Fair enough, but I never denied your right to express your opinion, I simply made the point that it seemed irrational, ill informed and frankly offensive.
I don't see how it was ill informed, irrational, or offensive. I never once said you denied me of anything, either.
Hold on, in what universe is "stating what [you] think people in the LGBT community should act like when it comes to anyone's sexuality." not lecturing gay people about their responsibilities ?
Because two paragraphs worth of words wasn't intended on being a "lecture". I already apologized if you thought that it was a terribly uneducated lecture, but it wasn't. I'm so glad you need to make me feel stupid for apologizing even though there probably was no need to, that you had gotten offended over the "lecture" of your "responsibilities". I think it should be everyone's responsibility, however, and I thought that was clear through my posts. I didn't mean to offensively point the finger at LGBT, I was just writing it in reference to the response.
Now this really is specious. We're talking about people who publish percentages about their sexuality and post about their sexuality and sex life on an adult forum with thousands of members on the Internet. If they didn't want comment about their sexuality and sex lives why are they publishing information about it for all the world to read and comment on ?
I just don't see the importance of it. That was my point. I think it's petty to get down on someone because they put "0%" gay, or even "10%" gay if they don't themselves see it that way...
Oh, and yes, it is public, but I have a funny feeling that if a woman who wrote about how she got an abortion, and she was flooded with messages such as "MURDERER" you'd be singing a different tune on whether she deserves it or not.
And yes, if I publish information for you or anyone else to read about my sexuality then of course I should expect you or anyone else to have an opinion about my publicly vaunted information regarding my sexuality.
Read what I said. I'll repeat, I stand over all and any information I make public about my sexuality and the content of my posts. If someone thinks something I've written or published is horse shit then of course I expect them to challenge me on it. I would have no problem discussing with anyone any detail of the information I make public about myself.
Yes, I heard you...I am far from illiterate, thank you for being patronizing, though. I sincerely appreciate it.
Look, you can pretend that me disagreeing with you constitutes me being intolerant of you if you want but it doesn't really wash. In any event I completely resent this notion that I'm expecting anyone's "tolerance", the fact that you would think that confirms your own percentages and makes it quite clear that you really have very little idea what life might be like if you weren't straight.
A) The fact that you were disagreeing with me was not my point in mentioning tolerance.
B) You don't want to see people be tolerant of the LGBT community? Interesting...
C) You clearly have a chip on your shoulder about straight people, if you're making such an outrageous claim that you think me being straight has ANYTHING to do with my opinion on the subject. Other gay memebers of this site have agreed with my post, so if anyone is being offensive, it's you for telling my I'm being ignorant because I'm "100% straight".
D) You're right. I didn't see my best friend throughout middle school, high school, and now college struggle with his sexual identity. Infact, I've never had a gay friend in my life! You must know me so well. It's amazing.
Equality, does not mean tolerance, or acceptance, on the part of the majority ( i.e. you ) of a minority, it means that the I and you are equals, I don't have to agree with you and you don't have to agree with me, because we are equals we are free to agree or disagree as and when we wish.
Ugh. But AGREEING to accept that someone has a different viewpoint on sexual identity, for example since we're referring to that, IS BEING TOLERANT (AKA - tolerance - Definition from the Merriam-Webster Online Dictionary TO ALLOW SOMETHING TO BE, AKA - TO ACCEPT IT...).
Just because I'm gay does not mean I am charged with some greater responsibility to be tolerant of anyone, and frankly I find it offensive that you would presume that I bear a greater responsibility than you do.
Again, I thought it was clear, since ME being a horribly ignorant 100% straight woman, was speaking on my opinion, that you would assume that I did not just mean your community, but everyone.
Oh, and fuck yeah, you SHOULD know better than to be so disgustingly emphasized on sexual identity when you have been ridiculed for the same exact thing. Yes, I will stand firmly by that statement, and not apologize for it whether you're offended or not. Tough. If you don't like to eat your own hypocritical standpoint on the subject, then don't shit it out. (*Please note that when I say "you" I am not meaning YOU specifically.)
If another community, race, person, religion, etc. was saying something or practiced certain beliefs and doing or saying another in certain instances, then I'd expect anyone to call it out, too. Don't take it as a personal insult on you and your community. I just am a personal fan of practice as you preach. :shrug:
Calling someone on your own perceptions of how they present themselves publically is not intollerance, it's a natural part of the discourse between human beings.
AGAIN...not my point. When I mentioned tolerance I was referring to the fact that if you want people to be tolerant of a gay man, then you need to be tolerant of a straight man who is not ready to come out yet.
I already pointed out that I agree with you about the whole issue being extremely subjective, what I find odd is that you don't seem to understand the implied insult that someone who claims to be 100% straight but expresses enjoyment of same sex sex may be perceived as offering to those who are homosexual. You've never actually addressed that point, all you've done is call me intolerant and imply that I bear a greater responsibility to be tolerant than you do. Not much of a position ducky.
If you agreed it was subjective, and truly believed that, we wouldn't be having this discussion at all. Yes I did address the issue, but in the time you decided to take everything as a personal attack on you, you've failed to see it.
Let me make it clear for you on my thoughts: the world doesn't revolve around you. Not everything is a personal offense. You have some nerve being insulted by the sexuality of another person. Who do you think you are? The grand chief of what defines people as being homosexual or not? Please...
Going back to the calling you intolerant...
I didn't once accuse you of anything...at all.
I was simply saying that if PEOPLE in the WORLD want tolerance, they need to show it. The golden rule, my friend. Do unto others. It was a generalization that you took too personally.