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Bjen2848 said:
idk why this is so hard to understand

a man who sleeps with many women is considered a stud because, in general, it is harder for a man to get laid, in general it is the man who has to court the woman to get her in bed

any half decent looking woman can go up to just about any guy and say "wanna fuck" and 9 times outta 10, he'll have his pants down before he even knows where they can go

it would never work that way if the roles were reversed, everyone knows this

society respects people who succeed in a challenge, for a guy to have multiple attractive partners is seen as a success because every guy knows the tight rope walk it takes to get a woman in bed

with that being nobody gives praise to something that is easily done, if a woman wants to be known as a stud because she's banged x many guys, people will look back at her and say "yeah and i tied my shoe this morning, would you like a medal?" ... everyone knows any half decent woman can literally fall into a sea of willing penis to enter her ... so people respect those who hold off and see sex as special ...

no one is saying they don't have the right to sleep around .. women, just like men are human beings, with rights to their own body, they can sleep, suck and fuck whoever they want ... just like people can say and do what they want, just dont be mad when people label you for your actions

if you smoke pot all day every day, you'll probably be labelled a pot head

if you wake up at 2:30 pm every day and never had a job, you'll probably be labelled a sloth

if you bang a new guy every night than you'll probably be labelled a slut

if you bang a new girl (hot quality girls) every night, you'll be labelled a stud

if you bang a new girl (grenades) every night, you'll be labelled a manwhore or slimmy or gross

personally, i dont have a problem with sluts, but i wouldnt get in a relationship with one, and if a girl does have a long list than that is just a lot of baggage, no guy wants to deal with red flags when stepping in a relationship because relationships are hard enough without a bunch of red flags (this is a guys point of view, im sure women feel the same way about guys who have a colorful past)

common sense FTW
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Most hilarious post in this thread. 10+ points for hufflepuff.
 
AlteredEgo said:
Anyone who would compare a perfectly healthy sex life to addictions is not someone I ever want to know (especially in the biblical sense). Are you fucking kidding me? Your typical promiscuous person isn't addicted to sex. A sex addiction? Sure, that's a problem. Someone who just likes to fuck? That isn't even in the same book as a drug or alcohol addiction, let alone the same page. Enjoy the frigid, inexperienced clumsy lay men like you often end up married to. My husband is thrilled with all I have learned from being a slut.
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a healthy sex life and someone who has a different penis inside her every night are two completely different things lol .. and sorry i dont want the town whore to be my girlfriend, why would i do something so stupid as to try and be captain save a hoe? i know plenty of guys who tried to be exclusive to girls who open their legs to just about anyone, and then they have the nerve to be surprised when every time they have their back turned she is bangin like 5 other dudes ... the same goes with girls, if you see a guy who has a different chick in his bed every night and expect him to stop out of nowhere, you are naive as shit ... yeah it might happen to some people, but rarely that shit ever works out ... so yes, it is a red flag

and no i dont plan on marrying a boring virgin ... but im not gonna marry some skank who's had more dick in her than a urinal at a superbowl half time ... who would want that? maybe someone else, if so, good for you .. personally, im not into that .. i have standards
 
ManlyBanisters said:
This Also, I know 2 couples who were first loves, lost their virginity together, stayed together, married, kids, the works - the male partner of both couples decided (one in his 40s, one in his 50s) that going through life with just one partner was missing out - so they embarked on affairs, just short ones, to see what being with another woman was like. Neither marriage failed as a result, but the wives were very, very hurt and both expressed a wish that their husbands had done the 'other woman' experience before the relationship started, or at least before marriage. They also expressed regret at not having had other partners themselves, though as far as I know neither of them went on to have affairs.
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well then those two husbands are complete scumbags for cheating

and why do you and AE assume i want some virgin who sits at home all day and prays to some god and doesnt know the difference between a penis and an xbox?

just because most guys wouldnt consider jumping in a LTR or marriage with a girl whos been passed around like a hot potato doesn't mean we want a girl who is clueless

the reason i dont want a slut is because of baggage, it really has very little to do with the actual number of partners

its more of an emotional thing, because in general, women tend to put more emotions and attatchment to sex than men (again, in general)

with that being said, throughout my life, the women i have dealt with and have seen friends dealt with who have had a lot of guys bring a lot more baggage

most of the girls i have seen who have a lot of partners have dealt with a bunch of losers and usually have underlying issues for why they have so many partners ... (again, before i get flamed, NOT all, just something i noticed) most women i know who have respect for themselves won't spread their legs to any douche who looks at them twice ... also most women i know who have respect for themselves won't need a guys validation of knowing they're still "hot" by sleeping with them ... the girls who do sleep around a lot usually have a boat load of insecurities that make them do that, so why would i want to get in a relationship with a girl who is unsure of herself and is insecure? why would her insecurities disappear just because her facebook says "in a relationship"? most people who cheat do it because they don't have enough in their life and they are insecure and are not happy with themselves, so they need outside validation to make themselves feel better ...

all of these reasons is why a "slut" is a red flag ... and i can name a few more but those are the main ones ... and im certain you can put all these red flags for men because being a slut is not gender related, men are just as insecure as women ... i just talk about dating a woman because i am a straight male so i have no interest in talking about men, so please leave the sexist bullshit outside .. thanks
 
