My boyfriend is rathel well-endowed. 99% of the time, I never experienced any pain. He is the only man I have bottomed for, and it has always been a lovely, enjoyable, very pleasuring experience. However, I have noticed that after some encounters, I feel soreness in my bottom. This is usually right afterward if we go long and hard, but sometimes it's a day or two later. No significant issues, pain, or bleeding. Is this normal?
I once bottomed for a 9" and it turned me to a top. I got haemorrhoids from it. You need to make sure you use lots and lots of lube.
Oh we do. The soreness so far always passes. The experience isn't painful, and so I wanted to gather if this is just part and parcel of bottoming.
I read somewhere it's similar to punching your arm several times in the same location. Your anus wasn't designed for it. So the tenderness is just a side effect. Of ot doesn't happen all the time he is probably bruising an area he doesn't always hit. What's different about the times it gets sore? Is it the position? The amount of penetration? The length of time you're actually fucking? Or how forceful the thrusts are... there are several possibilities to consider. But yes it's normal.
We're getting better at it, all the time; I like some friction, as that means more pleasure, but we need to be mindful by applying lube to be safe. We're new to having regular, near-daily sex. Hehe. He was awesome last night!
Too much friction can not only be uncomfortable it can cause tearing. So be careful with that
I will be very mindful, thanks for the tip. Hard to be in a conscionable mindset when one is in the heat of passion.
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How did you get to this point? How did you loosen up or he help you get to this point? Do you both enjoy rimming and that sort of stuff? Going from never bottoming to bottoming for a monster cock is a huge huge step to take. I used to bottom for my very large husband all the time and then i just stopped. Now, I'm apprehensive to even attempt it again.
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