This picture give the right way to handle this.I was standing on the train this evening near a young man whose fly was wide open. I wanted to tell him, but the train was too crowded, and I didn't want to embarass him or give the wrong impression. It was actually kind of sexy, but nonetheless, I didn't want to cause any problems.
Men: How do you tell another man who you do not know that his fly is open?
if some stranger is actually angry because you were supposedly "looking at their crotch" but tried to help them save face- then they're the one with the issue.
Ever been watching TV and leaves falling out the window catch your peripheral view and momentarily distract you? It's possible to catch a bit of white (tighty whites) or metal (zipper) during movement and have that be enough to tell someone that they're open for view--- crotch staring is not always necessary.
I would want to be told for fear my elephant trunk would cause societal disruption.![]()
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