So you endorse the admittedly, usually milder persecution of the actual small? Ok to call them clitty boy or girly boys?
What Other Group Has To Put Up With This?
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What is the problem? If you check my post history you will see that I have mentioned in the past that I don't have intercourse with prostitutes.
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I see two things happening in this thread. On the one hand, some men with small or smaller erections are exaggerating the extent of the hardships their dicks have brought them. Some are also exaggerating the importance their dicks have in their lives, and in the minds of others. On the other hand, some other people are refusing to acknowledge that there are any difficulties at all associated with having an erection that isn't bigger.
I cannot say what it is like to have a small dick and present it to a new person for the first time. I know my vulva is similar to the shape that is glorified in porn, but it is plump and fleshy, and I only remove haor from the labia, and shape up the rest. I used to trim, but now I like the look and softness of a fuller bush on my pubic mound. Even so, I remember one potential playmate was very disappointed that my vulva didn't hold itself open, and that my ample breasts are real; he'd thought they were fake, which he preferred. He did not want to continue. He also did not want to stay friends. It did hurt my feelings, but it wasn't the end of the world. He asked me what I had done to my vulva. Like it wasn't perfectly normal. He lost his erection. He was totally turned off. I was sad about it, but I don't think of it often.
I think more often about the day after I had lain with my first playmate after my marriage opened up. He had a short penis. I'm not sure what the context was, but I told him I adore my pussy. He said, "Well, your pussy IS adorable." As we became close, I asked him about his experiences regarding the size of his erection. He never said it wasn't a problem at all. He said he saw it as a potential partner saying her vagina was too big for him, and never the other way around. We had taken things kind of slowly. I'd seen him several times before he kissed me, something I wasn't used to. I had complained that I felt like I was gettting mixed signals about his attraction. He told me I was beautiful, and his ex girlfriend had messed with his confidence, and he needed time. One day, I asked if it would be okay to kiss his cheek as we said our goodbyes. He allowed this, and then stole a kiss from my lips. It ignited a flame neither of us could put out. We had to choose one of our cars, drive a few blocks to a darker spot, and spend a few hours fucking in the car. It was like neither of us could stop. The next time, we made it all the way to my apartment. We tried to watch a movie, but we just kissed and then had to bone for SIX HOURS. Every time he tried to leave we tried to kiss goodnight, and ended up getting undressed for another round. I finally insisted we save the kiss for when he was standing outside my door. Even so I had to close the door quickly. I don't know about him, but I just stood there leaning on the door, panting, trying to slow my heartbeat. He was totally irresistable to me. Seemed mutual. He eventually married his ex. We stayed friends, though she feels very threatened by me (she should know he is loyal as fuck) and doesn't allow us much contact. I remember he was far more self conscious about scars from a car wreck than his penis, which didn't seem to bother him at all. As for myself, I liked his scars and his cock. He was hot. Once he kissed me, I don't think I have ever wanted anyone that badly. My vagina was heartbroken when he said he was going back to his ex.
I think lots of women have a story about a guy with a small dick who sucked in bed. I have two. I think lots of women have a story about a guy with a small dick who completely rocked the bed. I have several. I think lots of dudes with small dicks just keep it in perspective, and take their wins with their losses. I think it is unfortunate that lots of dudes with small dicks squander opportunities for fun and love and blame their dicks. I think society does allow for mocking and jokes about small dicks. I think there is a lot of negative signalling from media sourcesdirected at these people, and I do think that can habe a negative impact on individuals. I think the rest of us can acknowledge that, and shouldn't laugh, and shouldn't allow it. I DO think of all marginalized groups, men with small dicks may be the least heard, but they are also the least impacted. Yes, they are debased in all forms of pop culture, including dramas, comedies, movies, songs, and internet memes. But I think if the worst case scenario is people might find out and make fun of you, you cannot allow yourself to wallow and waste your life. Other people face far more impactful discrimination. I've been threatened, raped, sexually assaulted, followed. I know people who have been beaten, knew a woman who was murdered. People have been denied employment, housing, the right to honor the wishes of their significant other during medical crises. People have died alone because their significant other could not be classified as family. I have seen video of a beheading, which I forced myself to watch to the end, tears streaming, confused by the sound of my own whimpering, because a friend of mine is crazy when she is coked up, and she was insistent that I see what is happening today (well, it was 2017, I think) to gay men in some country or other that used to be part of USSR, where she was born. They were being lured out by personal ads, beaten, beheaded, and/or thrown from rooftops. I don't know why she needed me to see, or how she got video, but I have never seen anything so brutal and disturbing before or since. No one is doing these things to men because they are small.
