I know...all of you will gasp in horror, but I get tired of seeing the perfectly chisled, tanned, and shaved dudes in the gay flicks. So then when trying a different "genre", you end up with all bears or twinks. There seems to be no happy medium (or maybe I'm just not finding them). Sometimes the regular joe is sexier, and as already stated in previous replies, there are components missing from porn. ie: lust
Otherwise, I just find them boring. My thoughts of past experiences and imagination with future ones do just the trick for me.