.But perhaps in her own thoughtless way she thought she was delivering a compliment, in a form vs function sense.But smacking someone down and cursing them is not my idea of a good way to win friends and influence people.
You think Fellatio is a privilege for the performer not the receiver ? I think you need to wake up, man!
Naughty
Some good tips, some bad ones. Thanks for reading and giving your advice. The good thing about advice is that you can take it or leave it, and its pretty obvious which advice will be left behind. The thread got a bit off track, but it did come back around. Hopefully if anyone else adds to it they will stay on topic or start their own thread.
Sorry Robert ,
Getting back on track...I would imagine the better you get to know the lady there may come a point in your relationship that you might want to let her feel (through your clothing) what she might be in for.I am sure that the two of you can come up with some sexy alternatives if traditional methods might prove too challenging for her. So sorry you met with such lack of tact.
Naughty
,Getting back on track...I would imagine the better you get to know the lady there may come a point in your relationship that you might want to let her feel (through your clothing) what she might be in for.I am sure that the two of you can come up with some sexy alternatives if traditional methods might prove too challenging for her. So sorry you met with such lack of tact.
Naughty
I always know how big a guy is beforehand, but that's because I always make it a point to look for hung guys (true size queen, I guess), so that's always involved somehow in our initial attraction. If you aren't sure how she feels about large size and you're big enough to have scared girls in the past, I wouldn't feel bad about tactfully letting her know. She won't confuse it with bragging if you are sincere.
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