When I had my vasectomy the doctor told me to keep ice on it for 24 – 48 hrs, stay off my feet for the weekend, and don’t lift anything over 5 pounds for a week, or 20 pounds for 2-3 weeks. He gave me a bottle and said to return with a sample at the end of 3 weeks, or 21 ejaculations.
Before the end of the 2nd day I just had to know if I could still cum. and cautiously stroked myself to a celebratory climax. Knowing I could cum without any problems really helped me to relax and heal.
One afternoon, a day before the end of the 2nd week, I stopped at a gas station restroom a block from the doctor’s office and jacked off for the 22nd time, into the bottle he’d given me, put the bottle in a paper bag, and gave it to the woman at the desk. Funny thing was, she took it out of the bag and I could see the sides of the bottle were still steamed up. She smiled and said, “Yes, that’s perfect, I’ll give it to the doctor.”
Later that evening the doctor called me and said, “There were no sperm detected, and since it is still less than two weeks, be careful having sex.” He also said, “I thought you would be one of the early ones, but didn’t think it would be this early, so be… careful.”
Honestly, the first couple times with my wife I still felt uneasy not having any protection. But that soon passed.
Trust me, sex was so much better! I was amazed at how concerned and stressed I was previously, all the time worrying about pregnancy even with protection. Once I finally accepted and realized that would not happen… that was the true beginning of the best sexual times we had from then on!