So. To answer the title. Do any other groups have to put up with comedic shaming, and other shaming media messages? Depends on where in the world. To answer the OP, the skit is stupid, it isn't funny, and it isn't right. But do keep it in perspective. Outside of the example of the truly tiny, those with micropenises, who honestly have more obstacles (though some do still lead very normal love lives) the only thing keeping a guy with a small dick from success in life and with sex, is themselves.
I cannot say what it is like to have a small dick and present it to a new person for the first time. I know my vulva is similar to the shape that is glorified in porn, but it is plump and fleshy, and I only remove haor from the labia, and shape up the rest. I used to trim, but now I like the look and softness of a fuller bush on my pubic mound. Even so, I remember one potential playmate was very disappointed that my vulva didn't hold itself open, and that my ample breasts are real; he'd thought they were fake, which he preferred. He did not want to continue. He also did not want to stay friends. It did hurt my feelings, but it wasn't the end of the world. He asked me what I had done to my vulva. Like it wasn't perfectly normal. He lost his erection. He was totally turned off. I was sad about it, but I don't think of it often.
I think more often about the day after I had lain with my first playmate after my marriage opened up. He had a short penis. I'm not sure what the context was, but I told him I adore my pussy. He said, "Well, your pussy IS adorable." As we became close, I asked him about his experiences regarding the size of his erection. He never said it wasn't a problem at all. He said he saw it as a potential partner saying her vagina was too big for him, and never the other way around. We had taken things kind of slowly. I'd seen him several times before he kissed me, something I wasn't used to. I had complained that I felt like I was gettting mixed signals about his attraction. He told me I was beautiful, and his ex girlfriend had messed with his confidence, and he needed time. One day, I asked if it would be okay to kiss his cheek as we said our goodbyes. He allowed this, and then stole a kiss from my lips. It ignited a flame neither of us could put out. We had to choose one of our cars, drive a few blocks to a darker spot, and spend a few hours fucking in the car. It was like neither of us could stop. The next time, we made it all the way to my apartment. We tried to watch a movie, but we just kissed and then had to bone for SIX HOURS. Every time he tried to leave we tried to kiss goodnight, and ended up getting undressed for another round. I finally insisted we save the kiss for when he was standing outside my door. Even so I had to close the door quickly. I don't know about him, but I just stood there leaning on the door, panting, trying to slow my heartbeat. He was totally irresistable to me. Seemed mutual. He eventually married his ex. We stayed friends, though she feels very threatened by me (she should know he is loyal as fuck) and doesn't allow us much contact. I remember he was far more self conscious about scars from a car wreck than his penis, which didn't seem to bother him at all. As for myself, I liked his scars and his cock. He was hot. Once he kissed me, I don't think I have ever wanted anyone that badly. My vagina was heartbroken when he said he was going back to his ex.
