What does it mean when your girlfriend wants to break up because she thinks time alone will be really good for her? Im really only interested from hearing from the women because every guy I talk to just tells me there must be another man. Im almost certain there isnt because I can tell when she is lying. And I can see that she isnt. She genuinely thinks Im the one that wants too serious a relationship, even though she was the one that kept pushing for it to be more serious. The only reason Im the one whose more serious about it now is because she kept breaking plans with me, and i eventually told her I expect to hang out with my girlfriend if this is gonna be a relationship.