Survey for the exhibitionists... size and motive

[pornmbk]

One for all the guys who've got their cock out in public where there was risk of being seen! I'm curious to know whether guys who do it more often tend to be the ones with larger cocks.

Pick whether you've done it soft, hard or both, then your soft and hard size. Also option to say if you did out of confidence in your size, or not specifically over insecurity. There's other things that didn't fit the poll format but if you're willing, also curious to discuss in comments:

- What's your girth as well as length?
- How do you rate your size compared to other guys?
- Where have you done it and who was around?
- Have you ever been caught? Who/what/how did you feel?
- Does your size affect your willingness to get your dick out in public, and do you think it affects other guys?

From the pics and vids I've seen online and guys I've chatted to, I'd say guys with bigger cocks are more confident about whipping them out in public... keen to see if it's true!

 

[LittleBlade]

Judging from the comments my content on here has received, my cock is on the bigger side. And yet it's only this year that I've had the confidence to piss in public urinals with other guys present.

 

[pornmbk]

Judging from the comments my content on here has received, my cock is on the bigger side. And yet it's only this year that I've had the confidence to piss in public urinals with other guys present.

Just checked out your pics and you've definitely got a big cock for sure, soft and hard! How come you didn't feel confident having it out next to other guys at urinals? Mind me asking what it measures?

 

[LittleBlade]

Thank you for the compliment!
It was a combination of things. Firstly, when I reached puberty and realised I was gay, I was afraid of getting a hard-on if I saw the cock of another guy pissing alongside me. Secondly, my Mum brought me up to think nudity and sex was dirty. To be honest, in one way I agreed : my "privates" were private, to be shared only with those I wanted, and not just anyone in communal showers and public toilets.
I guess maybe the positive comments I've received on here have given me a lot more confidence. Plus the fact that having to hang around a busy public toilet waiting for a cubical to become available is time-wasting and looks a lot more dodgy than just getting my cock out and pissing like everyone else!
As for size : I haven't measured in a long time. I think I'm about 7-7½" long when I'm fully hard.
I've often wondered why it is that guys do post pictures and videos, either here or elsewhere. Is it to show-off? It isn't always because of their huge size, because that isn't always the case. Is it to dare themself to do something considered outrageous in normal society - a "fuck you" to those who dictate what we can and can't do? Is it to get some kind of vicarious thrill? I know it turns me on if someone comments that my pictures or videos made them horny.
I guess the anonymity of not having to show your face and a non-revealing username helps a lot. I have a lot of admiration for those guys bold enough to show their face in their naughty content!

 

[pornmbk]

A 7-7.5" hard cock deserves complimenting! What's it like soft? Were you worried bc it's a lot smaller then? My dick's particularly small and thin soft which has always been a problem. Totally get the fear about erections seeing guys too - still have it now, and there's been plenty of times I've had to desperately cover up bc it actually did!

Personally, short story of how I got into posting mine was definitely a mix of better confidence from compliments but also learning to enjoy taking sph too. Being laughed at for the size of my dick irl had always been very humiliating. My preference for porn has always been amateur jerk off vids, and the more I got into it in my 20s, I'd start msging the guys who posted them and chatting about size, experiences etc. When they'd ask to see mine I got a mix of the expected jokes but also being found hot and come on to for the first time.

Eventually I started posting pics and vids of my own, and getting into chatting with guys for it whether it was taking sph or being praised. It was exciting and liberating to finally be sharing my dick with the world and having open conversations with other guys about each other's in a way I never could with friends at that point.

I have occasionally shared dick pics with my face which always felt especially scary if also arousing. Part of me would be mortified to have guys I know see it, and a little part of me gets a thrill at the thought of being exposed (not that I'd actually really want to be!).

So sharing my cock with other guys online has definitely made me a lot more comfortable with myself and the size of my penis. But I really love how it's given me the opportunity to talk about all different aspects of dick size, experiences and feelings with other men, big and small.

 

[JBD_Mikk]

I would say my size (4.5-5.5" soft, 8" hard) has perhaps been a factor in showing myself here - but it wasn't a motivator in person. Outside of this site, it wasn't until my early 30s that I became comfortable in the gym showers, where only my flaccid size has been exposed.