Bjen2848 said:
well then those two husbands are complete scumbags for cheating

and why do you and AE assume i want some virgin who sits at home all day and prays to some god and doesnt know the difference between a penis and an xbox?

just because most guys wouldnt consider jumping in a LTR or marriage with a girl whos been passed around like a hot potato doesn't mean we want a girl who is clueless

the reason i dont want a slut is because of baggage, it really has very little to do with the actual number of partners

its more of an emotional thing, because in general, women tend to put more emotions and attatchment to sex than men (again, in general)

with that being said, throughout my life, the women i have dealt with and have seen friends dealt with who have had a lot of guys bring a lot more baggage

most of the girls i have seen who have a lot of partners have dealt with a bunch of losers and usually have underlying issues for why they have so many partners ... (again, before i get flamed, NOT all, just something i noticed) most women i know who have respect for themselves won't spread their legs to any douche who looks at them twice ... also most women i know who have respect for themselves won't need a guys validation of knowing they're still "hot" by sleeping with them ... the girls who do sleep around a lot usually have a boat load of insecurities that make them do that, so why would i want to get in a relationship with a girl who is unsure of herself and is insecure? why would her insecurities disappear just because her facebook says "in a relationship"? most people who cheat do it because they don't have enough in their life and they are insecure and are not happy with themselves, so they need outside validation to make themselves feel better ...

all of these reasons is why a "slut" is a red flag ... and i can name a few more but those are the main ones ... and im certain you can put all these red flags for men because being a slut is not gender related, men are just as insecure as women ... i just talk about dating a woman because i am a straight male so i have no interest in talking about men, so please leave the sexist bullshit outside .. thanks
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I don't have any baggage, and I have never willingly fucked a loser. I never had sex for self-validation. I had sex because I was horny. Very, very horny. If I needed some kind of validation, I probably would have had risque photos of myself here a lot sooner than just a few weeks ago. I mean, I've been here since 2004 or 2005. I can't remember. Everyone has a boatload of insecurities, but healthy people (like me) are good at validating themselves when they start to freak out. I have been very promiscuous in the past, but I resent being lumped in with unhealthy people. That simply does not describe me, or most of the women I know. (Not that I know a lot of women, but the women I know are like me, with two exceptions. One has no sex drive to speak of, and the other has no self respect, and no respect for others either.) Anyway, dyed-in-the-wool comes to my mind too.
 
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who have respect for themselves won't spread their legs to any douche who looks at them twice ... also most women i who have respect for themselves won't need a guys validation of knowing they're still "hot" by sleeping with them ... the girls who do sleep around a lot usually have a boat load of insecurities that make them do that, so why would i want to get in a relationship with a girl who is unsure of herself and is insecure? why would her insecurities disappear just because her facebook says "in a relationship"? most people who cheat do it because they don't have enough in their life and they are insecure and are not happy with themselves, so they need outside validation to make themselves feel better ...

all of these reasons is why a "slut" is a red flag ... and i can name a few more but those are the main ones ... and im certain you can put all these red flags for men because being a slut is not gender related, men are just as insecure as women ... i just talk about dating a woman because i am a straight male so i have no interest in talking about men, so please leave the sexist bullshit outside .. thanks[/QUOTE]

Do you talk too fucking much in person, too?
 
AlteredEgo said:
I don'thave any baggage, and I have never willingly fucked a loser. Believe me, that's a small percentage of my sexual partners. I never had sex for validation. I had sex because I was horny. Very, very horny. If I needed some kind of validation, I probably would have had risque photos of myself here a lot sooner than just a few weeks ago. I mean, I've been here since 2004 or 2005. I can't remember. Everyone has a boatload of insecurities, but healthy people (like me) are good at validating themselves when they start to freak out. I have been very promiscuous in the past, but I resent being lumped in with unhealthy people. That simply does not describe me, or most of the women I know. (Not that I know a lot of women, but the women I know are like me, with two exceptions. One has no sex drive to speak of, and the other has no self respect, and no respect for others either.) Anyway, dyed-in-the-wool comes to my mind too.
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well if you are really how you portray yourself in this post, than people probably dont think of you as a slut, simple as that
 
HickBoy said:
who have respect for themselves won't spread their legs to any douche who looks at them twice ... also most women i who have respect for themselves won't need a guys validation of knowing they're still "hot" by sleeping with them ... the girls who do sleep around a lot usually have a boat load of insecurities that make them do that, so why would i want to get in a relationship with a girl who is unsure of herself and is insecure? why would her insecurities disappear just because her facebook says "in a relationship"? most people who cheat do it because they don't have enough in their life and they are insecure and are not happy with themselves, so they need outside validation to make themselves feel better ...

all of these reasons is why a "slut" is a red flag ... and i can name a few more but those are the main ones ... and im certain you can put all these red flags for men because being a slut is not gender related, men are just as insecure as women ... i just talk about dating a woman because i am a straight male so i have no interest in talking about men, so please leave the sexist bullshit outside .. thanks
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Do you talk too fucking much in person, too?[/QUOTE]


Lololololololololololololol!!! :p
 
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