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[killerb]

I, personally, do not enjoy watching lesbians because I cannot project myself into the fantasy. For a straight man that is extremely rare (I know, I have asked every guy I know).

I can't get into lesbian action either...it's just not a turn-on for me...

Doubtful. They are just saying what they think others would say or what they think you want to hear. I get this from my brothers-in-law all the time. It's impossible to know what posturing guys really think.

I tend to agree...

 

[manwell diablo]

I'm married guy and I love to watch gay porn especially blowjobs,I guess I just piture it being me getting my cock sucked

 

[bigmuscleboi]

Theres always been something to me about having sex with a str8 guy and it being his first time. I think theres a couple of you guys who are swaying that I could convince you how hot it is to have sex with a man!!:biggrin1:

 

[bigmuscleboi]

Theres something very hot to me about convincing a str8 man to have sex with me. I don't think most str8 guys know how hot it can be!!:biggrin1:

 

[killerb]

Theres something very hot to me about convincing a str8 man to have sex with me. I don't think most str8 guys know how hot it can be!!:biggrin1:

*waiting*

 

[B_dxjnorto]

Thanks for your honesty redheadbubblebutt and AG08. I've been studying human nature for a long time and I know that men definitely do feel attracted to and check out other well endowed and/or attractive men. What you describe is pretty much the opposite for gay guys. A few women are desirable and bombshell attractive while many men fit the bill. Everyone loves true beauty and that's probably why there were those 3-4 guys you've been attracted to. And if you are attractive that's why they are checking you out too. For straight guys it's something about sizing up the competition, but something more than that. There's few things that get people's attention better than nicely sized breasts and penises.

Could we be more comfortable in our attraction to friends? Friendships are relationships after all. Isn't attraction what differentiates friends from acquaintances? In my experience a lot of guys don't make a distinction mostly because they are so conflicted about being close. And in my experience it's more of a North American thing to be conflicted about male/male friendships to the point of sabotaging or abandoning them if they become close.

 

[223790]

Thanks for your honesty redheadbubblebutt and AG08. I've been studying human nature for a long time and I know that men definitely do feel attracted to and check out other well endowed and/or attractive men. What you describe is pretty much the opposite for gay guys. A few women are desirable and bombshell attractive while many men fit the bill. Everyone loves true beauty and that's probably why there were those 3-4 guys you've been attracted to. And if you are attractive that's why they are checking you out too. For straight guys it's something about sizing up the competition, but something more than that. There's few things that get people's attention better than nicely sized breasts and penises.

Could we be more comfortable in our attraction to friends? Friendships are relationships after all. Isn't attraction what differentiates friends from acquaintances? In my experience a lot of guys don't make a distinction mostly because they are so conflicted about being close. And in my experience it's more of a North American thing to be conflicted about male/male friendships to the point of sabotaging or abandoning them if they become close.

I guess it all comes down to what a person considers being straight. To me, it is the lifestyle that I have and who I connect to on an emotional level. While I have been attracted to a few of my buddies in the past, I couldn't imagine having a life long intimate realtionship with another man like I could with a woman. I've never had any physical relationship with a man, and I don't think I ever could. I have felt comfortable in the past telling my buddies that I love them, but in a friendship kind of way, not the way that I love a woman. I think that all guys feel some kind of attraction to other men and that they have all fantasized about what it would be like to be with them. Society has made it taboo for straight guys to talk about it openly for fear of being labelled, so guys supress those feelings. In my experience, the most homophoblic guys are the most confused about their own sexuality. One of those buddies of mine that I was attracted to was insanely homophobic. However, he was the one friend that I caught checking me out more than any other guy. Interesting, don't you think? I have no doubts that his irrational homophobia was based out of his confusion about his own sexuality. Many of my other buddies commented on this as well.

 

[B_dxjnorto]

In my experience, the most homophobic guys are the most confused about their own sexuality. One of those buddies of mine that I was attracted to was insanely homophobic. However, he was the one friend that I caught checking me out more than any other guy. Interesting, don't you think? I have no doubts that his irrational homophobia was based out of his confusion about his own sexuality. Many of my other buddies commented on this as well.

Most definitely. The more people foam at the mouth about anything, the more I think they are terribly or tragically conflicted internally.

Comfortable well-adjusted people just really don't care. It's a real luxury in friendship to have that.

 

[D_Sherman_Shuttlebottom]

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[D_Sherman_Shuttlebottom]

I just want to add that the % thing is silly. I've recently been on a gay porn kick and adjusted my % because it turned me on to see my name and the more gay % listed. But I'm just in the middle and my % swings week to week from mostly straight to gay. I personally love being bi, and love all porn, love straight sex and gay sex, but I think a lot of straight guys who watch gay porn are mainly into it for the transgression and comparison and aren't even really bi, just straight and mildly experimental.

As someone who really is bi/gay, when I watch gay porn, I am filled with a desire to fuck men. Men who watch gay porn and don't have that reaction aren't gay or even really bi. Just as gay men watch straight porn and don't want to fuck women, I think it's possible to be turned on by naughtiness and the action of fucking and sucking without wanting to participate in what you're seeing.

 

[223790]

Most definitely. The more people foam at the mouth about anything, the more I think they are terribly or tragically conflicted internally.

Comfortable well-adjusted people just really don't care. It's a real luxury in friendship to have that.

I agree with you. I do feel comfortable and well adjusted about who I am. I don't care about the labels "straight" or "gay" or "curious", etc. We are all human and created to interact with each other on many levels. I love women, but I also love the comraderie among men. Part of the reason that I love to workout at the gym is to be around other guys.
I truly miss my buddies from the past. When they got married, they all disappeared. I tried to stay in touch with them, but after awhile you tend to give up out of frustration. I miss the times we had together and the bonding that we experienced. I was lucky because I married a cool woman who gives me a ton of freedom. All of my buddies married control freak women who didn't like them having close friendships. My closest buddy told me once (years ago when we were still in touch with each other) that his wife told him she was jealous of me because of my friendship with her husband. I haven't talked to this guy in years (I gave up on him because all of my invitations to get together were met with a "no" and sometimes no response at all). I wouldn't be surprised at all if their marriage fails. I would resent anyone that controlled my life. I think it's a recipe for a disastrous marriage.