 

[pornmbk]

I would say my size (4.5-5.5" soft, 8" hard) has perhaps been a factor in showing myself here - but it wasn't a motivator in person. Outside of this site, it wasn't until my early 30s that I became comfortable in the gym showers, where only my flaccid size has been exposed.

What was it that made you uncomfortable being seen? That's a big soft cock!

 

[JBD_Mikk]

What was it that made you uncomfortable being seen? That's a big soft cock!

Honestly there was no good reason - I was just very self-conscious when younger but progressively got over that in my 20s and early 30s. Even so, there are limits - my pics here are very calculated to never show my face or almost any background detail. In public the most "exposed" I get (outside of the showers / locker room) is in fitted swim trunks or cycling kit.

 

[normaldude]

- What's your girth as well as length? Hard I’m 8x6, soft 5.5 x 4.5, but on a nude beach with a little heat and a little excited it hangs well over 6 and thicker
- How do you rate your size compared to other guys? According to the calc sd site I’m one in 10,000 when hard so probably the biggest cock in my village of 1000 people
- Where have you done it and who was around? Only on nude beaches and around nude adult only pools at resorts
- Have you ever been caught? Who/what/how did you feel? It was always in a place that it was acceptable so not really caught but definitely seen. Did get caught once fucking in the dunes back from a nude beach. The watchers seemed unoffended and happy to see it
- Does your size affect your willingness to get your dick out in public, and do you think it affects other guys?
My size makes me very willing, not sure of its effects on other guys. Most seem to like to look and smile

 

[pornmbk]

Honestly there was no good reason - I was just very self-conscious when younger but progressively got over that in my 20s and early 30s. Even so, there are limits - my pics here are very calculated to never show my face or almost any background detail. In public the most "exposed" I get (outside of the showers / locker room) is in fitted swim trunks or cycling kit.

That's interesting. I have the opposite stance of always having been comfortable at urinals in spite of my size, and liberal with my dick pics and jerk off vids online. But I wouldn't be comfortable having my dick out in the locker room or wearing anything fitted around my bulge (or rather lack thereof! )

 

[pornmbk]

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- What's your girth as well as length? Hard I’m 8x6, soft 5.5 x 4.5, but on a nude beach with a little heat and a little excited it hangs well over 6 and thicker
- How do you rate your size compared to other guys? According to the calc sd site I’m one in 10,000 when hard so probably the biggest cock in my village of 1000 people
- Where have you done it and who was around? Only on nude beaches and around nude adult only pools at resorts
- Have you ever been caught? Who/what/how did you feel? It was always in a place that it was acceptable so not really caught but definitely seen. Did get caught once fucking in the dunes back from a nude beach. The watchers seemed unoffended and happy to see it
- Does your size affect your willingness to get your dick out in public, and do you think it affects other guys?
My size makes me very willing, not sure of its effects on other guys. Most seem to like to look and smile

That's a huge cock, soft and hard! Not at all surprised you're very willing to get it out in public! Do you get some satisfaction from having it out and making it known you're hung to people around you? Does it feel good to have other guys take a look in admiration?

 

[normaldude]

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That's a huge cock, soft and hard! Not at all surprised you're very willing to get it out in public! Do you get some satisfaction from having it out and making it known you're hung to people around you? Does it feel good to have other guys take a look in admiration?

Thanks. A big cock is really just luck when you’re born so I try not to be too boastful about it. The vast majority of folks in my circle do not know what I’ve got. A few do and I think it can create weird dynamics, so I keep it to myself. When I travel and feel more free in the presence of only strangers I enjoy the freedom to be nude, and I do enjoy others seeing it without repercussions in my personal life. My partner also enjoys me being seen and watching others check it out so to speak. As for whether it feels good to have other guys look in admiration, I like all looks and like the feeling of acceptance. I like to return the same vibe in a nude environment.