I think lots of women have a story about a guy with a small dick who sucked in bed. I have two. I think lots of women have a story about a guy with a small dick who completely rocked the bed. I have several. I think lots of dudes with small dicks just keep it in perspective, and take their wins with their losses. I think it is unfortunate that lots of dudes with small dicks squander opportunities for fun and love and blame their dicks. I think society does allow for mocking and jokes about small dicks. I think there is a lot of negative signalling from media sourcesdirected at these people, and I do think that can habe a negative impact on individuals. I think the rest of us can acknowledge that, and shouldn't laugh, and shouldn't allow it. I DO think of all marginalized groups, men with small dicks may be the least heard, but they are also the least impacted. Yes, they are debased in all forms of pop culture, including dramas, comedies, movies, songs, and internet memes. But I think if the worst case scenario is people might find out and make fun of you, you cannot allow yourself to wallow and waste your life. Other people face far more impactful discrimination. I've been threatened, raped, sexually assaulted, followed. I know people who have been beaten, knew a woman who was murdered. People have been denied employment, housing, the right to honor the wishes of their significant other during medical crises. People have died alone because their significant other could not be classified as family. I have seen video of a beheading, which I forced myself to watch to the end, tears streaming, confused by the sound of my own whimpering, because a friend of mine is crazy when she is coked up, and she was insistent that I see what is happening today (well, it was 2017, I think) to gay men in some country or other that used to be part of USSR, where she was born. They were being lured out by personal ads, beaten, beheaded, and/or thrown from rooftops. I don't know why she needed me to see, or how she got video, but I have never seen anything so brutal and disturbing before or since. No one is doing these things to men because they are small.
So. To answer the title. Do any other groups have to put up with comedic shaming, and other shaming media messages? Depends on where in the world. To answer the OP, the skit is stupid, it isn't funny, and it isn't right. But do keep it in perspective. Outside of the example of the truly tiny, those with micropenises, who honestly have more obstacles (though some do still lead very normal love lives) the only thing keeping a guy with a small dick from success in life and with sex, is themselves.
How would you know about rejection?
How would you know what rejection for being too big feels like?
STOP SPEAKING FOR OTHERS
I think what's really going on is these guys are using these threads to attract men on the DL. I've seen walter sneak in and post some stuff that's queer as folk. And harry cruises the other side in these forums extensively.
How cunning.
How cunning.
Nope, this doesn't follow rom the rest of your post. It is not the only thing. The ravages of the patriarchy, the male pecking order are real. Many are not strong enough to withstand it though many are.
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Oh God that was funny!
I spat my morning coffee out.
He MUST be trolling for real, because I clicked on his profile awhile back and he had pics of penises on there that were at least 5"-6" long and pretty girthy as well.
Now, when confronted, I look again and there's no pics at all, and he's swearing his penis is under one inch.
This has ventured into the realm of the cartoony and surreal.
Go to his attachments tab. He can't delete the pics he posted to a thread.Oh God that was funny!
I spat my morning coffee out.
He MUST be trolling for real, because I clicked on his profile awhile back and he had pics of penises on there that were at least 5"-6" long and pretty girthy as well.
Now, when confronted, I look again and there's no pics at all, and he's swearing his penis is under one inch.
This has ventured into the realm of the cartoony and surreal.
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Men with small dicks feel badly about themselves. But only they are keeping themselves back in life. Nobody else is. Not one soul.
Are you claiming the patriarchy and male pecking order are denying men with small dicks access to physical safety, housing, employment and sexual intimacy? Name one person guilty of disallowing someone access to these things based on dick size.
Discouraged? EVERYBODY is fucking discouraged.
That's an exaggeration. Some people are elated about how their life is going. Often they are delusional, of course.
The attitudes of others in any endeavor can make it more difficult. It is all a matter of degree. Why blame the victim?
I saw it. That ain't no one incher. It's more like four to five, judging from the pic. Certainly not unusable by any means.
At this point, I think he is either in dire need of therapy or he is gaslighting us all.
If you take the time to go through his post history you'd probably conclude that he's just LPSG's biggest small dick troll.
He knows his dick is bigger than one inch.
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It is not an exaggeration. Everybody is discouraged about something, whether they will admit it to you personally, or not. If a person is literally the only person in their own way, that person is not a victim. There are no people standing in the way of the personal safety, employment, housing, medical care, or ability to socialize of any other person based solely on penis size, other than the person with the insecurity himself. I refuse to infantilize grown adults by calling them victims when they are the only ones standing in their own way.
Yeach, as usual; pull the pin, toss the grenade over the wall, count to 4. Walk away.
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