What opened your bi side?

[HJ1958]

Got to say my interest in men was always there growing up, but it was not until I got my first blow job by a guy that I really became bi. Had several by girls, but that man on man interaction and the pleasure I derived from that first experience sealed the deal for me

 

[deleted91418]

Getting wanked off at a sleepover by a teammate.

 

[Johnstanstanly]

For me it was when I was in JR high seeing my first mm vid in vhs. Watching two men making out was such a turn on. I knew that I wanted to experience other men.

 

[Mister2101]

I have been wondering if there is anything specific that opens up a straight guy to be bi. It seems like you hear a lot of guys realizing this side as they've gotten older. As a gay man, my attraction to guys has always been present.

Did you always know you like both sexes? Or, did you start experimenting with gay or bi porn and like what you see?

I think there is no doubt that the availability and easy access to gay porn has increased both the "curiosity" many men have in MM sex......and also their willingness and desire to "act" on that curiosity and experiment with another man.....
And once that curiosity takes hold in a man.....its very hard to turn off.....

 

[Goldnuts]

I think there is no doubt that the availability and easy access to gay porn has increased both the "curiosity" many men have in MM sex......and also their willingness and desire to "act" on that curiosity and experiment with another man.....
And once that curiosity takes hold in a man.....its very hard to turn off.....

Very true!

 

[fuckyeah]

I think there is no doubt that the availability and easy access to gay porn has increased both the "curiosity" many men have in MM sex......and also their willingness and desire to "act" on that curiosity and experiment with another man.....
And once that curiosity takes hold in a man.....its very hard to turn off.....

I agree. Once you’ve had MM sex, the intensity level becomes addicting. Just be safe and there is no need to turn it off. Get on Prep, get tested for stds regularly. Be kind to your ass. Otherwise have fun.

 

[fucker6996]

The Internet

 

[deleted5698211]

I would prob say gay porn when I was a teen. I have always had a think for blowjobs and being a deviant I was, I would end up watching clips of guys sucking each other off. Prob a weird way to say it, but I could “feel” what they were feeling, much more so than watching straight blowjob scenes, if that makes sense.

 

[hotguy88]

The internet had kind of opened my eyes to it but It really started on vacation with one of my best friends at the time about 6 years ago he was gay and he started asking about doing mutual things when we were alone one night and then it escalated quickly I heard him yell as he came in the shower and eventually we were jerking each other in there and then later on I moved to near where he lived he brought his cocksucker friend over to try and get me off too but I couldn't I was too nervous however I watched him have a screaming orgasm down his throat and I was hooked and have been ever since

 

[6868321]

For me two things. My mate letting me join him and his gf for a fuck session. I told him I was interested in experiencing a woman. Then the internet and watching straight porn.
I’m more gay but interested in exploring bi side.

 

[U239903]

In my mid teens, I had a friend who asked one night if he could suck my cock. Really? I let him and as weird as it seemed, it felt sooo freaking good! There was no orgasm involved... I took care of that afterwards. He really loved doing it and did it more than once for me. I sucked him once or twice too but his was really small compared to mine. Maybe that’s why he liked mine? That peaked my interest in cocks! Don’t we all want to suck our own cocks? I always did. Realistically, the only way to do that is with another man.

 

[3312551]

When i was young i found a vhs in a home we just moved to. It was a bodybuilding compitetion. And i lobed watching it when no one was near. I didnt know why but i didnt want to watch it openly. And i saw all the sculpted godly bods and some had just huge packages that left nothing to my imagination amd then i saw femald bodybuilders later on that tape. So i found both just as exciting. Which led me to see some porn later on. Big bodybuilders with big packages and fbb lesbian and dom. Stuff my mind didnt really get but i liked it a lot. That led to me looking at pretty mich everything. It's probably safer to say im poly since bi narrows everything into two catagories. But later i realized that those videos attracted me. It's gone on since then

 

[txviewer]

When i was young i found a vhs in a home we just moved to. It was a bodybuilding compitetion. And i lobed watching it when no one was near. I didnt know why but i didnt want to watch it openly. And i saw all the sculpted godly bods and some had just huge packages that left nothing to my imagination

My situation was kinda similar to this, but it wasn't bodybuilders. When I was 13, I discovered pro-wrestling on TV that was aired in the morning on Sat / Sun. There was this one guy - young looking - who had an amazing body (think early Bowflex commercials). He really had it all - good looks, good body and nice ass.