 

[JBD_Mikk]

That's interesting. I have the opposite stance of always having been comfortable at urinals in spite of my size, and liberal with my dick pics and jerk off vids online. But I wouldn't be comfortable having my dick out in the locker room or wearing anything fitted around my bulge (or rather lack thereof! )

Really interesting how we all have our different comfort zones! You mention a lack of bulge, but for me it's the opposite concern with cycling kit... I actively try to avoid getting a semi (let alone hard) because I feel like my flaccid bulge is already obvious enough! (I guess in the end neither of us should worry about our size lol)

For me sharing pics came after everything else - after all, it's a step further than normal public exposure. In fact my first pics here were limited to underwear - as if I were being seen in a locker room.

 

[pornmbk]

Thanks. A big cock is really just luck when you’re born so I try not to be too boastful about it. The vast majority of folks in my circle do not know what I’ve got. A few do and I think it can create weird dynamics, so I keep it to myself. When I travel and feel more free in the presence of only strangers I enjoy the freedom to be nude, and I do enjoy others seeing it without repercussions in my personal life. My partner also enjoys me being seen and watching others check it out so to speak. As for whether it feels good to have other guys look in admiration, I like all looks and like the feeling of acceptance. I like to return the same vibe in a nude environment.

That's a great attitude to take. I can fully understand why your partner enjoys you being seen and watching others check you out - if I was with a hung guy, I'd enjoy seeing other's admiration/envy of him too!

I get the travel being liberating thing. I wouldn't dream of getting my dick out at a local gym or similar where there are people I'd see regularly and maybe by chance in another context. I'd feel extremely exposed to run into some guy in public who'd previously seen my dick out in the locker room! But when I travel I usually use hostels and I've slowly got less embarrassed about having to be naked to undress or get dry around other guys in the showers if necessary. It still feels a bit scary but there have been times it was actually kinda nice to stand there naked making small talk with a random guy!

Interesting what you say about the weird dynamics with friends who know. I've heard this a lot before from hung guys, especially since joining lpsg. I just don't understand it. I've got a smaller dick and I've seen that many of my friends are large. I might envy them for it sometimes, or find it hot with some, but it doesn't change the way i see or act towards them. Why would guys get weird with a friend bc they've seen he has a big dick?

A hung guy should feel free to take pride in his size if he wants to, for the same reason a small guy shouldn't have to be embarrassed by his. As you say, we can't help what we're born with! Younger me might have resented seeing/hearing a hung guy boast just bc i felt more vulnerable and insecure at that age, and i get why lots of small guys do. But everyone should feel free to express confidence in what they've got if they want - tbh now I actually quite enjoy a guy showing off and see it as just a bit of fun!

 

[pornmbk]

Really interesting how we all have our different comfort zones! You mention a lack of bulge, but for me it's the opposite concern with cycling kit... I actively try to avoid getting a semi (let alone hard) because I feel like my flaccid bulge is already obvious enough! (I guess in the end neither of us should worry about our size lol)

For me sharing pics came after everything else - after all, it's a step further than normal public exposure. In fact my first pics here were limited to underwear - as if I were being seen in a locker room.

Comments about the lack of bulge in trunks during swimming at school was reason enough to avoid wearing them ever again. But more was realising that fitted boxers sagged at the front on me while filling out on other guys. That felt worse somehow which is why I took to loose boxer shorts that hid it either way.

Envying a big bulge has always convinced me if I had one I'd proudly make a point of drawing attention to it. It's so odd to me you want the opposite! Is it uncomfortable when you see people staring at your package? Ngl, I'm one of those who can't stop themselves looking at a guy's bulge if I notice it and wondering how big his dick is!

I kinda get the semi thing. Bc of the loose boxers nothing holds my dick back so when I get an erection in public you can generally see a bit of a protrusion down one leg to either side of the fly!

My public exposures early on were generally very embarrassing so I hated that. Sharing my dick pics and then jerk off vids online gave me the chance to get all sorts of different reactions and from guys I didn't have to worry about seeing irl. Over time that gave me the confidence to be a bit more at ease with having my dick out in public around other men.

 

[StMars69]

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[pornmbk]

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That's so hot What is it you love so much about doing it? Remember the first time you got off on it? Any favourite experiences you can share?

