wristthickxl: As a gay man, I've been "used" many times cause of my size but then again I'm using them too...but one time I was really hurt....I had met a beautiful guy at a sauna....I'm considered quite handsome myself, have a good body, etc. but once men see my dick, in some cases, that's all they see...To make a long story short, we dated for several weeks, I was falling in love, we were having sex almost every day....I started to say something in this direction, ie love, when he said "I'm only with you cause you have such an incredibly thick, big cock..." He was Dutch, many say whatever they are thinking and that is literally what he said...I was heartbroken...