ya I guess so..its will be hard getting there tho not paying, I'm sure I can pay with no prob, I guess ill have to tell a friend and have them loose trust in me... :frown1:
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ya I guess so..its will be hard getting there tho not paying, I'm sure I can pay with no prob, I guess ill have to tell a friend and have them loose trust in me... :frown1:
who cares if your friend knows you have a pain in your kidneys,stomach, whatever. you dont have to tell your parents or your friends what is actually going on ( hey bud, can you take me to the dr. i have to get a physical)
if i was your friend and you asked me to take you to the dr.s cause your moms busy, i wouldnt think anything of it, now if you told me your going cause you have something on your cock, then you might get a different reaction.
call your dr. tell him you have pain in your groin, make an appointment, get a buddy to take you, dont tell anyone the real reason and get it checked out, no one will know whats going on and if its nothing, at least you'll know
if i was your friend and you asked me to take you to the dr.s cause your moms busy, i wouldnt think anything of it, now if you told me your going cause you have something on your cock, then you might get a different reaction.
call your dr. tell him you have pain in your groin, make an appointment, get a buddy to take you, dont tell anyone the real reason and get it checked out, no one will know whats going on and if its nothing, at least you'll know
Oh just take out a full page ad in the Daily Gazette:
Help, 19 y/o Broke Homo with strange oozing pustule on willy 2 weeks after loosing virginity. Moms in denial and useless to me. Desperately seeking generous investor for medical aid or compassionate mortician after gangrene sets in and I die of toxoplasmosis.
and don't forget both head shots.
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tell your mom or friend you need for go for one check up or physical, yah? it looks like a zit or an ingrown hair (or whatever it's called...it's only 6:15, i can't think). i had one once when i was younger, but i hadn't had sex yet, and it kinda looked like that. but i'm not a doctor, so i'd get it looked at.
a what?
a what?
Sliding scale fees. You an amount in relation to what you can afford. You talk to the doctor about how much you can afford and you work together to find a price that you're both happy with. Doctors do this all the time. It's one of the principles behind medical ethics, "No patient in need should be turned away over inability to pay."
The scale refers to the idea that you tell the doctor how much money you make or have and he tells you what he will charge you based upon your income/assets. That's generally how medicine worked before insurance companies and malpractice lawyers came along.
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Good suggestion. My 2cents: I'm not a fan of lying but I do understand what you're going through and how scary it can be, so um, lie a bit. You can tell your mom that you pulled something playing a sport or running around and you want to see a doctor to have it all checked out. When you see the doctor, tell her/him the truth about the sexual experience but change the gender to a woman. You don't need to go into details.
It's better to get yourself checked out than letting things go on and on. It could be a billion things and good for you to know. Tell your doctor that you want to keep the info from your mom and when your mom asks what it was, just say you pulled something and the dr suggested using ice or something.
Good luck.
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I read this thread yesterday, and I have to say this.....
Am I the only one to whom it seems peculiar that the OP:
(1) has no money,
(2) can't drive,
(3) lives with his parents,
(4) doesn't know where Planned Parenthood is in his town,
(5) doesn't know anything about insurance,
(6) then, comes on the Internet and expects complete strangers to solve all of these problems for him?
While I can understand his anxiety, maybe, just maybe, a 19 year old "MAN" should NOT be having sex until he can grow up and be responsible for himself and his actions.
But, that's just my take, old curmudgeon that I am.
Am I the only one to whom it seems peculiar that the OP:
(1) has no money,
(2) can't drive,
(3) lives with his parents,
(4) doesn't know where Planned Parenthood is in his town,
(5) doesn't know anything about insurance,
(6) then, comes on the Internet and expects complete strangers to solve all of these problems for him?
While I can understand his anxiety, maybe, just maybe, a 19 year old "MAN" should NOT be having sex until he can grow up and be responsible for himself and his actions.
But, that's just my take, old curmudgeon that I am.
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Yes, your take isn't really that helpful and is a bit insensitive. It sounds quite common to me and there are lots of people in his circumstance, which is a shame. Note that many people much older than he is find themselves in even worst predicaments. So lay off the judgment. The deed is done and he reached out for info on how to deal with it.