 

[g109]

I absolutely love getting my cock out every chance I get. I visit lots of gyms while travelling and love to walk out of the showers, across the locker room to a locker as far from the showers as possible with my towel around my shoulders. I know I'm huge soft and guys just stare quite often, not even gay guys, just straight guys in shock.

Also quite happy to get a hard on in the communal showers, especially when someone sees it and starts getting one themselves!

 

[pornmbk]

I absolutely love getting my cock out every chance I get. I visit lots of gyms while travelling and love to walk out of the showers, across the locker room to a locker as far from the showers as possible with my towel around my shoulders. I know I'm huge soft and guys just stare quite often, not even gay guys, just straight guys in shock.

Also quite happy to get a hard on in the communal showers, especially when someone sees it and starts getting one themselves!

So hot how much you love flaunting it and getting the attention! As you should! I've been in hostel showers with guys like you who don't care about leaving it out on show for ages.

A hot black guy came out the shower once, stood right in front of me naked. Absolutely massive cock. He took his time brushing his teeth and doing his hair before getting dressed. I was next in the shower and as soon as the curtain was across, I was soaping up my dick and jacking off over him. It was very audible and obvious what I was doing

Also saw a cute Asian guy with a tiny dick who had a little boner when he came out the shower. I couldn't stop myself getting hard so I decided instead to strip in front of him and make sure he saw my hard on too and knew it was twice the size of his

 

[normaldude]

Comments about the lack of bulge in trunks during swimming at school was reason enough to avoid wearing them ever again. But more was realising that fitted boxers sagged at the front on me while filling out on other guys. That felt worse somehow which is why I took to loose boxer shorts that hid it either way.

Envying a big bulge has always convinced me if I had one I'd proudly make a point of drawing attention to it. It's so odd to me you want the opposite! Is it uncomfortable when you see people staring at your package? Ngl, I'm one of those who can't stop themselves looking at a guy's bulge if I notice it and wondering how big his dick is!

I kinda get the semi thing. Bc of the loose boxers nothing holds my dick back so when I get an erection in public you can generally see a bit of a protrusion down one leg to either side of the fly!

My public exposures early on were generally very embarrassing so I hated that. Sharing my dick pics and then jerk off vids online gave me the chance to get all sorts of different reactions and from guys I didn't have to worry about seeing irl. Over time that gave me the confidence to be a bit more at ease with having my dick out in public around other men.

Thanks for the thoughtful reply. To further explain the weird dynamics I’ll share an example. I’m in a long term straight relationship and most of our friend group are other straight couples. At a party once many years ago by chance I was talking to a couple female friends, sisters, on a staircase and they we a couple steps down more on level with my groin than my eyes. It was an eighties theme party and I was wearing my tightest jeans going for a knight rider kinda look. The jeans were tight enough that my bulge was on display. One of the girls jokingly poked my bulge and laughing said something like, wow nice bulge what did you stuff in there? As she poked it and then actually gave it quite a squeeze she realized from the feel and the look on my face I didn’t stuff anything in there, the other girl, her sister was quite amused and also gave it a squeeze to realize the same. I was mixed on how to feel, in the moment it was very exciting as they were both attractive and got kinda blushed and giggly over it. As it evolved I assume they told others like their partners and I noticed a sharp change in how I interacted with their partners and with how they interacted with me and my partner. Essentially there was distance and a feeling of jealousy from the guys and an uncomfortable treatment of my partner and it felt like that was all they were focused on when we’d interact. I guess not that weird but I would have rathered it all didn’t happen and things were normal. I know not a big deal but jealousy and lust are strong emotions in people. It is nice to be desired by others but I’ve had other interactions and when some women know you’ve got a lot they get quite strange and forward. It’s actually made me much more careful about how I act in any sexual or flirtatious way towards women. Being ogled and having your crotch grabbed or stared at in the wrong setting or too close a friend group social environment creates more awkwardness and future weird vibes than it does a thrill in the moment.
When travelling, the moment is more fun as the inter-relationship stuff isn’t an issue. Also the context of nude beaches, adult only resorts and the vacation mindset remove all the hang ups I have and the whole scenario is fun. Long answer but it’s a unique nuanced dynamic.