 

[Assman1]

In my mid teens, I had a friend who asked one night if he could suck my cock. Really? I let him and as weird as it seemed, it felt sooo freaking good! There was no orgasm involved... I took care of that afterwards. He really loved doing it and did it more than once for me. I sucked him once or twice too but his was really small compared to mine. Maybe that’s why he liked mine? That peaked my interest in cocks! Don’t we all want to suck our own cocks? I always did. Realistically, the only way to do that is with another man.

Yes! My cock has always been my favorite toy. I want to share it and play with other guys favorite toy, too.

 

[elklindoxxx]

I always liked men to begin with. That the way it always was for me. It was just natural........

 

[1EYEDwundur]

My situation was kinda similar to this, but it wasn't bodybuilders. When I was 13, I discovered pro-wrestling on TV that was aired in the morning on Sat / Sun. There was this one guy - young looking - who had an amazing body (think early Bowflex commercials). He really had it all - good looks, good body and nice ass.

Scott Madsen was so beautiful. I would see him around when I first started out in photography a zillion years ago. Yea, Pro wrestling was the bomb. The Von Erichs were in north Texas in the late 70s and 80s. There was a wrestling school in Dallas somewhere off Greenville Avenue if I remember correctly. Wrestling was the one thing a guy could watch very homoerotic stuff and not have his balls busted about it. I had tons of friends into the wrestling scene. If you had pretty girls as platonic friends, they were great for getting invited backstage and to after-parties.

 

[txviewer]

Scott Madsen was so beautiful. I would see him around when I first started out in photography a zillion years ago. Yea, Pro wrestling was the bomb. The Von Erichs were in north Texas in the late 70s and 80s. There was a wrestling school in Dallas somewhere off Greenville Avenue if I remember correctly. Wrestling was the one thing a guy could watch very homoerotic stuff and not have his balls busted about it. I had tons of friends into the wrestling scene. If you had pretty girls as platonic friends, they were great for getting invited backstage and to after-parties.

heh....and the wrestler I was talking about was actually Kevin Von Erich. He was the best looking of the brothers.

 

[hoag]

at first in grade 6, I had a bit of a crush on a male classmate. I didn't think much of it and i thought it'd be a one-off thing. I wish I had kept contact with him, lol.
I was totally wrong of course. multiple male crushes later, I eventually saw a dick that wasn't mine for the first time when a guyfriend of mine walked past me naked as he was leaving the shower; this happened during my freshman year in high school lol. at first I was shocked, but then I had a boner and I realised I liked it. That's when i knew I was bisexual/sexually into men.

 

[1EYEDwundur]

heh....and the wrestler I was talking about was actually Kevin Von Erich. He was the best looking of the brothers.

I think it was Kevin that had a place up around Campbell. It was years and years ago.

 

[1EYEDwundur]

at first in grade 6, I had a bit of a crush on a male classmate. I didn't think much of it and i thought it'd be a one-off thing. I wish I had kept contact with him, lol.
I was totally wrong of course. multiple male crushes later, I eventually saw a dick that wasn't mine for the first time when a guyfriend of mine walked past me naked as he was leaving the shower; this happened during my freshman year in high school lol. at first I was shocked, but then I had a boner and I realised I liked it. That's when i knew I was bisexual/sexually into men.

I guess I was in the 5th grade. There was the bad kid in our neighborhood. My parents strictly forbade me to have anything to do with him. This was a million years ago mind you. His mother was divorced several times and had a lot of boyfriends. That just wasn't done back then. He was always in trouble. He was the meanest thing. He was only a year older than me but was a very early bloomer. He was 12 and looked like he was 16...everywhere. He was a dirty minded guy too. He talked me into peeping on some neighborhood girls with him. He would watch his sisters having sex and tell me about it. One of his sisters had to leave suddenly. Then she came back a few months later. Everyone knew what that meant. I really didn't like him because he was so mean to me. He stole my bike. He was an asshole. Yet, there was something about him that just fascinated me.