Don't act like you've gone through life without making mistakes and don't expect more from him than what you've done with your own life.
I agree if there is only one of these "zits" it's probably nothing....
planned parent hood clinics can be found on the internet and phone book
ok, i guess ill have to defend myself.
I can't drive because it is a major phobia of mine, i dunno why, last time i tried to drive i blacked out and almost got into a wreck, just i have sought help for this and none have been able to do anything
and since i can't drive i can't get a job and therefore no money, and i had no idea of where planned parenthood was, cus i have never had a reason to look for it. I come for to the internet for ppls opinions cause they of value to me even thought they are complete strangers. I regretted the oral sex right away, but thank you for your response. :veryhappy:
- VeeP,
Considering you both wore condoms, you took more precautions than most would for oral sex. So to say you "regret it" would be a shame if this turns out to be nothing. Your first sexual experience should be enjoyable, not a nightmare.
It's been two days, what's happening with the sore? Are you still having difficulty getting an erection?
It's been two days, what's happening with the sore? Are you still having difficulty getting an erection?
I can't tell my friends..they trust me to much, we drink and eat after each other everyday...:guilty: omg i will never be able to live with myself if i gave them something!!! :crying:
Unless you like..fucked a sammich and then gave it to them for THEM to fuck, I don't think you did anything. And if you DID do that...Well, I think you have more issues than this forum can help with.
This is from JackinWorld.com:
"This is very common — more than you think. It's especially common for guys who are going through puberty. You've probably heard that puberty changes your body chemistry, causing you to sweat more, right? These bumps have to do with sweat glands, and they're entirely normal. Other bumps are the follicles of hair that has not yet appeared, and still others are acne, just like the pimples you get on your face. In all cases, there's nothing you can do about them. However, if you are sexually active and have bumps on your penis that resemble little clusters of grapes, there's a chance it could be condyloma accumulata (venereal warts). Though relatively harmless, venereal warts are viral and contagious and you should have them checked by a doctor.
If you're worrying about how someone might react when they see your penis in an intimate situation, relax — they have their own insecurities about their bodies and are probably thinking very similar things. As you get older you'll learn that everyone's body has imperfections, and when people get close they learn to look past that. If they don't they're probably too young to be having sex anyway."
If you're a pretty late bloomer into puberty, as you ARE only 19, you may still be getting blocked hair follicles and possible zits on your peen0r. I got one once. It hurt like hell to the touch, but eventually went away. It looked sort of like the one on yours, actually. But, as others have said, I wouldn't squeeze it if you don't know what it is. Popping some random unknown growth on your body wouldn't be good...
I'd say give it about a week. There's a chance that, with the stuff on the condom, something may have gotten into a pore and clogged it. If it doesn't look like it's changing or if it spreads, go see a doctor.
ya it was so it a bad experience for me....:frown1:
it seems to be getting a lil better..im putting blackweed salve on it(google it lol ) and it looks more like a pimple than a sore....and ya im still have erection troubles, no more than ever....sadly...
I sweat alot, my underwear is soaked by mid-day and i never gotten this b4...and puberty...wow i kinda hope im not done, i still wanna grow more! :biggrin1: but i dunno lol....maybe that could explain my erection troubles to....and im not going to pop it....
Only thing for you to do then is move to New York. You can live there and never drive at all!
Years ago Zinc Oxide cream was commonly used for various skin situations. Since its safe enough to use on a baby, you can use in on mr magic. I’ve used this cream a number of times and it works quicker than any prescription creams from my Urologist. Use the real stuff which is about 40% Zinc oxide – you can even feel the weight of the product. There must be many available but the one available around here is: Canus Vermont - Li'L Goat's Milk 40% Active Zinc Diaper Cream [UPC 7 79242 00117 4].
If you have a STD it won’t fix it. But if its just yeast or something simple, it will be gone in a couple of days. Just keep it covered on your problem.
If you have a STD it won’t fix it. But if its just yeast or something simple, it will be gone in a couple of days. Just keep it covered on your problem.