This is just more of the same assumption that coworkers are somehow always going to socialize, that these social situations somehow always wind up with two men in a locker room or even more ridiculously peeing in nature while facing each other. There are no "extraordinary steps" needed to avoid being seen. Don't get naked. Don't face people when you pee in the woods. This isn't difficult or extraordinary at all.Over time, with things that happen under normal socializing activities, men tend to see or glimpse the penises of their peers.
True, seeing an erect one is very rare. However, rightly or wrongly, estimates are made from flaccid dimensions. At the extremes of size this information is automatically gained when, for example, peeing in the woods, even when not facing each other. Digging it out as opposed to letting it flop out is pretty obvious. For those in the average range, peeing in the woods might not be determinative at all. But, of course, no one makes "average penis jokes." They make "small penis jokes."
I happen to have new living arrangements for about 10 months. 2 men I now associate with frequently for family reasons have seen my penis and I have seen theirs. In both cases because of being at the YMCA with respective families and using the locker room. Another guy might have some awareness from a hiking trip we took with our families. Though not directed at me, I heard 1 guy "joshing" another that "I didn't think it was that cold today" when he noticed him struggling to pee.
It took several months before we actually saw each other at the Y though we were there together routinely. Sure, I could have taken extraordinary step to avoid being seen through all this. However, in my estimation, that would give a worse impression than my small penis itself.
I have been asked this before, I answered though in less detail. People laugh it off as a small penis joke.
These social situations can happen. But they don't have to happen. If you want your privacy it is easily afforded even IN these situations. And the vast majority of men do not socialize with coworkers, ESPECIALLY MANAGEMENT....certainly not enough of them to set up your vaunted hierarchy, even IF they caught a glimpse of dick, and even if they decided to use dick size to determine who gets promoted (an assumption made by someone who clearly never was a manager).
You've built a house of cards. The foundation is the assumption of knowledge of size. It's a false assumption. If someone sees your dick, it's because you let them. Nobody told you to pee facing someone else. Nobody forced you to be naked in a locker room. If you did this, especially with this hierarchy paranoia, you did so on purpose.
As you know, I'm a nudist. I control who sees me nude. Outside nudist venues, I do not let anyone randomly view me nude. Ever. I never included coworkers in even the knowledge of my nudism. I don't discuss it with randos. Ever. Even someone such as myself, who is fine being nude among friends, is not so cavalier as to have no control over who sees me. For non-nudists, there is virtually no situation where a random coworker or friend would ever view them nude unless they chose to do so.
And within my nudist community, dick size, which IS well known, has never had a bearing on who led, who followed, who did anything. We are all just people. We happen to enjoy being without clothes when the weather is nice. We have all the same flaws and hang ups as everyone else. There is no utopia. There are disagreements, affairs, fights, grudges. But not once have I witnessed dick size as a factor. And that's in an environment where dick size IS known. In a work environment in the US in the last 40 years? No, that's not something people know unless you want them to know.