What is gayer for a str8 guy to do?

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  1. Mem

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    I guess the question is, to str8 guys if you were forces to do one or the other which would you do, Get fucked in the ass or give head.

    I pose this question because the porn "str8" star Peter North worked early in gay porn and he loved getting fucked (it was bareback back then in the early 80's) But I don't think he ever gave head.

    I would think that getting penetrated in the ass was more of a violation, but I heard on a radio talk show that some str8 guys say they could never suck dick.
     
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    i'd rather suck a dick... anal would be painful and it's not worth lying there in pain wihle someone else gets their kicks.
     
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    keep in mind that a truly str8 guy will not answer this question...keep this in mind
     
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    right. the answer to your question is 'no'. And note that this is from a 90% (mas o menos)
     
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    No means neither?
     
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    Hopefully I'll be forced to do neither of those things. I suppose if it comes down to it, and I'm truly being forced, I won't have much say in the matter anyway.
     
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    I'm not straight, but I'd say that sucking dick is more gay.
     
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    I say that for a str8 guy to dress in women's clothing...and do 50's showtunes...would qualify for gayer...off the charts gay. Sucking cock and fucking a guy's ass are more manly...in my humble opinion. :smile:
     
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    they're both pretty gay... but i think if you're forced to do it, it's not as gay. but to suck a dick you have to actively participate.

    so... i choose death
     
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    You could always "passively" participate in "somone's" dick being sucked. :tongue:

    Oh, but i think being fucked is gayer.
     
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    If it hurts, ya aren't doin' it right. I'm not sure which is gayer. Let me do some research with the boyfriend and I'll get back to you.
     
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    I think they're about equal. You cannot say that those who only like sucking dick are straight, nor can you say that being fucked (by a real cock) is straight. But then, you can like both and still not be completely gay. But if you do like either of those acts, then you're definitely not straight. But it is a good point that there is more active participation with giving head.
     
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    In the OP you didn't specify if it was a man fucking you in the arse... can I take a woman with a strap-on?

    It ain't no thang! :cool:
     
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    I think a completely heteosexual man could easily answer that question. Why can't a straight guy say "I'd rather this than that?"
     
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    Neither of those is gay(er). 100% straight guys post all the time on LPSG that they like to have sex with men.

    That's what prompted my sig line.
     
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    I guess you they would rather let the guy have his choice with you and maybe do both. I also find on here that guys who claim to be 100% str8 have willingly sucked dick.
     
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    If one or the other were to be forced (which is a crime I think), then what would be considered more bisexual???

    Everything has to be so damn black and white, gay or straight? Neither would be gay if forced if you ask me, as it would be against one's will and to be bisexual or straight or gay implies freedom of choice, freedom to act on one's interests. You are as gay or straight or bisexual as you feel. Someone else's interpretation of someone's else's activities matters so little really, unless it is done in public and you are subject to being arrested and thrown in jail. Then you might really be forced to suck or take cock. And that apparently is really gay in some people's fantasies.
     
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    True. Why are you so fascinated with straight men if you are gay? You keep posting threads like this which is a bit annoying.


    Thank you, loser_emo_kid! This is the only apprropriate answer for a truly 100% straight man to have.

    From the stand point of a 100% straight woman all the acts the OP mentioned are gay, whether giving or receiving. If I caught my 100% straight bf doing any of these things he would no longer be my boyfriend. However, if he had been open about his bi-sexuality it wouldnt bother me. The difference in my response is that one man lied and the other one was honest.

     
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    I don't believe that anyone is 100% str8 all the time. Everyone at one time or another has had gay thoughts, in my opinion at least. But to the original question I would get fucked in the ass before sucking a cock.
     
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    Exactly. I'm not gay, I just like to get fucked by men who are.
     
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