Why do Gay men call their Ass a Pussy?

For me it has to do with the fact that I do like to feel like a “whore” in bed. I’m masculine looking and acting out of bed, so in bed I really like to feel my filthiest. So having my hole named as pussy, makes me feel like a “real” whore/slut. Plus I am very verbal, and driven by words, so the closer the words that make me feel like a filthy whore, the more excited I am.
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For me it has to do with the fact that I do like to feel like a “whore” in bed. I’m masculine looking and acting out of bed, so in bed I really like to feel my filthiest. So having my hole named as pussy, makes me feel like a “real” whore/slut. Plus I am very verbal, and driven by words, so the closer the words that make me feel like a filthy whore, the more excited I am.
For me, if I think of sex with a woman, I feel that anal is much more "slutty" and a bit more taboo than fucking her in the pussy.
So to me, if you call your ass a pussy... it feels a bit more ordinary and less slutty in my eyes, rather than you getting fucked in your butt. But yeah, I'm a total ass man and this is why :)
 
I think it's largely because there isn't really an equivalent word for gay men to call their arseholes so Pussy and other terms were co-opted. Personally I love it when a bottom refers to his hole as a pussy or another term while getting plowed good
 
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For me, my ass becomes an orifice craving penetration and pleasure. I literally squirm in my seat when my prostate is aching for stimulation. It becomes the epicenter of my sexual needs. The thought of a big cock using my hole to release its seed is so erotic.

I feel a different side of me comes out. When I am so anally aroused I think of my ass as my pussy. When it poops it is simply my ass. When I am hrny and crave to be fucked, by cock or dildo, it is my pussy.
 
I've been thinking about the question.
I like to say "pussy" because it denotes I'm a bottom and I take cocks on a regular basis.
I never heard a guy who is strictly a top use that term when talking about his hole.
I agree... being a totally submissive bottom, my body is there to strictly receive cock and cum, and satisfy the needs of the man. I don't even expect anything being done to my cock in return. I actually see my cock as just more of a clit in many respects. Any orgasmic pleasure I get comes from deeper inside... from my prostate.... my P spot inside my "pussy". My dick usually isn't even hard when I bottom.

Not using my cock as a man would in sex certainly makes my hole a "pussy" for me.
 
The bottom I fuck can call his hole as he wants.
Being 100% gay and top versatile, when active, I fuck a guy and for me the bottom just stays a guy!
I fuck a guy's asshole, not a pussy.
I agree. Why get hung up on words. We know it's not really a pussy, but if that's a turn-on for a guy, why should I care? I used to hate if a guy called me "daddy," but then one time when I was balls-deep in a FWB, he moaned, "oh, fuck, yes daddy!" and I stopped caring in that instant. It's just words. If everyone is happy, who cares?
 
Personally I don't care for an asshole being referred to as a pussy, this is purely from my own bisexual experience and perspective. Pussies and assholes are very different and I myself can't see the latter as the former. But that is just my personal opinion/preference though; if it's someone else's preference to call their asshole their pussy, they totally have that right and good on them. It's all about what makes you feel good, empowered, sexy, defined, that matters. Which I think is why a lot of gay men like to refer to their asshole as such. ;)
 
I bi and I love pussy. I thinks it’s hot a dude can be so sub he wants to get fucked like a bitch. He says fuck my pussy and I fuck it. I can make both both kinds of pussy cum hands free. That’s the goal :). Wet wet cum
When men fuck me they tell me I want to get in your pussy and I lt them fuck my pussy
 
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Well it has two different meanings, doesn't it? Ass or butthole or anus or rectum refers to a sewage outlet. Pussy refers to a sexual pleasure center not a sewer. It's fitting. And oh the fit!

Ass is a term for female pussy as well.

That said, when it comes to guys I say I'm an ass man because I want to top (or be topped by) guys not suck their dicks. When I bottom for a guy I don't care what he calls my pleasure hole. Nor do I care what term bottoms use to describe theirs. People use terms which turn them on. :cool:
 
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In my experience, many bottoms try and call their ass a pussy to see if I'm turned on by it or not.
I much prefer ass, hole and so on as a term, and 95% of the time they don't mind either.

I've had rare guys who were very feminine and at the same time liked being told that I was fucking their pussy... And I struggled a bit with the idea but complied, to please them :)
 
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